Bi from top view

[michaelteschler]

Is there a single story of a bisexual man who tops rather than a submissive taking from his girlfriends lover? I'd love to read story about a man fucking his wife/girlfriend and there shared or his secret lover. Something other than just the BIG cock in tight ass thing...

 

[LucyH]

Is there a single story of a bisexual man who tops rather than a submissive taking from his girlfriends lover? I'd love to read story about a man fucking his wife/girlfriend and there shared or his secret lover. Something other than just the BIG cock in tight ass thing...

Wouldn't the girlfriend's lover in this scenario probably be a bisexual man who tops?

Edited to add: Oh, looked at the thread title. I guess he doesn't count if it's not his point of view?

 

[none2_none2]

Wouldn't the girlfriend's lover in this scenario probably be a bisexual man who tops?

Edited to add: Oh, looked at the thread title. I guess he doesn't count if it's not his point of view?

Good one!

 

[Little Bird]

It's onw of the annoying things here.

Almost anything involving men in non-heterosexual sex seems to revolve about fantasies of being degraded. It's really quite sexist.

But then take a look at the Fetish and Sexuality forum and 90% of the stuff there is incest. Just seems to be that kind of crowd that is drawn here.

 

[LucyH]

I do see what you guys mean, though.

What about a man and his boyfriend hitting on a female friend together? Driving her to distraction kissing and being friendly with each other, then using her thoroughly once she's all hot and bothered, to everyone's satisfaction. Then the guys go to bed together, letting her have the couch and a vibrator. Maybe they'll invite her over again the next time they get in the mood to scratch that itch.

 

[none2_none2]

It's onw of the annoying things here.

Almost anything involving men in non-heterosexual sex seems to revolve about fantasies of being degraded. It's really quite sexist.

But then take a look at the Fetish and Sexuality forum and 90% of the stuff there is incest. Just seems to be that kind of crowd that is drawn here.

I don't understand your post at all. I'm a top because I love to put my penis in a masculine, hairy, muscular guy's ass. I've never been that attracted to other guys' penises. It has nothing to do with degrading another guy, but bringing him pleasure from being filled. I wish it were possible to beed a man.

Do you consider the man who is being fucked as being degraded?

 

[LucyH]

Double post. Sorry.

 

[LucyH]

I don't understand your post at all. I'm a top because I love to put my penis in a masculine, hairy, muscular guy's ass. I've never been that attracted to other guys' penises. It has nothing to do with degrading another guy, but bringing him pleasure from being filled. I wish it were possible to beed a man.

Do you consider the man who is being fucked as being degraded?

That's the spin a lot of people put on it, which I think is part of the complaint.

I think getting fucked and degraded go well together, like peanut butter and chocolate (assuming you like that sort of thing.) But that doesn't mean you can't also have peanut butter and jelly, or chocolate covered cherries. We've just got a slight oversupply of Reese's Pieces right now.

 

[CandiCame]

I do see what you guys mean, though.

What about a man and his boyfriend hitting on a female friend together? Driving her to distraction kissing and being friendly with each other, then using her thoroughly once she's all hot and bothered, to everyone's satisfaction. Then the guys go to bed together, letting her have the couch and a vibrator. Maybe they'll invite her over again the next time they get in the mood to scratch that itch.

I'd read that.
Hell, I'd do that if my bf weren't such a stickler. I'm still hoping to get him out of it.

 

[CandiCame]

That's the spin a lot of people put on it, which I think is part of the complaint.

I think getting fucked and degraded go well together, like peanut butter and chocolate (assuming you like that sort of thing.) But that doesn't mean you can't also have peanut butter and jelly, or chocolate covered cherries. We've just got a slight oversupply of Reese's Pieces right now.

I happen to like Reece Cups...

 

[boredVAwife]

wow does anyone NOT like peanut butter and chocolate?

 

[LucyH]

I happen to like Reece Cups...

Well then, aren't you lucky there are plenty to go around?

wow does anyone NOT like peanut butter and chocolate?

Yes, actually, there are people who don't like peanut butter and chocolate. I've lived with 2 of them.

 

[cf23430]

wow does anyone NOT like peanut butter and chocolate?

Yeah I know I love it.....

 

[CandiCame]

One of my friends is allergic to peanuts. He was tripping on acid really hardcore and we stopped at a mini-mart to get snacks (we were all either high on pot, shrooms, acid, or drunk- I was all but drunk. Because I was driving. Spoiler alert- NEVER DRIVE ON ACID.) he grabbed a pack of Reece Cups- right before he put on in his mouth I realized what he was doing and I was all, "Dude! Don't eat that!?"

He happily ate it and asked, "Why?"

Then his throat closed up and we had to take him to the hospital while I sat and watched the walls melt in the waiting room. It was a horrifying night.

 

[Queen_Vicki]

I do see what you guys mean, though.

What about a man and his boyfriend hitting on a female friend together? Driving her to distraction kissing and being friendly with each other, then using her thoroughly once she's all hot and bothered, to everyone's satisfaction. Then the guys go to bed together, letting her have the couch and a vibrator. Maybe they'll invite her over again the next time they get in the mood to scratch that itch.

but that's not bi, it's two gays guys fucking with a girl.

 

[LucyH]

but that's not bi, it's two gays guys fucking with a girl.

Why would the fact that a couple guys are dating each other make them gay? If a bisexual guy started dating a woman, would he turn straight?

 

[Queen_Vicki]

Why would the fact that a couple guys are dating each other make them gay? If a bisexual guy started dating a woman, would he turn straight?

Because by my definition if two people of the same sex dates each other exclusively, and only wants the opposite gender for some sex, and send them else where once they are done, then they are in a gay relationship. The same thing can be said for women too.

and if a bi guy dates a woman, then I guess he is just dating a woman, or he have nothing else better to do.

 

[LucyH]

Because by my definition if two people of the same sex dates each other exclusively, and only wants the opposite gender for some sex, and send them else where once they are done, then they are in a gay relationship. The same thing can be said for women too.

Sure, it'd be a gay relationship, but it doesn't suddenly change the sexual orientation of the people involved. Been there, done that, and I'm quite sure that I didn't turn into a lesbian for a year. In fact, there was this guy my girlfriend and I started off just playing with and then sending him away, but then we got attached and next thing you know, we were all living together and thinking it was too bad that a 3-way marriage was probably never gonna be legal in our lifetimes.

 

[goodsonformom]

Is there a single story of a bisexual man who tops rather than a submissive taking from his girlfriends lover? I'd love to read story about a man fucking his wife/girlfriend and there shared or his secret lover. Something other than just the BIG cock in tight ass thing...

Oddly......or not.....that's the way i always experienced it. It was my old "boy next door" being caught by by wife at the time........and she was sub to us. Or me bringing home a young sub guy who my wife and I had our way with........

 

[goodsonformom]

Why would the fact that a couple guys are dating each other make them gay? If a bisexual guy started dating a woman, would he turn straight?

lol.............

 

[CandiCame]

Why would the fact that a couple guys are dating each other make them gay? If a bisexual guy started dating a woman, would he turn straight?

I had a drunken argument with my boyfriend about this. He's so fucking gay- apparently, despite having dated women exclusively before me- and I can't help but think that that's a load of bullshit. You don't just "go gay" for someone. He says that once he's in a relationship, he stops being attracted to or even noticing other attractive people. I don't. I'm totally still attracted to women, would still sleep with/date women, except for the whole 'relationship' thing I've got going on. I honestly don't think that dating a man, even exclusively, makes me gay.

It just makes it way funnier when we spontaneously go through the "you know how I know you're gay?" thing from 40-year-old virgin; which we honestly do pretty frequently.

"You know how I know you're gay? Because you give me a reach-around when you're fucking me in the ass."

"That's just common curtosy."

 

[jackstud]

So enjoy giving reach arounds

 

[Queen_Vicki]

Sure, it'd be a gay relationship, but it doesn't suddenly change the sexual orientation of the people involved. Been there, done that, and I'm quite sure that I didn't turn into a lesbian for a year. In fact, there was this guy my girlfriend and I started off just playing with and then sending him away, but then we got attached and next thing you know, we were all living together and thinking it was too bad that a 3-way marriage was probably never gonna be legal in our lifetimes.

I am very glad that happened for you. Not only do you have two to love but, you have two that loves you back. But what I am saying if a man chooses to spend his life, and time with another man then he is gay. Look I would love to read a story with two men and a woman fall madly in love with each other, but all I see is two men fuck each other while the chick just sit there. But that won't happen in my story.

 

[LucyH]

I am very glad that happened for you. Not only do you have two to love but, you have two that loves you back. But what I am saying if a man chooses to spend his life, and time with another man then he is gay. Look I would love to read a story with two men and a woman fall madly in love with each other, but all I see is two men fuck each other while the chick just sit there. But that won't happen in my story.

Well, I did have two to love for a while, anyway.

And I certainly didn't mean to say that the woman would be just an observer. Really, if anyone would be the center of attention in my hypothetical story, it'd be her, just because she's new and different for them, and people pay attention to things that are new and different. Tossing her the vibrator at the end is just in case she wakes up in the middle of the night thinking dirty thoughts.

 

[LucyH]

He says that once he's in a relationship, he stops being attracted to or even noticing other attractive people. I don't. I'm totally still attracted to women, would still sleep with/date women, except for the whole 'relationship' thing I've got going on. I honestly don't think that dating a man, even exclusively, makes me gay.

Well, I even had a bit of that going on with my girlfriend for a couple of months at first. I didn't much notice or think about men. I wondered if I was turning into a lesbian or what. But then I realized I just had an enormous crush on her and I was obsessing about her a ridiculously large fraction of the time. If I took the time to think about it, men were still appealing. I didn't have time to obsess about her AND think about men AND pass all my courses, though. Then the hormonal madness wore off around midterm, and my brain went back to normal.