boredVAwife
Not a wife anymore.
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- Nov 17, 2010
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A couple months ago I was forced to make a decision between my alt lifestyle and my husband. I walked away from Lit. I lost contact with a few very wonderful ladies and one in particular I felt close to. I gave up most of my social life (motorcycle riding club) I suggested and gave my all to marriage counseling. I gave and tried and cried my eyes out. Result: Husband cannot accept me and we are separated. Lost touch with some very good friends - some lifelong and others new but special. Feel like I gave up lots of ME for nothing. No pity wanted or needed just hoping anyone that is conflicted will take a deep breath and be true to you and what YOU want because you cannot change others opinions and bottom line is your opinion of self matters most of all. Take care all.