disobediant sub?

[centurion1986]

any one ever get your partners to be the sub and "struggle" as you try to have sex? like ive tried slapping her, pulling her hair and shes been struggling in bed.. it often takes a while to get inside her but she still tried to push me off... (she is acting) this is not rape. But its acting.

any experiances?

 

[MissProvocateur]

any one ever get your partners to be the sub and "struggle" as you try to have sex? like ive tried slapping her, pulling her hair and shes been struggling in bed.. it often takes a while to get inside her but she still tried to push me off... (she is acting) this is not rape. But its acting.

any experiances?

sounds like the minx is trying a little too hard. try your full weight on top of her, maybe some choking. she will get the message.

 

[centurion1986]

sounds like the minx is trying a little too hard. try your full weight on top of her, maybe some choking. she will get the message.

i always try to mount her doggy style but shes always trying to hit back with her arms etc.... how shall i choke her?

 

[Mjlonir97]

i always try to mount her doggy style but shes always trying to hit back with her arms etc.... how shall i choke her?

I would try to pin her shoulders to the bed or find a way to put your weight pinning her face down . With my sub i usually grapple with her till i get a position where her arms cant reach and i have wrapped my legs around hers so i have control.


no shit though when my sub likes to play this game the fact i know how to grapple helps

 

[Celesialslave91111]

personaly being a 'disobediant sub' we do it to try and get that torture. We struggle against our Masters because we like to have our hair pulled, or being choked. If you wish your sub to be submisive again, toy with her. Tease her until she begs for it, and if it goes on long enough she will beg for it reguardless of if she wantes to or not.

 

[DVS]

i always try to mount her doggy style but shes always trying to hit back with her arms etc.... how shall i choke her?

Why choke her? The B in BDSM stands for bondage. Tie her up. Tie her in a position of your choice...she can let off a little steam while you sit back and take a break. And watching her struggle to get free can be erotic as hell. Especially when you tell her what you're going to do to her and remind her that she can't do anything about it. Let that simmer in her mind a little bit, then play with her bound body a while, just to get her interest up. Her body will go along with you, even if her mind doesn't.

Bondage...one of my favorite things. Handcuffs work fine, if you need something quick, before she can take a swing at you. Then, you can take your time and tie her up with nice soft rope or Velcro straps or whatever. Think of it as a part of foreplay.

 

[BiBunny]

Have you told her not to do it?

 

[StrayKat]

Handcuffs work fine, if you need something quick, before she can take a swing at you. Then, you can take your time and tie her up with nice soft rope or Velcro straps or whatever. Think of it as a part of foreplay.

Foreplay indeed.
*fans self*

 

[Mjlonir97]

The B in BDSM stands for bondage. Tie her up. Tie her in a position of your choice...she can let off a little steam while you sit back and take a break. And watching her struggle.

When she struggles i just tease some more , the best is when someone is tied up with a scar or not really tied and you tell them they cant break it , or they know not to try to escape as part of the Dominance deal

 

[CutieMouse]

Have you told her not to do it?

Yeah. That.

I get plenty of hard, desperately painful, pulled hair, pinned down and choked, bitten to the point of bruised sex without fighting at all... and I still feel like I'm getting raped by a wolf/he still gets to feel like he's doing the raping.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Have you told her not to do it?

The drollness I imagine for the delivery of this line made it even better.

On the other hand, OP, if you like playing that game, she's hardly being disobedient. You're just both having fun. But call it whatever you like that gets your rocks off.

 

[centurion1986]

The drollness I imagine for the delivery of this line made it even better.

On the other hand, OP, if you like playing that game, she's hardly being disobedient. You're just both having fun. But call it whatever you like that gets your rocks off.

The game is for her to disobey but its my job to put her in line! and ANYTHING goes... Today i tied her up and FORCED a large butt plug into her ass without lube! she was screaming like a bitch. Then i opened her bra and flogged her with a chain flogger and created welts on her busty titties... she was in tears after, i removed the rope and she allowed me to fuck her without disobeying me.

 

[StrayKat]

The game is for her to disobey but its my job to put her in line! and ANYTHING goes... Today i tied her up and FORCED a large butt plug into her ass without lube!

I am not sure I like where this is going.

*If* this is not just some kind of wannabe fantasy, are you positive you know exactly what you are doing? Its not just a game you know...

 

[CutieMouse]

The game is for her to disobey but its my job to put her in line! and ANYTHING goes... Today i tied her up and FORCED a large butt plug into her ass without lube! she was screaming like a bitch. Then i opened her bra and flogged her with a chain flogger and created welts on her busty titties... she was in tears after, i removed the rope and she allowed me to fuck her without disobeying me.

Aaaaand this officially becomes a HNG wank fodder thread.

 

[midwestyankee]

Aaaaand this officially becomes a HNG wank fodder thread.

Fucking early holiday vacations. Why the hell can't schools keep their charges under lock and key until 6 pm on Christmas Eve like they used to? Hell, when I was young we had to go back to school at 7 am on the 26th, too.

 

[DVS]

The game is for her to disobey but its my job to put her in line! and ANYTHING goes... Today i tied her up and FORCED a large butt plug into her ass without lube! she was screaming like a bitch. Then i opened her bra and flogged her with a chain flogger and created welts on her busty titties... she was in tears after, i removed the rope and she allowed me to fuck her without disobeying me.

So, let me get this straight. You tied her up and then you FORCED a large butt plug into her ass without lube. Are you a fucking idiot? Is she a fucking idiot for letting you do this? I was going along with your first post because I enjoy a submissive with some spirit and that seemed to be what was going on. I don't like a submissive that just lays there and "submits" to anything I want. You said "she was acting", and that's part of the fun for me. When she stops fighting, I stop forcing. I don't use my advantage to do stupid things like the part of your post I bolded.

But, there are limits to what you should do...health limits...common sense limits. Something tells me you are just one of those 14 year old kids that is out of high school for winter break and bored. What non-consensual Lit story did you steal this scenario from?

Graceanne, are you on troll duty?

 

[Etoile]

Plus, scarves? Seriously?

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

The game is for her to disobey but its my job to put her in line! and ANYTHING goes... Today i tied her up and FORCED a large butt plug into her ass without lube! she was screaming like a bitch. Then i opened her bra and flogged her with a chain flogger and created welts on her busty titties... she was in tears after, i removed the rope and she allowed me to fuck her without disobeying me.

Sounds like you're the bitch, and got totally played

 

[centurion1986]

Dont worry, she always lubes up herself before we go to the bedroom. It just so happened that i didnt lube her. But she knows to lube herself..

She is very very sub, and has worked with many professional dominatrix. The chain flogger was fine. AND we dont play like this all the time as its requires recovery time.

Believe it or not but we do make love like normal people and we do have romance. It just so happens that from time to time we like strong BDSM.

She sometimes is my mistress, and believe me ive been serviced with that chain flogger to the point where my ass and chest have score lines on them.

 

[FurryFury]

Exactly what I was thinking!

Fucking early holiday vacations. Why the hell can't schools keep their charges under lock and key until 6 pm on Christmas Eve like they used to? Hell, when I was young we had to go back to school at 7 am on the 26th, too.

 

[midwestyankee]

Exactly what I was thinking!

I imagine that by the time you were old enough to going to school, things had loosened up a bit.

 

[DVS]

I imagine that by the time you were old enough to going to school, things had loosened up a bit.

Not me. I walked to school in waist deep snow (I was only 3 feet tall), tunneled into 5 and 6 foot drifts, and it was uphill all the way to AND from school.

Buses didn't come and get me. They were for the kids that lived on farms. Those buses always ran and always made it. I only remember a couple of times when the buses were late. There was one time when they didn't run at all and the farm kids spent the night with someone in town. But we all went to school the next day and nobody was late.

We listened to a crackly boring AM radio station in the early hours of the morning for our town to be named, so we didn't have to go to school. Most times, we didn't hear it. We didn't complain. We just bundled up and went to school. This winter break stuff was for college kids, not for us. It was just a fact of life.

OK, I'll say it. The kids now-a-days are pussies. So is this OP.

 

[CutieMouse]

Don't worry, she always lubes up herself before we go to the bedroom. It just so happened that i didn't lube her. But she knows to lube herself..

She is very very sub, and has worked with many professional dominatrix. The chain flogger was fine. AND we don't play like this all the time as its requires recovery time.

Believe it or not but we do make love like normal people and we do have romance. It just so happens that from time to time we like strong BDSM.

She sometimes is my mistress, and believe me ive been serviced with that chain flogger to the point where my ass and chest have score lines on them.

So if she's such a fabulous, experienced, smart little s-type - why the hell did you start a thread calling her disobedient? Because from the additional posts you've made, it sounds like she isn't being "disobedient". She's playing the game the way you like it.

 

[FurryFury]

And we LIKED it! Because it was all we had!

Btw, I was bad about taking those radios apart.

Not me. I walked to school in waist deep snow (I was only 3 feet tall), tunneled into 5 and 6 foot drifts, and it was uphill all the way to AND from school.

Buses didn't come and get me. They were for the kids that lived on farms. Those buses always ran and always made it. I only remember a couple of times when the buses were late. There was one time when they didn't run at all and the farm kids spent the night with someone in town. But we all went to school the next day and nobody was late.

We listened to a crackly boring AM radio station in the early hours of the morning for our town to be named, so we didn't have to go to school. Most times, we didn't hear it. We didn't complain. We just bundled up and went to school. This winter break stuff was for college kids, not for us. It was just a fact of life.

OK, I'll say it. The kids now-a-days are pussies. So is this OP.

 

[midwestyankee]

So if she's such a fabulous, experienced, smart little s-type - why the hell did you start a thread calling her disobedient? Because from the additional posts you've made, it sounds like she isn't being "disobedient". She's playing the game the way you like it.

You say this as if the OP is a rational person.