The Proper Punishment For A Naughty Sub/Slave

[lana316]

Hmmm. Should a sub be paddled or whipped :caning:? Perhaps not allowed to cum for days on end? Maybe subjected to a (completely willing) gangbang or public humiliation to show them their place ?

What do you think? As a Sub/Slave or as a Dom/Master/Daddy/Mistress? There are so many punishments out there, which is your favorite? Ooo! Even better, how about not allowing them to wear clothes for a few days? The list goes on.

I'd love to hear what you think about this either as a reply or a PM Maybe give my Dom a few ideas while your at it

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Hmmm. Should a sub be paddled or whipped :caning:? Perhaps not allowed to cum for days on end? Maybe subjected to a (completely willing) gangbang or public humiliation to show them their place ?

What do you think? As a Sub/Slave or as a Dom/Master/Daddy/Mistress? There are so many punishments out there, which is your favorite? Ooo! Even better, how about not allowing them to wear clothes for a few days? The list goes on.

I'd love to hear what you think about this either as a reply or a PM Maybe give my Dom a few ideas while your at it

Oh gawd.

There's a bunch of threads in the recent pages that cover punishment philosophies. Please don't be opening that can o' worms again.

 

[Hentaijohn]

Proper

I like to tie up a naughty slave and keep her in the center of a humiliation party. Bound gagged, played with, but never allowd relief. Cummed on, but not allowed to enjoy it. Whipped for good measure, but lighly. She's suffering sweetly enough as is. Once she's broken, she may service master and his friends to release.

 

[ImOnIt]

A bad slave should be stuffed with chocolate cake and slammed in the chokey.

 

[chy_girl]

Rabbit's fur... Worst. Punishment. Ever.

 

[lana316]

Oh gawd.

There's a bunch of threads in the recent pages that cover punishment philosophies. Please don't be opening that can o' worms again.

What if I like cans.... and worms.... and learning about other's punishment methods?

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

What if I like cans.... and worms.... and learning about other's punishment methods?

Then read the other threads?

 

[lana316]

Then read the other threads?

But but but... I like it when people read my thread and reply to my thread I'm a tad egotistic like that

 

[xxxpaulzzz]

the gangbang or humiliation sounds good to me.

why not write a new thread??

some of us are new so didnt read the old one.

 

[lana316]

Good point, but as commented on previous threads of mine, my motives were not as pure. Good excuse though! lets go with that

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Actually it depends on the infraction that deserved the punishment. I don't use pain to punish. I never have. Pain is an extension of sensation play for me and as such, it isn't useful (in MY case with my partner) as a punishment technique. Same goes for humiliation or public spectacles.

If she breaks the rules then I have to find something that she will hate. Usually that breaks down into two parts and is usually far more emotional than physical.

Just my two cents, YMMV.

 

[lana316]

Actually it depends on the infraction that deserved the punishment. I don't use pain to punish. I never have. Pain is an extension of sensation play for me and as such, it isn't useful (in MY case with my partner) as a punishment technique. Same goes for humiliation or public spectacles.

If she breaks the rules then I have to find something that she will hate. Usually that breaks down into two parts and is usually far more emotional than physical.

Just my two cents, YMMV.

And I appreciate your words as well as your cents (just make that out to paypal... ) I enjoy seeing all sides and all types of punishment. What does she typically hate? If you dont mind me asking.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

And I appreciate your words as well as your cents (just make that out to paypal... ) I enjoy seeing all sides and all types of punishment. What does she typically hate? If you dont mind me asking.

For baby girl? Being ignored tops the list. Doing meaningless tasks...over and over. I have had partners that I made redo my book cases~removing all the books and putting them back in alpha order by author...only to wait until they were half way through and have them do it by title.

Favorite all purpose punishment requires just a dime, a nose and a wall. Dime on the wall, nose on the dime...then the offender squats. Have to hold it for ten minutes. Each time the dime drops, you add 60 seconds. It hurts, it's embarrassing and very difficult to do. The best part? I don't have to lift a finger.

 

[lana316]

Favorite all purpose punishment requires just a dime, a nose and a wall. Dime on the wall, nose on the dime...then the offender squats. Have to hold it for ten minutes. Each time the dime drops, you add 60 seconds. It hurts, it's embarrassing and very difficult to do. The best part? I don't have to lift a finger.

Lol thats what my parents made me do when I forgot a homework assignment or broke my bike (both which happened often)

So does that make her missbehave less? Or just crankier once the punishment is over?

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Lol thats what my parents made me do when I forgot a homework assignment or broke my bike (both which happened often)

So does that make her missbehave less? Or just crankier once the punishment is over?

Baby girl has only ever earned the dime punishment twice in over a year. *grins*
She says it's a pain and she never forgets whatever she did to piss me off after that.

I have only ever ignored her once...and when I say ignore I mean continuos~no touching, no speaking, no looking at, NOTHING. Three days. I felt as punished as she did but it was needful. She has never repeated that mistake.

I don't do brats. I get off on strong women who want me to be stronger and help them to become better, more focused. If I have to punish every fuckin week then it's not worth my time. And neither are they.

Guys require a different set of rules (when ever I have had a Boy Toy). I am more physical with them but, all in all, I prefer non violent punishments. Things that fit the crime.

And I don't punish for arbitrary reasons.

 

[lana316]

I'm glad you enjoy your relationship and doubly glad that you shared part of it with us
Thank-You

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I'm glad you enjoy your relationship and doubly glad that you shared part of it with us
Thank-You

You are welcome...

 

[Sir_Winston54]

<snip> I have had partners that I made redo my book cases~removing all the books and putting them back in alpha order by author...only to wait until they were half way through and have them do it by title. <more snip>

And then you can wait until they're halfway through and have them do it alphabetically by title within each alphabetically-organized author's section... except for certain books within each author which are chronological in a series, so they *have* to be sorted in that order...

Actually, that's how *I* sort *my* books. Egads! I've been punishing myself?

 

[teknight]

Favorite all purpose punishment requires just a dime, a nose and a wall. Dime on the wall, nose on the dime...then the offender squats. Have to hold it for ten minutes. Each time the dime drops, you add 60 seconds. It hurts, it's embarrassing and very difficult to do. The best part? I don't have to lift a finger.

Hi there- I'm curious, what kind of squat are we talking about? Are we talking a full on squat, where you basically wind up looking like you're sitting on an invisible chair?

I'm asking 'cause I've started a new workout routine, but, since for the moment I'm using my home gym, I don't have the equipment to perform a proper squat (where you have a barbell with hundreds of lbs of weight on your shoulders as you squat and stand). Instead, what I've been doing is different: Squat without weights, back against the wall, so that it looks like I'm sitting on a low bench next to the wall...Granted, I've just started my workout routine 6 days ago, but I can only squat like that for 35 seconds top...and those last 10 HURT!!. I can hold a high horse/low horse stance (which looks something like this:
http://northstarmartialarts.com/blog1/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sai-ping-ma-horse-stance1.jpg)
...only without the snow and half nakedness for...maybe 2 minutes (haven't done it in awhile, hence I dunno). Long story short: how muscular is your sub?! Or what am I missing from the picture?

 

[graceanne]

And then you can wait until they're halfway through and have them do it alphabetically by title within each alphabetically-organized author's section... except for certain books within each author which are chronological in a series, so they *have* to be sorted in that order...

Actually, that's how *I* sort *my* books. Egads! I've been punishing myself?

LOL!!

I was, quite literally, thinking that organizing books didn't sound like a punishment to me. But I'm anal retentive, so ...

A punishment, for me, would be not having my books organized. Or, even worse, having them spine side in on the bookshelf. That drives me BATTY.

 

[neci]

public gangbang!!!

 

[chy_girl]

LOL!!

I was, quite literally, thinking that organizing books didn't sound like a punishment to me. But I'm anal retentive, so ...

A punishment, for me, would be not having my books organized. Or, even worse, having them spine side in on the bookshelf. That drives me BATTY.

Or letting the children "straighten the bookcase." I mean really. I'm glad they want to help and all, but not one can seem to understand that their books go on the kid shelves. And just because they look at a book doesn't mean it's a kid's book.

...I have general info books on things like herbs and home remidies mixed in with text books, the dictionary is with the grown up novels, and I have text books sharing a self with Twilight. And my text books are no longer arranged by catagory, sub-catagoy, and then arranged by class level.

Isn't it nice when the kids want to help with some things?

 

[KoPilot]

We talking funishments or actual punishments that aren't supposed to be fun? Cause it seems like people are them getting mixed up here...

S doesn't need to do a damn thing to me. I keep myself in check and the very idea of disappointing or hurting him, even if I haven't done anything, is punishment enough. Self-imposed preventative measures you could call it. Sucks that "being a good, kind partner" doesn't sound as sexy.

Sorry, that's not nearly as exciting as holding a dime against the wall, or being the focus of a gangbang, or getting whipped/beaten/whatever. But it's extremely effective, I must say.

 

[chy_girl]

We talking funishments or actual punishments that aren't supposed to be fun? Cause it seems like people are them getting mixed up here...

S doesn't need to do a damn thing to me. I keep myself in check and the very idea of disappointing or hurting him, even if I haven't done anything, is punishment enough. Self-imposed preventative measures you could call it. Sucks that "being a good, kind partner" doesn't sound as sexy.

Sorry, that's not nearly as exciting as holding a dime against the wall, or being the focus of a gangbang, or getting whipped/beaten/whatever. But it's extremely effective, I must say.

And that, dear friend, seems to be one of the top three causes for irritation on the topic.

It's also one of the reasons I wonder about the spectrum of the D/s dynamic. The people I've met who look at a punishment as something fun and exciting are also the people who seem to be able to take their PYL-ness/pyl-ness off like a hat. For them, a punishment means nothing.

I can't take my submission off like a hat. I can't even burn it off like a tattoo (long story). For me, the thought of displeasing my PYL enough to actually earn a punishment is emotionally devastating - and no, that's NOT an exaggeration. And when I was with my People, punishment weren't handed out just because. Disciplines were even handed out lightly and usually only after it A) became increasingly clear that talking wasn't working or B) I dug in my heels and needed something action oriented. Why? Because such things aren't a game for me and they certainly weren't for them.

*shrugs*
To each their own, I suppose, but god help the Dom who ever thinks they're going to punish me for the fun of it. I did that once (before the People) and once was plenty.

 

[KoPilot]

And that, dear friend, seems to be one of the top three causes for irritation on the topic.

It's also one of the reasons I wonder about the spectrum of the D/s dynamic. The people I've met who look at a punishment as something fun and exciting are also the people who seem to be able to take their PYL-ness/pyl-ness off like a hat. For them, a punishment means nothing.

I can't take my submission off like a hat. I can't even burn it off like a tattoo (long story). For me, the thought of displeasing my PYL enough to actually earn a punishment is emotionally devastating - and no, that's NOT an exaggeration. And when I was with my People, punishment weren't handed out just because. Disciplines were even handed out lightly and usually only after it A) became increasingly clear that talking wasn't working or B) I dug in my heels and needed something action oriented. Why? Because such things aren't a game for me and they certainly weren't for them.

*shrugs*
To each their own, I suppose, but god help the Dom who ever thinks they're going to punish me for the fun of it. I did that once (before the People) and once was plenty.

I'm all for funishment, actually. When it's playtime, sometimes "I've been naughty, sir. I think I need a caning, teehee!" is just plain fun. But when it comes down to being considerate and responsible for my actions, then... I take that very seriously. Punishment as a real means of behavior correction just wouldn't work for me/us. :T