need some help/advice

aug491

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So I'm really into some of the BDSM lifestyle (mostly tease & denial, ballbusting, facesitting a bit) but its hurting me when it comes to regular sex with regular girls (harder for me to get into it if this stuff isnt involved) what can i do to either make this a non issue? do i have to faze bsdm outta my sex life , is that possible?

any advice would be great
 
So I'm really into some of the BDSM lifestyle (mostly tease & denial, ballbusting, facesitting a bit) but its hurting me when it comes to regular sex with regular girls (harder for me to get into it if this stuff isnt involved) what can i do to either make this a non issue? do i have to faze bsdm outta my sex life , is that possible?

any advice would be great

Ideally, you would set your focus into self-improvement with the goal of attracting a Dominant woman who would be good for you to be in a serious-long term relationship with, in my opinion. Because Dommes are one in a sea of a million submissive males, you need to STAND OUT in a big way. Be -better- than the other three hundred men she's talked to that month, you know what I mean?

Set the Vanilla girls aside and the one-night stands or whatever you're doing right now, and pour every ounce of your motivation into relentless skillbuilding. :D

Whether you're going into therapy to learn better relationship skills, learning how to cook or how to speak another language, traveling, perusing a higher education and a better job and getting physically fit, all of those "desirable" traits need intense focus.

In a perfect world, you'd pursue a suitable partner feeling confident and assured that you ARE worthy, and having those skills and desirable traits is a fantastic way of making yourself into a better partner. :)

That's what -I-'d do, in any case. YMMV.
 
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