If a guy that you are sexually and emotionally involved with

[wellnow]

Ladies what if a guy that you are sexually and emotionally involved with wanted you to sit on his face for oral sex,

1. what would be your probable reaction?
2. How would it affect your opinion of him after the fact accepting or not?

I have always enjoyed face-sitting with women that I am really in to and have never even considered it as extreme or a fetish and if it is so be it. I'll have to accept being weird

I have always thought that women would enjoy the freedom and the opportunity to have more control of their oral climaxes making sex better for both, I hope.

Thanks,

 

[Eilan]

I don't understand why this is supposed to be weird.

 

[swtrthnhoney]

1. mmmmmmmm
2. does not change view of him (except maybe wondering when it would happen again)

 

[Sonchyenne]

1. Rigging the situation such that my hips didn't give out too annoyingly soon. Argh.

2. Oh, it'd change my view of him: his offer and willingness to repeat it would improve said view.

 

[RoxyChick69]

Is he real?? Where can I find him?

Ladies what if a guy that you are sexually and emotionally involved with wanted you to sit on his face for oral sex,

1. what would be your probable reaction?
2. How would it affect your opinion of him after the fact accepting or not?

I have always enjoyed face-sitting with women that I am really in to and have never even considered it as extreme or a fetish and if it is so be it. I'll have to accept being weird

I have always thought that women would enjoy the freedom and the opportunity to have more control of their oral climaxes making sex better for both, I hope.

Thanks,

1. Of course I'd mount right up!
2. My opinion would be one of great admiration and adoration, and yes, like the rest, I'd be wondering when the offer would cum again! He'd be at the top of my "most adored" list for sure!

 

[wellnow]

I don't understand why this is supposed to be weird.

Something that I read about female dominance, dominant positions and the reflection on a persons masculine image or lack thereof before his lover and others I suppose. I certainly didn't want to believe it and if it were true, I wouldn't change.

Thanks, Eilan.

 

[wellnow]

1. mmmmmmmm
2. does not change view of him (except maybe wondering when it would happen again)

Don't need to wonder, how about in 5 minutes. Thanks for answering.

 

[wellnow]

1. Rigging the situation such that my hips didn't give out too annoyingly soon. Argh.

2. Oh, it'd change my view of him: his offer and willingness to repeat it would improve said view.

Wow! Each one gets better

thanks,

 

[jenni7]

1. Probably reaction would be a big smile as I happily obliged
2. Wouldn't change the way I thought about him in a negative at all. To me this is not a fetish or "weird" in any way, shape or form. I consider it foreplay

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

Something that I read about female dominance, dominant positions and the reflection on a persons masculine image or lack thereof before his lover and others I suppose. I certainly didn't want to believe it and if it were true, I wouldn't change.

Most women are not going to be thinking about female dominance / diminished masculine image when you proposition them for a mustache ride I would say a very, VERY small segment of your possible female audience would be thinking along those lines. And if they are thinking like that, well, you have found yourself a live wire and would have to make your choices from there

 

[Cattypuss]

Ladies what if a guy that you are sexually and emotionally involved with wanted you to sit on his face for oral sex,

1. what would be your probable reaction?
2. How would it affect your opinion of him after the fact accepting or not?

I have always enjoyed face-sitting with women that I am really in to and have never even considered it as extreme or a fetish and if it is so be it. I'll have to accept being weird

I have always thought that women would enjoy the freedom and the opportunity to have more control of their oral climaxes making sex better for both, I hope.

Thanks,

I do it very frequently for my man. Let me tell you that he was the first man to want it - and that was after I'd been sexually active with various men for around 25 years.

I am happy to do it and I often come from it but to be honest I feel it lacks intimacy. When you are sitting on a man's face, you are sat up staring at the wall, your torso is not in contact with him, your arms are not around him and you can't see his face. That to me is lack of intimacy.

 

[lovecraft68]

Ladies what if a guy that you are sexually and emotionally involved with wanted you to sit on his face for oral sex,

1. what would be your probable reaction?
2. How would it affect your opinion of him after the fact accepting or not?

I have always enjoyed face-sitting with women that I am really in to and have never even considered it as extreme or a fetish and if it is so be it. I'll have to accept being weird

I have always thought that women would enjoy the freedom and the opportunity to have more control of their oral climaxes making sex better for both, I hope.

Thanks,

I don't see why it would matter, this is the female equivalent of when a man straddles his partner and fucks her mouth. Now I don;t know about you but that does not lower my opinion of the woman so why would they think less of us? I offered my wife to do it and she couldn't hop on fast enough.

 

[Cattypuss]

Uh oh. I see we've been here before.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=740968

 

[unregistered]

 

[wellnow]

1. Of course I'd mount right up!
2. My opinion would be one of great admiration and adoration, and yes, like the rest, I'd be wondering when the offer would cum again! He'd be at the top of my "most adored" list for sure!

Thanks, RoxyChick. Your answer amazing. I was afraid to even ask the question. Being on your "most adored" list would be great for anyone.

 

[wellnow]

1. Probably reaction would be a big smile as I happily obliged
2. Wouldn't change the way I thought about him in a negative at all. To me this is not a fetish or "weird" in any way, shape or form. I consider it foreplay

As did I, Jenn. Thanks for the confirmation.

 

[wellnow]

Most women are not going to be thinking about female dominance / diminished masculine image when you proposition them for a mustache ride I would say a very, VERY small segment of your possible female audience would be thinking along those lines. And if they are thinking like that, well, you have found yourself a live wire and would have to make your choices from there

Thanks, Pleasure_Fan. I'm glad to hear that she would be the exception that hopefully proves the rule.

 

[wellnow]

I do it very frequently for my man. Let me tell you that he was the first man to want it - and that was after I'd been sexually active with various men for around 25 years.

I am happy to do it and I often come from it but to be honest I feel it lacks intimacy. When you are sitting on a man's face, you are sat up staring at the wall, your torso is not in contact with him, your arms are not around him and you can't see his face. That to me is lack of intimacy.

That could be a problem, Cattypuss. Thanks for mentioning the possible down side. I have never considered that but have felt that my partner would hopefully be better able to "scratch where it itches" than when doing conventional cunnilingus.

 

[wellnow]

I think we tried this once ever, but I didn't enjoy it. I felt awkward and uncomfortable and much more aware of our position than relaxed and enjoying it. If my husband asked to try this again, I might, but I'm much more likely to tell him I'd much prefer to lay back and enjoy his attention.

thanks JtohisPB. as they say "variety is the spice of life."

 

[bailadora]

Something that I read about female dominance, dominant positions and the reflection on a persons masculine image or lack thereof before his lover and others I suppose. I certainly didn't want to believe it and if it were true, I wouldn't change.

Pffft....please.

Sexual acts/positions are neither inherently dominant nor submissive. It's the attitude/intent that counts.

 

[s3ve3ns]

Wow, am I ever in the minority here!

I wouldn't be comfortable with that at all. Even tho I'm not overweight by any means, I'd still be afraid of squishing my guy. My luck he'd end up being smothered and I'd spend hours "down at the station" answering some rather uncomfortable questions.

So....yeah. Not for me.

 

[Sonchyenne]

Bodacious Magazine ran an advice article on "BBW face-sitting." Similarly, I saw a sample clip from a site of that name (no really -- there's a whole website devoted to the practice) that should assure anyone of almost any weight that there's no way they could accidentally smother their partner. For one thing, depending on his strength he could probably shove you off of him in the unlikely event of things getting that dire.

The last time I sat on someone's face, it was someone who liked breath play but didn't want to be smothered. What I rigged was simply to have them lay on my bed perpendicular to the footboard, so that I could lean over on it and have a lovely look out the window as my partner licked my clit. My folded arms took enough of my resting weight that with the occasional wiggle from me to give them some fresh air, my partner was fine. I may have also made sure that their head was on a firm pillow so that I wouldn't have to hunker down low and risk my hips giving out and sending me crashing down onto their face.

Having been under someone whose default for resting was to press down on my face, I had a great deal of sympathy for my partner. I wasn't crushed but I did panic.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I think we tried this once ever, but I didn't enjoy it. I felt awkward and uncomfortable and much more aware of our position than relaxed and enjoying it. If my husband asked to try this again, I might, but I'm much more likely to tell him I'd much prefer to lay back and enjoy his attention.

This.

Not enjoyable for me, but he seems to have fun.

Funnily enough, I'm more comfy if we 69.

 

[wellnow]

Pffft....please.

Sexual acts/positions are neither inherently dominant nor submissive. It's the attitude/intent that counts.

Thanks, bailadora. Sooooo true, but Soooo NOT understood as many other "old wives' tales" about sexuality that we can't seem to get past.

Thanks for the reality check.

 

[wellnow]

This.

Not enjoyable for me, but he seems to have fun.

Funnily enough, I'm more comfy if we 69.

We are all soooo different. I, a man who obviously has no idea, thinks that face setting would be the most desirable and enjoyable position for oral sex.

Thanks for your opinion.