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Thanks VanGogh.

But, you know? Truly, everything is all right now. Even though what's going on around me with all of these couples feels bad - ultimately, the changes are for the best. I hate seeing anyone stuck in a relationship that isn't right for them. But even though all will be better for them soon, right now, within every one of these stories, there is someone in pain - and I hate that.

And yes! It is football season. As I've said before, I've never really had a team that I rooted for consistently. I was always drawn to the character of the players. Well - I guess I should say "persona" since so much of it is manufactured by PR people. Anyway, I've had so much fun bonding with my brother & other family & friends over golf that I'll be "auditioning" the Cowboys for the #1 spot. We'll see how the season goes.

I need to take you to a Texans game then.
 
a little understanding

I know what you mean about watching couples go through hard times, whatever the reason. It hurts to see folks you care about in pain. As you say though, the changes and shifts ultimately will be for the better, we have to believe that.

Also, I too have followed teams based on character and personnel, rather than a particular set of colors. I followed the Seahawks years ago because Chuck Knox seemed to have a club of character but now there just doesn't seem to be anyone that draws me, other than San Diego, but that's just because the QB went to my old alma mater. I miss good old football, you know?

take care,

:rose::rose::rose:
 
The most important thing is for you to take care of you and get things in perspective. And when your ready to start again, we all will be here waiting for your return. But take care of yourself.

Agreed! :)

Don't know if/ when I will post more photos, so it's a good thing there are SO many gorgeous and engaging women here on Lit to keep y'all entertained.

I had several from this weekend - I was travelling - that I thougth would be fun to post for you all. But then - I felt weird. You see - before, I wasn't out and about much. And when I was, I wasn't meeting and talking to men - so even if I did run across someone who had seen me on Lit, chances were slim that he would have the opportunity to make the connection.

But now? Well, you never know. I had a great photo of me before heading out for cocktails with friends (GREAT dress, lovely cleavage) and I cropped it, but then realized I was about to attend two nights of events and mingle with hundreds of people. If anyone recognized the dress - and me - it could get very awkward.

Not that I'm ashamed at all. I love all of the photos - the stories behind them, the progression through the thread. But -- I've seen what has happened to other women here on the board. And I know how callous some men can be - especially if they feel rejected. So, I don't think it's wise for me to continue posting at this stage.

It's a shame... because it's SO much fun.

Life is a complicated machine. Then add love into the mix and it really gets mucked up. Mine has lasted 28 years and pretty Im sure it wont last 29. Life changes people and its too short to be involved in something that you don't want to be involved in.

Awww... if you're pretty sure now that it won't last; and if "life is too short to be involved in something you don't want to be involved in"; then... ?

:confused:

Don't you be worrying about pics old or new sweetie:)
You focus on yourself and come on and chat with your online friends:rose:
We're here for you and not just your pics:kiss:
Take care and make use of your friends :heart:

Very sweet PH.
 
no matter what you do sweetie, you will always have tons of fans and friends on here...i wish nothing but the best for you
 
:rose:

Happy to help, m'lady.

:)

That is a very open and honest assessment of Lit and of people... I think we are all out of our fucking minds.... and if my brand of crazy works for me... don't tell me otherwise. ;) Hope you find your brand of crazy that makes you smile, here or where ever.

Love the attitude. And I agree - everyone is entitled to their own brand of crazy.

I wonder how I'll find my brand of crazy... with travel, work, and more travel don't know if I'll have time to look for it. Hmmmm... maybe it can find me?:rolleyes:

While I can relate... isn't it time that the lit people charter the love boat and sail into the sunset? :kiss::heart:
Glad to hear the move is done and you are looking to new horizons. :heart::rose:

On Sweetie... a love boat sailing into the sunset sounds PERFECT. Can we be sure it is a one-way charter?:kiss:

I need to take you to a Texans game then.

I dunno... I still can't get used to "Houston Texans" I know it's been a while, but "Oilers" makes much better sense.

I know what you mean about watching couples go through hard times, whatever the reason. It hurts to see folks you care about in pain. As you say though, the changes and shifts ultimately will be for the better, we have to believe that.

Also, I too have followed teams based on character and personnel, rather than a particular set of colors. I followed the Seahawks years ago because Chuck Knox seemed to have a club of character but now there just doesn't seem to be anyone that draws me, other than San Diego, but that's just because the QB went to my old alma mater. I miss good old football, you know?

take care,

One of the Cowboys QBs went to mine. Hope he does well.

To the front page with you!

Aw, that's very sweet, Typofunk. But really, you'll just disappoint whoever stumbles on the thread. They'll be sad to see all this text - no skin in sight.:rolleyes:
 
ENJOYED READING WHAT YOU POSTED

Why is it that we have an attractive woman, sexy figure, and also bright and witty....

THEN some Assholes ruin it for the rest of us by sending lewd and rude PMs

Before long....see quits

Too bad there is not a better way to protect our favorites.
 
no matter what you do sweetie, you will always have tons of fans and friends on here...i wish nothing but the best for you

:) Thanks BDA. I appreciate it.

ENJOYED READING WHAT YOU POSTED

Why is it that we have an attractive woman, sexy figure, and also bright and witty....

THEN some Assholes ruin it for the rest of us by sending lewd and rude PMs

Before long....see quits

Too bad there is not a better way to protect our favorites.

Nooooo... that's not what happened. Yes I have had a few lewd/rude PMs, but I can ignore those fairly well. (Or were you thinking of my reference to other women here? That went beyond offensive PMs)

Anyway, no. It's just a matter of - for now at least - I'm still finding my way as a single woman. Weird - you'd think I'd have a bigger problem posting as a married woman, right?

Besides, anyone who knows me or who has followed me/ read my posts... knows that as my mood shifts, so does my mind. Who knows what tomorrow will bring?
 
:)



Love the attitude. And I agree - everyone is entitled to their own brand of crazy.

I wonder how I'll find my brand of crazy... with travel, work, and more travel don't know if I'll have time to look for it. Hmmmm... maybe it can find me?:rolleyes:

I am sure you have your own brand of you, you got here right? :D If you need help finding a brand of crazy still stupid sexy that fits you there are hundreds here and thousands around the world looking to lend a hand!!
 
Agreed! :)

Don't know if/ when I will post more photos, so it's a good thing there are SO many gorgeous and engaging women here on Lit to keep y'all entertained.

I had several from this weekend - I was travelling - that I thougth would be fun to post for you all. But then - I felt weird. You see - before, I wasn't out and about much. And when I was, I wasn't meeting and talking to men - so even if I did run across someone who had seen me on Lit, chances were slim that he would have the opportunity to make the connection.

But now? Well, you never know. I had a great photo of me before heading out for cocktails with friends (GREAT dress, lovely cleavage) and I cropped it, but then realized I was about to attend two nights of events and mingle with hundreds of people. If anyone recognized the dress - and me - it could get very awkward.

Not that I'm ashamed at all. I love all of the photos - the stories behind them, the progression through the thread. But -- I've seen what has happened to other women here on the board. And I know how callous some men can be - especially if they feel rejected. So, I don't think it's wise for me to continue posting at this stage.

It's a shame... because it's SO much fun.



Awww... if you're pretty sure now that it won't last; and if "life is too short to be involved in something you don't want to be involved in"; then... ?

:confused:



Very sweet PH.

You've got to think of yourself, your safety and your self-esteem first sweetie
But I hope you will still come on for chats...I would, and do, miss the chats :kiss::rose:
 
je suis tres triste ...

if you don't come back, but I do understand that real life does take precedence over the scribblings here. If you don't come back I'll wish you the best and miss you, but the world is a better place for having such an intelligent and passionate woman in it.
take care,
:rose::rose::rose:
:kiss:
 
Besides, anyone who knows me or who has followed me/ read my posts... knows that as my mood shifts, so does my mind. Who knows what tomorrow will bring?

Just remember the words of the Bard.
"This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man."

Now I of course would replace "false to any man", with false to anyone, yourself included.

Just my own two cents for a beautiful and sweet lady. :rose:
 
It was a fun run,interesting reading and very nice pics from time to time....good luck,God Bless and thanks for showing what a real woman looks like and that smart is sexy too.
See you around one of these days Tx. all my best Seamus221
 
Oh TX! I must say you were the one that made me create an account so I could comment! You were the one!! I SOOOO hate to see you leave. I just want to thank you so for all the posts and all the BEAUTIFUL and SEXY pics that only you could share. I totally understand your reasons for privacy. I wish only the best for you TX. in everything that you do! I know that I am not the only one but you will be missed my Dear....:(
 
I am sure you have your own brand of you, you got here right? :D If you need help finding a brand of crazy still stupid sexy that fits you there are hundreds here and thousands around the world looking to lend a hand!!

Ha ha! Thanks MrAnyGuy. I'm glad you think there are so many willing to help me find my brand of crazy sexy... only time will tell, I suppose.

You've got to think of yourself, your safety and your self-esteem first sweetie
But I hope you will still come on for chats...I would, and do, miss the chats

I could still visit for chats. Guess I could explore the other parts of the site as well, huh?

Want me to sing the Houston Oilers fight song? :D

Ha ha! I forgot they had a fight song. No - you'd have a hard time gettin me to Houston anyway.

if you don't come back, but I do understand that real life does take precedence over the scribblings here. If you don't come back I'll wish you the best and miss you, but the world is a better place for having such an intelligent and passionate woman in it.
take care,
:rose::rose::rose:
:kiss:

:eek: You guys! You're bringing tears to my eyes. I really didn't mean this as a goodbye. But I guess. if I'm not going to be posting pics in the Am Pic forum...

Now I'm so confused!

Just remember the words of the Bard.
"This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man."

Now I of course would replace "false to any man", with false to anyone, yourself included.

Just my own two cents for a beautiful and sweet lady. :rose:

Polonius' advice to Laertes, no? I love this. When I went away to college I had photocopied it (the whole thing) laminated it and put it on my wall along with other inspirational poems my Mom used to read to me growing up.

It was a fun run,interesting reading and very nice pics from time to time....good luck,God Bless and thanks for showing what a real woman looks like and that smart is sexy too.
See you around one of these days Tx. all my best Seamus221

Wow - I really didn't mean for this to turn into a goodbye. But I appreciate the well wishes. And comments. I'm very touched.

Oh TX! I must say you were the one that made me create an account so I could comment! You were the one!! I SOOOO hate to see you leave. I just want to thank you so for all the posts and all the BEAUTIFUL and SEXY pics that only you could share. I totally understand your reasons for privacy. I wish only the best for you TX. in everything that you do! I know that I am not the only one but you will be missed my Dear....:(

Wow - thanks, Frank. I hadn't really planned on leaving - just not planning on any photos any time soon. But, truth be told, the fun banter and insights are usually fueled by the photos. So I guess, realisitically speaking - it's really not possible to keep the thread going as a text only interaction. :(
 
As I've said before, one of the cool things about this thread (other than the naught pics :) ) is how honest and open you are.

The way you write all this stuff about relationships is magazine article quality and it's real talk.

So, big props for that.

btw, You should write a story or article or something and submit it to Lit. I'm sure it will be well recieved.
 
I could still visit for chats. Guess I could explore the other parts of the site as well, huh?

You'd better visit for chats :cool: lolol
When exploring the other parts of the site let me know if you find anything interesting :devil:
And please don't think that no pics = you have to go :(
It doesn't. No pics means no pics. It doesn't mean go away there's no point you being here. Remember, your pics are the icing on the cake (they help ceate the icing :devil::eek:), they're not the sole reason we want to chat with you:kiss:
 
it's simple, darlin'...

It is so simple, we really don't want you to go. As someone else here said the photos are the icing on the cake, but the real reason we come here is .. well, I won't make the obvious reference to anything half-baked, cake or no cake, but your views of life, your humor and way of expressing yourself.
Remember 'The Rainmaker'?

'Lizzie ... don't go.'

:rose::rose::rose:
:kiss:
 
Agreed! :)

Don't know if/ when I will post more photos,


Hello TX, I really hope it is not goodbye, perhaps it’s not everyone’s point of view but your thoughts expressed in your writing was always what drew me to your thread. I did appreciate your photos which at times took my breath away by their audacity
I also thought you attracted a pretty decent kind of men and women who had the privilege of sharing your journey through your experiences this last year and a bit.
If the mood takes you please continue posting, your personality shone through over the life of your thread.
 
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Polonius' advice to Laertes, no? I love this. When I went away to college I had photocopied it (the whole thing) laminated it and put it on my wall along with other inspirational poems my Mom used to read to me growing up.


Hi TX,
You must have been a serious young woman at college, I mistakenly thought the main aim at college was to indulge in houghmagandies (an old Scots name
for taking part in sexual shenanigans) and drinking.
 
Ha ha! Thanks MrAnyGuy. I'm glad you think there are so many willing to help me find my brand of crazy sexy... only time will tell, I suppose.



I could still visit for chats. Guess I could explore the other parts of the site as well, huh?



Ha ha! I forgot they had a fight song. No - you'd have a hard time gettin me to Houston anyway.



:eek: You guys! You're bringing tears to my eyes. I really didn't mean this as a goodbye. But I guess. if I'm not going to be posting pics in the Am Pic forum...

Now I'm so confused!



Polonius' advice to Laertes, no? I love this. When I went away to college I had photocopied it (the whole thing) laminated it and put it on my wall along with other inspirational poems my Mom used to read to me growing up.



Wow - I really didn't mean for this to turn into a goodbye. But I appreciate the well wishes. And comments. I'm very touched.



Wow - thanks, Frank. I hadn't really planned on leaving - just not planning on any photos any time soon. But, truth be told, the fun banter and insights are usually fueled by the photos. So I guess, realisitically speaking - it's really not possible to keep the thread going as a text only interaction. :(

You better not leave us :)
 
Hello Tx! Hope you are having a good weekend! Just wanted to say you are missed and not just for your pics! It was ALWAYS the way you expressed your thoughts to all of us that kept me coming back for more! I do hope you will drop in from time to time just to keep us updated on how you are doing!
 
As I've said before, one of the cool things about this thread (other than the naught pics :) ) is how honest and open you are.

The way you write all this stuff about relationships is magazine article quality and it's real talk.

So, big props for that.

btw, You should write a story or article or something and submit it to Lit. I'm sure it will be well recieved.

Wow - thanks for the kind words HeyAll. I have thought of writing stories to submit, but decided against it.

Though I come across as very open in the thread here, I thinkg writing stories/ fiction ect. would be far too revealing. I have always been guarded and private, and very few (maybe 3) people have had the opportunity to fully know me. And of those three - 1 & 2 knew a very different person than I am now. Well, same person, different experience levels. And #3 - well the Fates have intervened.

I don't even know why I fear "exposing myself" by writing stories and fiction - it's not like I have deep dark secrets or anything. Still, that's probably why I didn't pursue a certain type of writing. Oh well - maybe someday.


You'd better visit for chats :cool: lolol
When exploring the other parts of the site let me know if you find anything interesting :devil:
And please don't think that no pics = you have to go :(
It doesn't. No pics means no pics. It doesn't mean go away there's no point you being here. Remember, your pics are the icing on the cake (they help ceate the icing :devil::eek:), they're not the sole reason we want to chat with you:kiss:

LOL - "Vist for chats"? What are we going to chat about?

I'm up for chatting. Actually - I do enjoy the openness on Lit. I think the anonymity has allowed many of us to share insights and experiences that would never be exchanged IRL.

But really - I'm at a bit of a loss as to how to initiate the conversation - which does not bode well for my dating life.

Hmmm - maybe that's what we could chat about - y'all could give me dating advice. :)

It is so simple, we really don't want you to go. As someone else here said the photos are the icing on the cake, but the real reason we come here is .. well, I won't make the obvious reference to anything half-baked, cake or no cake, but your views of life, your humor and way of expressing yourself.
Remember 'The Rainmaker'?

'Lizzie ... don't go.'

The Rainmaker! Wow! Brings back memories of Drama classes. SO much fun.

Agreed! :)

Don't know if/ when I will post more photos,


Hello TX, I really hope it is not goodbye, perhaps it’s not everyone’s point of view but your thoughts expressed in your writing was always what drew me to your thread. I did appreciate your photos which at times took my breath away by their audacity
I also thought you attracted a pretty decent kind of men and women who had the privilege of sharing your journey through your experiences this last year and a bit.
If the mood takes you please continue posting, your personality shone through over the life of your thread.

Aww - thanks, Verbatum. I loved taking and sharing photos. Who knows, maybe someday I will again. But for now, it just doesn't seem like the right choice.

I also love (d?) sharing my journey here on Lit. I was going through wome extraordinary experiences. Well - they felt extraordinary to me, anyway. These days - my experiences are ridiculously mundane... to the point of being cliche. I'm not sure how compelling they would be if I did share them. :rolleyes:
 
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