Ladies - Do you fantasize about seeing men, like men fantasize about you?

[sugra]

I have always wondered this, and this forum does not seem to answer my question. It seems very much like the ladies here fantasize about sharing their pics and hearing about men getting off, but not as much about seeing those men getting off.

Ladies - What are you fantasy situations to see men in? Are there outfits, places, poses?

Share them here, and us men will be happy to oblige your fantasies with pictures.

 

[sugra]

Is it that you are not stimulated visually, or something else?

 

[pwr2theblondes]

Depends on the guy

 

[sugra]

So confusing!!

 

[pwr2theblondes]

Is it that you are not stimulated visually, or something else?

I am visually stimulated but there has to be feelings behind it. Not necessarily LOVE but at least affection of some kind. No matter how hot the man if he can't make me laugh or challenge me in some way then its not arousing to watch. If he does make me laugh and keeps me on my toes than watching him pleasure himself thinking of me is very very hot.

It's that I find it gross to know of someone having happy time to a picture of myself, male or female.

I also don't upload dirty photos of myself here.
It'd be different if I did, though no young girl like myself wants to know about some middle-aged man masturbating to a picture of her. That's pretty disgusting.

I find male masturbation repulsive anyway. Throwing a hand up and down their penis at 5000 mph. Yeah, that's attractive. No I wouldn't ever fantasize about someone doing that.

Not all men masturbate like that. Some can be very sensual. But I agree that kind of jacking off is repulsive.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

I have always wondered this, and this forum does not seem to answer my question. It seems very much like the ladies here fantasize about sharing their pics and hearing about men getting off, but not as much about seeing those men getting off.

Ladies - What are you fantasy situations to see men in? Are there outfits, places, poses?

Share them here, and us men will be happy to oblige your fantasies with pictures.

Is it that you are not stimulated visually, or something else?

Addressing both of your questions posed. I do NOT have a pic thread, tho occasionally I've posted pics -they're scattered about, not all are linked- Depending on the guy I don't mind watching a guy cum...I find it can be extremely erotic, esp if I was the ONLY reason for him having been aroused. Most guys seem to watch porn, read stories, view pics, and then want to get release and if a woman is merely the facilitator of that release yet not the MAIN reason for his arousal it's a disappointment.

I CAN BE stimulated visually but for the most part I'm more Aurally & mentally stimulated.
If a guy sends me a text or a PM that says "want to play" my smartass side may reply "whatcha wanna play, scrabble, chess, etc.," There has to be some sort of teasing, playful flirting, b/c few (if any) women can go from "I'm stressed to the max" to a place of "I'm horny as fuck" in a nano second like a man can.

There was one guy that I use to talk to, and just what he would say & his voice would arouse me...like I've never been aroused. He had the gift of what I would call mental seduction, and I would suggest it was his age that taught him how to use his head between his shoulders -as opposed to the head between his legs- in talking to women. He could turn me on FAST -and it was NOT purely based on the physical, tho he wasn't hard to look at - where I would pretty much be at the point of tears wanting him so much.

I guess the only way to sum it up for the guys that are PM'ing women at random on Lit and are getting no replies...learn how to seduce a womans mind and you'll likely see a change in amount of replies.

It's that I find it gross to know of someone having happy time to a picture of myself, male or female.

I also don't upload dirty photos of myself here.
It'd be different if I did, though no young girl like myself wants to know about some middle-aged man masturbating to a picture of her. That's pretty disgusting.

I find male masturbation repulsive anyway. Throwing a hand up and down their penis at 5000 mph. Yeah, that's attractive. No I wouldn't ever fantasize about someone doing that.

Not all of the AmPic threads are of men w/ blatant "in your face" cock shots (some are, and they fizzle and fade quickly) -just take a look at KCJ, Muracommie, NTinNY etc., They are NOT "dirty" photos, if anything they are erotic, tasteful, teasing, etc., Likewise not all the women that have AmPic thread are all "in your face" w/ the here's my ass, boobs, and pussy shots. P2TB for example has some pics (the white dress series) that are downright Classy, Alluring and Sexy and they are not "dirty"!

Bumping up on P2TB Not all men are like that...granted it may seem a habitual habit for some, but some men actually are quite considerate, sensual, and they get aroused knowing that they were able to take you from luke-warm at best to on fire w/ desire just by the act of mental seduction & talking. I wouldn't go so far as to say I find all men who masturbate repulsive tho -that's extremely narrow minded.

Forgive me if I corrupted your pristine, virginal mind by my saying it how it is, but then again you're likely NOT at the pinacle of morality -or a poster child for morality if you're on Lit...

 

[lauren26f]

I have always wondered this, and this forum does not seem to answer my question. It seems very much like the ladies here fantasize about sharing their pics and hearing about men getting off, but not as much about seeing those men getting off.

Ladies - What are you fantasy situations to see men in? Are there outfits, places, poses?

Share them here, and us men will be happy to oblige your fantasies with pictures.

Not really.

 

[pwr2theblondes]

Addressing both of your questions posed. I do NOT have a pic thread, tho occasionally I've posted pics -they're scattered about, not all are linked- Depending on the guy I don't mind watching a guy cum...I find it can be extremely erotic, esp if I was the ONLY reason for him having been aroused. Most guys seem to watch porn, read stories, view pics, and then want to get release and if a woman is merely the facilitator of that release yet not the MAIN reason for his arousal it's a disappointment.

I CAN BE stimulated visually but for the most part I'm more Aurally & mentally stimulated.
If a guy sends me a text or a PM that says "want to play" my smartass side may reply "whatcha wanna play, scrabble, chess, etc.," There has to be some sort of teasing, playful flirting, b/c few (if any) women can go from "I'm stressed to the max" to a place of "I'm horny as fuck" in a nano second like a man can.

There was one guy that I use to talk to, and just what he would say & his voice would arouse me...like I've never been aroused. He had the gift of what I would call mental seduction, and I would suggest it was his age that taught him how to use his head between his shoulders -as opposed to the head between his legs- in talking to women. He could turn me on FAST -and it was NOT purely based on the physical, tho he wasn't hard to look at - where I would pretty much be at the point of tears wanting him so much.

I guess the only way to sum it up for the guys that are PM'ing women at random on Lit and are getting no replies...learn how to seduce a womans mind and you'll likely see a change in amount of replies.




Not all of the AmPic threads are of men w/ blatant "in your face" cock shots (some are, and they fizzle and fade quickly) -just take a look at KCJ, Muracommie, NTinNY etc., They are NOT "dirty" photos, if anything they are erotic, tasteful, teasing, etc., Likewise not all the women that have AmPic thread are all "in your face" w/ the here's my ass, boobs, and pussy shots. P2TB for example has some pics (the white dress series) that are downright Classy, Alluring and Sexy and they are not "dirty"!

Bumping up on P2TB Not all men are like that...granted it may seem a habitual habit for some, but some men actually are quite considerate, sensual, and they get aroused knowing that they were able to take you from luke-warm at best to on fire w/ desire just by the act of mental seduction & talking. I wouldn't go so far as to say I find all men who masturbate repulsive tho -that's extremely narrow minded.

Forgive me if I corrupted your pristine, virginal mind by my saying it how it is, but then again you're likely NOT at the pinacle of morality -or a poster child for morality if you're on Lit...

I just meant its repulsive when men jack off as fast as they can with no sensuality involved Thanks about the white dress series!

 

[Sensualdreamer]

I just meant its repulsive when men jack off as fast as they can with no sensuality involved Thanks about the white dress series!

Oh I followed what you meant, and you're quite welcome

 

[janeyl]

I am visually stimulated but there has to be feelings behind it. Not necessarily LOVE but at least affection of some kind. No matter how hot the man if he can't make me laugh or challenge me in some way then its not arousing to watch. If he does make me laugh and keeps me on my toes than watching him pleasure himself thinking of me is very very hot.


Not all men masturbate like that. Some can be very sensual. But I agree that kind of jacking off is repulsive.

I couldn't have put it better myself...it's why cyber tends to do very little for me either unless it's someone I'm connected with on some level

 

[ima6uldv8]

I guess I'm the odd woman out because I love watching men cum and knowing I helped make them do so. I'm just a dirty girl. Love it when I get cumshot pics right after they're done

 

[janeyl]

I guess I'm the odd woman out because I love watching men cum and knowing I helped make them do so. I'm just a dirty girl. Love it when I get cumshot pics right after they're done

Oh-don't get me wrong...I do love it-it absolutely makes my fecking toes curl-just not some random cock on a sex board. I make no judgements on anyone else who does. It would be a dull world indeed if we all shared the same tastes

 

[happychatter]

I couldn't have put it better myself...it's why cyber tends to do very little for me either unless it's someone I'm connected with on some level

Sex, on or offline needs to have some real sense of connection. I know young guys like to get off to pics, fine to you discover real women, but I doubt older guys just want to do it to a pic, speaking personally of course. We are all real living breathing humans, not just pixels.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

I never implied that AT ALL lol.

Forgive me, when you initially indicated you didn't post "dirty" pics, it seemed you were slightly snubbing those who DO post pics that you might find dirty.

 

[Emerald_Lilly]

I am visually stimulated but there has to be feelings behind it. Not necessarily LOVE but at least affection of some kind. No matter how hot the man if he can't make me laugh or challenge me in some way then its not arousing to watch. If he does make me laugh and keeps me on my toes than watching him pleasure himself thinking of me is very very hot.

I have to agree with this ..... i need some connection. Making me laugh is a big plus ... but otherwise i need to enjoy talking to the guy.

But in general, I enjoy looking at women's bodies and seeing them enjoy themselves. Random men, not so much (but men who post body pics more than cock pics can be quite enjoyable).

 

[johnie40uk]

Dear Kate,

Would you have a look at my video linked below, I think it passes your sensual test?

Xxxxx

 

[hotbodymale]

I just meant its repulsive when men jack off as fast as they can with no sensuality involved Thanks about the white dress series!

For the record, I take my time when I load up your thread and undress