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I have a question for all of the lesbians here on the Forum.
Do you hate men? The reason that i am asking is because years ago i had a boss that was a lesbian and i was the only male on the staff at this business that i worked for the rest were women and she treated them nice but me she treated like i was the scum of the earth. I treated her respectfully and was polite and did my job quite well but no matter how nice i was to her or how well i did my job she still treated me like scum.

I don't think that's a lesbian thing- I think that's just sexism.
 
Treating someone different is not necessarily sexism. Sexual discrimination maybe.

It has nothing to do with her being a lesbian. In fact, be careful with that. Here in Australia you could find yourself given a warning, under investigation, suspended, fired, or all of the above for even talking about someone's sexual preference.

Types of unlawful discrimnation
race
colour
sex
sexual preference
age
physical or mental disability
marital status
family or carer’s responsibilities
pregnancy
religion
political opinion
national extraction or social origin

Discrimination at work? Go through the correct avenues.
It's important to know what your rights are at work.

Adverse action taken by an employer includes doing, threatening or organising any of the following:
dismissing an employee
injuring an employee in their employment
altering an employee’s position to their detriment
discriminating between one employee and other employees
refusing to employ a prospective employee
discriminating against a prospective employee on the terms and conditions in the offer of employment.

Also, treating someone differently is not necessarily unlawful discrimination. Some different treatment such as general performance management may not be an unlawful discrimination issue. An action is only considered adverse action if it occurs due to one or more of the above attributes (race, sex, age, disability, etc). If this is not the basis of the action, it may not be considered an act of unlawful discrimination.

Hope that helps.
 
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Some do, some don't.

Some lesbians don't like men particularly, but can still be fair to male employees. Could be, some lesbians might act worse to their female employees, who knows?

Some bosses simply suck as bosses, regardless of what sex they are or what their preferences are.
 
I had a lesbian boss a few years back and we used to have a blast together! She didn't hate men, she just liked women!
 
I have a question for all of the lesbians here on the Forum.
Do you hate men? The reason that i am asking is because years ago i had a boss that was a lesbian and i was the only male on the staff at this business that i worked for the rest were women and she treated them nice but me she treated like i was the scum of the earth. I treated her respectfully and was polite and did my job quite well but no matter how nice i was to her or how well i did my job she still treated me like scum.


Couple of thoughts:

Why do you automatically think that because she's a lesbian that that has anything to do with it? I'm sure there are straight women that don't like you either.

Secondly, after reading through your comments, I've seem where you have repeatedly stated that you are "sexually frustrated", "addicted to porn" and "obsessed with sex". Do you think you just might have been showing this to your boss, as well as the other women you work with? Could it be that what you describe as her "treating you like scum" was due to your own actions or were corrective actions to address your behavior?

I AM sure of one thing - as a minority woman in a leadership role, especially when dealing with a disabled man, she made sure she had well documented grounds for any disciplinary actions.

In other words: Sorry dude, your story ain't sticking together well and kinda smells of homophobic scapegoating in MY mind. Just sayin.
 
Dude, do NOT PM me again, please. I have absolutely 0% interest in exchanging private messages with you, K?
 
I have a question for all of the lesbians here on the Forum.
Do you hate men? The reason that i am asking is because years ago i had a boss that was a lesbian and i was the only male on the staff at this business that i worked for the rest were women and she treated them nice but me she treated like i was the scum of the earth. I treated her respectfully and was polite and did my job quite well but no matter how nice i was to her or how well i did my job she still treated me like scum.


no, we don't all hate men. That's like asking do all _____ hate all _______ (fill in your own blanks). Maybe she as a person did not like you as a person. And since you didn't give examples of how she treated you differently, it's really hard to answer what her motivation may have been.
 
There's no reason to hate someone because you aren't sexually attracted to them.


I agree, I didn't mean she would hate the man because of her orientation, I meant it's not always the case that it's because of the man.
 
I had a lesbian boss a few years back and we used to have a blast together! She didn't hate men, she just liked women!

Sounds like a very cool boss :D

Couple of thoughts:

Why do you automatically think that because she's a lesbian that that has anything to do with it? I'm sure there are straight women that don't like you either.

Secondly, after reading through your comments, I've seem where you have repeatedly stated that you are "sexually frustrated", "addicted to porn" and "obsessed with sex". Do you think you just might have been showing this to your boss, as well as the other women you work with? Could it be that what you describe as her "treating you like scum" was due to your own actions or were corrective actions to address your behavior?

I AM sure of one thing - as a minority woman in a leadership role, especially when dealing with a disabled man, she made sure she had well documented grounds for any disciplinary actions.

In other words: Sorry dude, your story ain't sticking together well and kinda smells of homophobic scapegoating in MY mind. Just sayin.

You know it.

Dude, do NOT PM me again, please. I have absolutely 0% interest in exchanging private messages with you, K?

Oh gawd!

no, we don't all hate men. That's like asking do all _____ hate all _______ (fill in your own blanks). Maybe she as a person did not like you as a person. And since you didn't give examples of how she treated you differently, it's really hard to answer what her motivation may have been.

Thank you Clio. That's kinda the way I was thinking. :kiss:

There's no reason to hate someone because you aren't sexually attracted to them.

Exactly.
Do lesbians hate puppies? No, I like puppies.
Do lesbians hate cereal for breakfast? No I like cereal.

:D
 
Looooooooool. Too many people put us into some new category like we're a new species that has to follow some set of rules. If one of us does something, the rest must have to.
It's obnoxious. I've had some of the worst questions like that.
Once a friend of mine asked me if lesbians like dildos.

I forgot sexual orientation changed the type of stimulation you like.
FORGOT!

It is like we're a new species!
I think a lot of the men on here are quite silly.
It's ridiculous. And REALLY annoying.
The question is: What's next?
Is someone going to rush me with an anal probe?
 
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I don't hate men, I hate assholes. If some assholes are men, I hate them, but not because they are men.
 
I have a question for all of the lesbians here on the Forum.
Do you hate men? The reason that i am asking is because years ago i had a boss that was a lesbian and i was the only male on the staff at this business that i worked for the rest were women and she treated them nice but me she treated like i was the scum of the earth. I treated her respectfully and was polite and did my job quite well but no matter how nice i was to her or how well i did my job she still treated me like scum.

Some people get treated they way they deserve. Just their egos are so inflated they can't understand how come they are not idolized by everyone.
 
I know, right!

So, dude, did you do anything about the whole discrimination thing?

What? The "mean, evil, man hating lesbian" discrimination or the "she didn't like me for cause so I'm calling her a mean, evil, man hating lesbian" discrimination?
 
What? The "mean, evil, man hating lesbian" discrimination or the "she didn't like me for cause so I'm calling her a mean, evil, man hating lesbian" discrimination?

The reason that i am asking is because years ago i had a boss that was a lesbian... "

^ Discrimination
 
I have a feeling the guy just drags perfectly nice people into this slough of being mean to him.
 
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