Question to Dom's from a Sub

[Celesialslave91111]

I'm a major Submisive, and I enjoy being a dosobedient one at that. Spanking is fun most of the time... but how does a disobedient Sub like me get teased and denyed without asking her Master? What kinds of things would you deny your Subs the pleassure of cumming for?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Actually, you might be a dominant bottom. You want to play on your own terms-- you want to have a lot of time and attention spent on you. Tease and deny games take effort, and result in your satisfaction, more than your partner's. Not that you would hear me for instance complain about it, as I set you up to fail... threaten punishment... got you worked up and sweating, begging for release... but, I am not a Domme. I'm a service top, and I want you to be happy, because making you happy-- forcing you to be happy, even-- is what gets me off.

Do not expect your partner to read your mind. If what you want is to be teased and denied, tell him about your fantasy, and make it clear that's your preferred play. If he is on your wavelength, all is well. If he doesn't want to lavish you with the kind of attention you need-- you may have to find a new play partner, and trust me more people, both male and female, who call themselves "doms" are actually service tops than otherwise.

 

[Celesialslave91111]

You make a great point.
And if and it truly could be, what you say is true, I will do my research and see what i can figure out if its who 'we' are as a 'Master' and 'Slave' Though since my play partner is my boyfriend lol.
I will tell him about my preference and we'll see how it goes. I Thank you for your answer.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Pleased to be of service

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I think we need to make t-shirts with Stella-isms on them, so that the knowledge can spread.

*nodsnods*

 

[Stella_Omega]

I think we need to make t-shirts with Stella-isms on them, so that the knowledge can spread.

*nodsnods*

I'll buy one!

*tries, unsuccessfully, to push ego back down*

 

[the captians wench]

I think we need to make t-shirts with Stella-isms on them, so that the knowledge can spread.

*nodsnods*

I've been looking for an excuse to buy one of those "yudo" screen printing machines.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I'll buy one!

*tries, unsuccessfully, to push ego back down*

Forget "Do you know John Baku?"

It should totally be "Have you listened to Stella Omega?"

 

[Etoile]

Could just be bratty, too. Nothing wrong with that if the dom is okay with it.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Could just be bratty, too. Nothing wrong with that if the dom is okay with it.

Could be. But as we know, "sub" is the hetero default word for every sort of bottom and since "sub" has so much behavioral baggage that comes with it, and since "sub" usually mans "woman" in hetero parlance-- I like to invite women who call themselves "major subs" to explore alternative descriptions for their sexual desires. They might discover that they really are submissive. They might discover that they've misnamed themselves. Either way is a good thing, in my opinion.

 

[StrayKat]

I think we need to make t-shirts with Stella-isms on them, so that the knowledge can spread.

*nodsnods*

I would rather buy Stella in one package.
She sounds like dream come true.

 

[Kojote]

I would rather buy Stella in one package.
She sounds like dream come true.

You'd find me counterbidding...

 

[StrayKat]

You'd find me counterbidding...

Do I get a discount for both of you?

 

[Stella_Omega]

My horoscope sure didn't say anything about all these lovely compliments!

 

[Kojote]

Wha...?
Discount? Discount?
Double price isn't nearly enough for...
Oh wait...

~Humbleness... Humility...
I'm not the master of the universe...~

I'm not thaaat worthy. But looking closer at it Stella is at least worth double the amount what you think. Plus a fee...
Uh... Wait again...

What exactly do you wan't me for again?

 

[StrayKat]

What exactly do you wan't me for again?

I need a maid.

 

[Kojote]

My horoscope sure didn't say anything about all these lovely compliments!

Horoscopes are blatant liars. Until they accidently say the truth, that is.

But when you see me in the vicinity you shuold know to be prepared for that.
I'd totally marry you immediatly if that wouldn't get me instantly killed by somebody who claims some exclusive rights over here... ,)

 

[Kojote]

I need a maid.

Ahem...
Check my posts here and get somebody to translate at least a small percentage of my german outpouring.
I'd make not even a terrible maid. You'd need about three people to clean up the mess afterwards. An two therapists for yourself...

 

[StrayKat]

Ahem...
Check my posts here and get somebody to translate at least a small percentage of my german outpouring.
I'd make not even a terrible maid. You'd need about three people to clean up the mess afterwards. An two therapists for yourself...

That is what you think

 

[Kojote]

That is what you think

Ah.. It's what I say. The truth is even worse and there are witnesses for that. Lot's of wittnesses... Traumatized witnesses... Even suicidal witnesses...

Aaaand I'm a terrible lover, too. Not even good for ten seconds...



GoddamnitwhydoIwritewhatIthinkatthemomentwithoutfilteringoutthelessadmirableparts?

 

[Kojote]

That is what you think

You have to admit that I'm working really hard to not get the job, don't you?