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Thank you. I am sorry to hear about what happened with your father, that is awful! :(:mad: I am also sorry to hear about your Nan, it sounds like you have peace with her passing, that is lovely.


I lost my dad almost 12 years ago, when I was only 19. I had a very good relationship with him. His passing was sudden, unexpected and hardest to deal with, is that it was also most likely preventable, if he had received medical attention sooner than he did. :( Dad had infectious pneumonia. By the time he finally went to the hospital, the infection had spread too far through too much of his body, there was nothing to be done. :(

Hi Sweetness,

I'm sorry your Dad left you so suddenly. :rose: It's great that your relationship with him was a good one. The what-ifs and if-onlys are torturous, aren't they? He wouldn't want you to hurt your heart over him though, would he? He would want you to live a happy life and remember the good times together? :) :kiss:

My Nan is my Angel-on-my-shoulder. Maybe your Dad is yours?
 
*hugs* doing alright hon. How about you?

Glad you're doin' OK. :kiss:

Had youngest cherub for the weekend and had a ball! Wasn't so bad to let him go back this weekend. Watched Rugby Union World Cup grand final with cherubs at ex's before I went home. All very civilised really. :D

Oh, New Zealand beat France. YAY!
 
Glad you're doin' OK. :kiss:

Had youngest cherub for the weekend and had a ball! Wasn't so bad to let him go back this weekend. Watched Rugby Union World Cup grand final with cherubs at ex's before I went home. All very civilised really. :D

Oh, New Zealand beat France. YAY!

YAY Sounds like a wonderful weekend!!

I hope that everyone is having a good week so far. I'm off to see the hand surgeon today. A little nervous but hoping this will be the last doctor. It's been a long line of people since February.
 
YAY Sounds like a wonderful weekend!!

I hope that everyone is having a good week so far. I'm off to see the hand surgeon today. A little nervous but hoping this will be the last doctor. It's been a long line of people since February.

*hugs* I am certain this will be the last one....and the one that finally does what has been needed all along.
 
Hi Sweetness,

I'm sorry your Dad left you so suddenly. :rose: It's great that your relationship with him was a good one. The what-ifs and if-onlys are torturous, aren't they? He wouldn't want you to hurt your heart over him though, would he? He would want you to live a happy life and remember the good times together? :) :kiss:

My Nan is my Angel-on-my-shoulder. Maybe your Dad is yours?

I'm sorry, I'm just now seeing this. :eek: Thank you. I know you are right, some events in the past year or so just have me thinking about it more. :)
 
YAY Sounds like a wonderful weekend!!

I hope that everyone is having a good week so far. I'm off to see the hand surgeon today. A little nervous but hoping this will be the last doctor. It's been a long line of people since February.

Hope that hand surgeon got it together and did good for you!!! :rose:

Big *HUGS* Spicy and positive, loving thoughts for the best outcome! :rose:
 
*hugs* I am certain this will be the last one....and the one that finally does what has been needed all along.

Hope that hand surgeon got it together and did good for you!!! :rose:

Big *HUGS* Spicy and positive, loving thoughts for the best outcome! :rose:

technically the last new doctor. Going back to my one up here and I have a hard decision to make between now and then. It will be alright either way, eventually..
 
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