A question for the men....

r_baby

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Just reading some of the other threads, and wanted to do a little survey.

How quickly can you get hard again after orgasming?

Does it differ if you're having sex, or flying solo?
 
Just reading some of the other threads, and wanted to do a little survey.

How quickly can you get hard again after orgasming?

Does it differ if you're having sex, or flying solo?

I think its different for everyone. Me if im solo I go for a few hours so it take a while. But if im having sex after I cum I normally can stay semi hard till I either quite or she starts stroking/sucking again.
 
Just reading some of the other threads, and wanted to do a little survey.

How quickly can you get hard again after orgasming?

Does it differ if you're having sex, or flying solo?


Depends on situation, if feeling very horny and properly stimulated can get hard again very quickly
 
like the other guys depends on situation, very aroused and horny sometimes i dont get fully soft and stay are the whole time.
 
It depends on who you are with and what she is doing and when you are by yourself how quickly you can get your mind in geer
 
LOL...did you get any help with that? How long did it take to "diminish", as it were?

I'm all KINDSA' curious now! :D

Mmm, well, yes, I had someone to help raise the flag, as it were. ;)

Well, I think all told, I was hard like a baseball bat for about two-three hours or so, then on and off for another couple after that.

It was something else.
 
it all depends who you're with!

If I'm "fucking myself" and having a good masturbation session, I can normally get right back on the saddle right after I cum and I can go over and over again until i'm just too physically exhausted, but on the other hand, I've been with some pretty crappy love partners who are selfish with their orgasms and then again i've been with a couple who are wonderful and want to go again right away, and if the right vibe is there, and you're tickling and touching and kissing right along with me, I can go again almost immediately!

SO with that said...
 
I knew this guy....

....who had this bounce back thing REALLY working in his favor...

From a female perspective...it was fuckin' hot.

Just sayin'.
:cool:
 
When masturbating, there have been a few times where I can stay hard through an orgasm. Thankfully, asiababy_3, meowminx, xxjessica, rawrr, kiwikitty, and Kahlo, have all helped me cum twice while keeping a hard on. There have been times where I have gotten it up within 5 minutes of the second orgasm and cummed a third time. It's a great feeling having warm jizz all over myself or on my hand, and having a rather stiff cock still. It usually takes a little effort the second time to cum, but my dick can stay hard.
I just get so fucking horny.
Now, in the bedroom with a lady, I'd have to say on average, about 10-15 minutes. However, usually when I'm having sex, it means I've jerked off a few days before in anticipation(unfortunately I'm a hornball) and I can't pull off multiple orgasms with one hard-on, although, if there are any girls in the western PA area, I'd love to try it out and get back to you...;)
 
in my opinion its age activity when I was 20 I could do it 5 or more times a night almost staying hard right through it all. now normal night would take me about an hour but if it is really hot it can be shortened to about 10-15 min.
 
General consensus so far is, it depends who you're with and how hot it is....

Though I know this isn't the case for everyone
 
General consensus so far is, it depends who you're with and how hot it is....

Though I know this isn't the case for everyone

For me one of the biggest factors is situation. If i'm in a car with my pants at my knees it will take much longer than if i'm in bed fully nude.

On average I leave about 10 minutes for cuddle time in between, i'd say.. I'm not as experienced as most of the guys here, though. (And it takes subsequently longer for the 3rd time... and the 4th. But that's as many times as i've ever gone in a 10-hour period, lol)
 
Like most of the other responses have said, it really depends on the situation and whether I'm flying solo or with someone, and how revved up I am when I have my orgasm. Could take a handful of minutes, could take an hour or more.
 
Just reading some of the other threads, and wanted to do a little survey.

How quickly can you get hard again after orgasming?

Does it differ if you're having sex, or flying solo?


several years ago it was a matter of seconds. now in mid-30s it rather depends on the situation.

even though getting a hard in general is not the issue... getting really rock hard is a differend story and coming again is also not always easy... it really depends

flying solo - it of course differes less, as you know what needs to be done...

so what's your reason for your curiosity?

HH
 
With me it is a matter of how long I have been going for the first time.

I have been known to put in up to six hours solo time and then be able to get it back up within half an hour if there is sex or something else that really catches my solo fancey.

If it is sex first I will normally need about an hour and a good snack to get myself back up to full power.
 
In my opinion, it does matter if you're solo or with someone. Another big factor...age.

It takes me a little longer to get hard enough to go again, I'd have to guess at least 15 minutes if my lover either takes me in her mouth or hands. If left to my own with just more foreplay, maybe 30 minutes to an hour. And it also depends on how often you're having sex.

It's one of those things I've come to accept and work around. My lover has no complaints though.
 
Age arousal level and number of times with that parmer..
Age its easy...
Arousal plays a big part unless the girl can stimulate your mind as well
Repetition its the enemy
 
If i'm in a car with my pants at my knees
Haha, does this happen often?! :D
cuddle time in between
Awwww

so what's your reason for your curiosity
Well, mainly I'm just a curious person, and as the only means of comparison I have are personal, I was wondering about a wider audience.

If it is sex first I will normally need about an hour and a good snack to get myself back up to full power.
That's hilarious! :D
 
It depends. (On lots of things.)

And I have noticed refractory periods tending to become longer as I've aged.

Generally, things take longer at 55 than they did at 25.

But as the bumper sticker says: "I'm as good once as I ever was."
 
It varies, there are times when it just stay's hard. It depends on the situation.

Typically you give me a glass of water and ten minutes is more than long enough.

A good snack wouldn't hurt either.
 
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