Women and Bi-sexuality

[DarkrSide]

They say that every woman is if not atleast bi but atleast Bi-curious. Women? Do you think that's true? Do you find yourself attracted to other women even if you say you are straight? I don't think there is another thread on the topic so I thought I would start one.

For example I posted a picture of my girlfriend and I at the beach. In the picture you can't see her bathing suit so a mutual friend of ours commented that she liked it cause she thinks my girlfriend may be topless in it. I would never expect this from her. She is a happily married woman. So I was slightly caught off guard by it, but of course pleased.

Are all women atleast bi-curious or guilty of checking out other women?

 

[LindsayRae]

I think every person has the "potential to be bi". It's just that far too many men are worried about labels to fully enjoy their sexuality.

 

[positivetension]

I consider myself straight but most of the porn I look at are female nudes...and when there is sex it's girls together as often as it is girls and guys. I think culturally we are conditioned to see women as the focus of beauty and sensuality (sorry, can't speak for gay men) so it's very natural to think of women sexually even if you're not lesbian.

I'm sure I'll try being with a girl someday, but I can't picture myself in a relationship with one. It just interests me as an experience. I've had some female friends I've been very flirtatious with but only because we were close and open about such things. It was a turn-on teasing each other, but it was playful and kind of comfortable...not heart-pounding and intense like being with a guy.

So I hesitate to even call myself bi-curious.

 

[grannykat]

I had no idea I was bi anything until I was 63. Until then I had always admired beautiful women, but I did not feel a sexual attraction. One day I was in a sexual frenzy with a man (giving him oral) when an extra pair of hands came out of nowhere, a woman's hands. I could tell because they knew what they were doing. In the space of a few orgasms, I found myself totally bisexual. I do not regret not having realized this decades ago; I guess my time had finally come, so to speak.

 

[DarkrSide]

Thanks LindsayRae, PositiveTension and Grannykat for your input. I would have thought more people would have chimed in.

I am a heterosexual man. Only in the last few years have I been able to admit if other guys are attractive looking. I am not saying I want to suck a guy's dick but I can atleast recongize that I can see why they are considered attractive or not.

 

[GrimsPet]

Nice topic.

I've been with one woman back in my graduate school days.
I consider myself bisexual, however I classify myself for most purposes as heterosexual because I do prefer men over women for the most part and on that broad spectrum of sexuality I probably fall someplace smack dab inbetween heterosexuality and bisexuality. I would consider sex with a woman again if it was one I had a good attraction to. Though I love hot hard cock a heck of a lot!

 

[DarkrSide]

Thanks Grimspet.

I have noticed a few people in my life that I would think are totally 10000% hetero atleast flirt with another woman. It's kind of a beautiful thing!

 

[grdybiwife]

Well not all women are anything but I do agree with somebody under me who said something about women being condition to recognize the beauty of other women but that doesn't always translate into sexual attraction. I consider myself bisexual because I'm definitely attracted to women, but sometimes using that label gets other a little perturbed because I'm married to a man. I dated women before and it so didn't work out. I've found that men are more 'accepting' of their bi girlfriends than women are. Now that something else that's should be discussed I think.

 

[DarkrSide]

Good question, GradyBiwife. Why is it more acceptable for a woman to admit that she is bi then a man? I wish I had an answer for you on that. Doesn't make sense. It is the same thing.

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

I can't speak for all women but studies say that everybody has some bi in them.

I do not feel that the ability to recognize a person of the same gender as attractive or sexy makes a person less straight. It just means you have eyes and not a fool.

I have not met a girl who claimed to be straight that I could not seduce if I found her attractive.

 

[DarkrSide]

Oooooh, I like your confidence Little_Oral_Amy. I am starting to agree that most women have a little bit of Bi in them.

 

[grdybiwife]

Good question, GradyBiwife. Why is it more acceptable for a woman to admit that she is bi then a man? I wish I had an answer for you on that. Doesn't make sense. It is the same thing.

Not exactly, I meant in a relationship a straight/bisexual man is more likely to accept his female partners bisexuality than a lesbian/bisexual woman. But to answer your question because society teaches men to suppress all 'weak'/'effeminate' urges from crying to a finger in the ass all the way down to sucking cock.

 

[LindsayRae]

Oooooh, I like your confidence Little_Oral_Amy. I am starting to agree that most women have a little bit of Bi in them.

It's not just women, though. As I said, most men out there are too scared of labels to fully enjoy sexuality.

 

[grdybiwife]

It's not just women, though. As I said, most men out there are too scared of labels to fully enjoy sexuality.

Exactly. Just like everything else in this world besides murder and violent crimes there are shades of gray to the sexuality spectrum.

 

[DarkrSide]

I fully admit that I have had a woman finger and lick my ass and I will definitely admit to enjoying it. Not exactly the easiest thing to request again. But I will admit to liking it. Alot.

 

[Stella_Omega]

More women are what you might call "lesbo-romantic" than actually sexually attracted to other women, They will dote on their girlfriends, cuddle, worry about them, move in together, call and text every hour on the hour...be pretty much married in every way-- except not even consider the remotest possibility of sharing sex with a woman. And it's totally understood that someone finding a boyfriend ends the arrangement.

..seems fucking wierd to me,but whadda I know?

I fully admit that I have had a woman finger and lick my ass and I will definitely admit to enjoying it. Not exactly the easiest thing to request again. But I will admit to liking it. Alot.

"Baby, you ever finger a man's ass? I sure do looove it. Want to try it for me?"

And then be sure to moan and whimper to let her know how good it feels. Wiggle a bunch. All the things you love when women do them

 

[DarkrSide]

More straight women definitely do grope other women then straight men grope other men. I have lost count how many straight women will touch breasts. I'd never walk up and grab a cock. But hey, that's just me!

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

More straight women definitely do grope other women then straight men grope other men. I have lost count how many straight women will touch breasts. I'd never walk up and grab a cock. But hey, that's just me!

I give bonus points for light groping.

 

[Stella_Omega]

More straight women definitely do grope other women then straight men grope other men. I have lost count how many straight women will touch breasts. I'd never walk up and grab a cock. But hey, that's just me!

Not too many straight woman grope another woman's cunt, which is more the equivalent of grabbing a cock.

More men grope tits than women do-- if they think they can get away with it. And in fact women who grope other women's tits often grope men's tits too... I think titty lovers just love titties.

 

[Babeslady]

There is so much ambiguity about the definition of bisexuality that it would be difficult to work out how many women are bisexual. Does bisexual mean 'wants to have hot pussy licking all night sex with another woman and then go home to husband in the morning'?

Or does it mean 'happily able to have a full romantic marriage with either a man or a woman'?

Or does it mean just a small level of curiosity about how another womans body feels.

Personally I agree, EVERYONE males and females have some level of curiosity about other people of the same gender. Our culture has conditioned women to think it is normal for them and so they express it more or less freely. On the opposite side of the fence men are conditioned to think it is NOT normal and so they are conditioned to hide any leanings they might have.

Something I have come accross as a bisexual swinger and don't like at all is the 'show pony' aspect of bisexuality. ie women who play with other women purely for their husband's viewing pleasure. Not because they have a genuine like for breasts, nipples or pussy.

Just because I like breasts nipples and pussy doesn't mean I will have an attraction to every single one that comes my way. I am selective about every one male or female who has access to my body. I think most people feel this way so if a woman hasn't been attracted to another woman maybe it is because she hasn't found the right one yet.

 

[Astaylith]

I'm primarily attracted to men, but I do fantasize about women, watch lesbian porn, and would probably be open to doing things with woman. It's just a matter of being open minded.

 

[Calypso]

A LIT friend & I were chatting, & I told him that I was wanting to experience a woman eating my pussy. And maybe more if I felt the urge. I commented that I might find out I was bi. He said he didn't believe in being 'bi', that it was more about the fact that I liked sex, period. No matter where it came from.
I think I like that idea.............

 

[bichiwife]

I've had a few experiences with woman over the years and love the way it feels when she pleasures me and I enjoy pleasuring her as well. However, I don't enjoy kissing a woman one bit. I want to look deep into a man's eyes when I am kissing. I could never imagine settling down with a woman. It is fun to play, chat and cum together, but it ends there for me.

 

[quicksylver69]

A LIT friend & I were chatting, & I told him that I was wanting to experience a woman eating my pussy. And maybe more if I felt the urge. I commented that I might find out I was bi. He said he didn't believe in being 'bi', that it was more about the fact that I liked sex, period. No matter where it came from.
I think I like that idea.............

This makes a lot of sense to me, I feel the same way.

 

[Ex Princess]

I consider myself straight, although I have experimented some with the fairer sex and did enjoy it. I just know that ultimately I am more attracted to men and one will make me happier than a woman could.