A missionary impossible?

[Beth87]

This is going to seem like the dumbest question ever...so much for my experienced sex persona!

In the missionary position, ladies, what do you do with your hands/arms?

Guys, what would you like the ladies to do?

Just wondered because I never know what to do. And I hate the idea of just laying there so I avoid missionary sex like the plague. But I actually really like the position because I 'feel' more from there. So yeah..please help me wonderful people of lit

Bethy x

 

[pwr2theblondes]

Mmm usually on my partner's back or his bottom pushing him deeper inside me.

 

[30bandits]

here are some suggestions
1) spread your labia and tickle your clit...my hands are supporting my weight as i thrust deeper & deeper still.
2) fondle, squeeze, and tug on your nipples. if breasts are large enough, lift them to your mouth and suck your own nipples. i like that one. so hot.
3) reach down and play with my balls.....damn...i like that one too.
from a man's perspective. now let's hear what the ladies do.

 

[BlackManFux]

Mmm usually on my partner's back or his bottom pushing him deeper inside me.

Ditto, Kate. This is what I prefer as well.

 

[charliep242002]

I wouldn't say I am experienced, but I do have my personal preferences on what I like the girl to do with her hands. It depends on my position. If I am supporting myself on my arms I like the girl to play with herself either her nipples or her clit. Also she could be holding on the headboard of the bed. Thats sexy too. Now if I am more laying on top of her I like her arms wrapped around me. It feels so intimate to be held like that. If the girl can reach my ass I don't mind her gripping me. Like I said these are my personal preferences. You should ask your partner what they like and also do what you like. Experiment some guys like the nipples to be played with too. Just be gentle ours are sensitive too. I hope this helps.

 

[panagiotis]

She holds my butt. Depending on how firmly she does it, I understand how hard she wants to be penetrated. But in general, missionary is a "romantic-talking-and-kissing" position, I think.

 

[Beth87]

But in general, missionary is a "romantic-talking-and-kissing" position, I think.

It's funny you say that...missionary has never felt any closer to me. Maybe it's from having sex with the wrong people but, if anything, missionary feels more disengaging.

When I'm in doggy style or whatever...even though we're not facing each other, we can feel really connected. We're both looking for the harder, thirstier sex and some guys are pretty affectionate in their touches when they are in that position - they're concious we may feel separate so they make a gentle stroke of your neck etc in between grabbing your hips and shagging the life out of you.

Thank you all for your lovely replies so far. I plan on trying them all out one by one

 

[Irishld1]

My personal favorite is when she holds her legs spread wide open for me... Usually leads to some good pounding.

Another is when she hugs her knees to her chest... it opens up a world of possibilities!

 

[panagiotis]

It's funny you say that...missionary has never felt any closer to me. Maybe it's from having sex with the wrong people but, if anything, missionary feels more disengaging.

Perhaps it is also related with cultural reasons... In christian societies, missionary used to be the only "religiously acceptable" position for centuries; thus it is easier to connect it with pure romantic love etc etc.

 

[Beth87]

Perhaps it is also related with cultural reasons... In christian societies, missionary used to be the only "religiously acceptable" position for centuries; thus it is easier to connect it with pure romantic love etc etc.

I am Christian I think it has a lot to do with my past..I do struggle to be 'present' in this position and there are many factors into why I don't really know what I am doing the minute I lay on my back.

@irish Hugs her knees to chest and then you would lean or something?

 

[EctoJohn]

She can place her hands anywhere she wants on me, or just grip the sheets.

I do like when, while inside her, I lean down for a hot and heavy kiss, her arms wrapping around me, trapping me against her bare body.

 

[30bandits]

My personal favorite is when she holds her legs spread wide open for me... Usually leads to some good pounding.

Another is when she hugs her knees to her chest... it opens up a world of possibilities!

very good choices as well. and her talking dirty to me at the same time. cant for get.

 

[Aggressive One]

It really all depends on what I am craving...

Sometimes I like to grab her wrists and pin them down over her head as I am pumping into her... Others I like to feel her hands down between us, feeling as my cock penetrates her, with ther fingers spread in a 'V' over her lips and around my cock.

Others I do like how Kate said and grabbing my ass with a need to have me deeper... mmm but sometimes when I thrust hard and bottom out their hands push against my abs naturally as they gasp out

 

[KENNATWO]

Not a dumb question at all !

What my lady does with her hands , signals to me what she is wanting............


gripping the sheets (early) - I am getting the job done.

holding her legs apart - she wants to be pounded....HARD!

Holding the headboard - she is cumming !

Gripping the sheets (later) - cumming again!

Gripping my cock or playing with my balls - it's all about me this x.

Kissing me - sends me over the top!

 

[charliep242002]

Not a dumb question at all !

What my lady does with her hands , signals to me what she is wanting............


gripping the sheets (early) - I am getting the job done.

holding her legs apart - she wants to be pounded....HARD!

Holding the headboard - she is cumming !

Gripping the sheets (later) - cumming again!

Gripping my cock or playing with my balls - it's all about me this x.

Kissing me - sends me over the top!

You are one lucky guy to have such a deep understanding and connection with your lady.

 

[thehoaxer]

guys

Guys point of view, I like you to play with my balls or put your hands on my chest

 

[panagiotis]

..I do struggle to be 'present' in this position and there are many factors into why I don't really know what I am doing the minute I lay on my back.

No need to do something but relaxing and enjoying it!!!

 

[Irishld1]

@irish Hugs her knees to chest and then you would lean or something?

Lean in or hold her ankles above her head, tilting her hips back... Allows a different angle of penetration, and a new hole to poke at

 

[Green567123]

I like to put a pillow under her ass when we do it missionary it makes for a better angle for the both of us

 

[the_apocalypse]

I like it when she crosses her legs around my back and drags her nails down me

 

[djyak]

(Tifani) Depending on how we're fucking I guess, I may put my hands to the headboard for a good pounding (If I'm not already tied there). But I also like to reach to hubbys ass, pull him more, play with my nipples for him, or even reach down to rub his cock a bit while he fucks me. Lots of possibilties.

 

[DonQuixoteindfw]

I personally prefer her to place her hands on my butt or back and slowly dig in with her nails... or play with our nipples

 

[AnitaMann]

well, if they're not tied to the headboard, then sometimes I use my hands to rub my clit, pinch my nipples, scratch my nails down his back, touch his bald head, wipe the sweat off his bald head (depending on how hard he's working me...) Ummm, cover my mouth so I don't scream too loudly...

 

[pw27]

I like to have my hands on his ass, hips or back. I usually play with my clit, nipples, and feel his cock as it slides in and out of me.

 

[SexyLitForAll]

I love the feel of her nails scratching down my back, grabbing my ass, playing with my balls, or tweaking my nipples...just a few!