Prostate stimulation.

[Ravenloft]

Okay, so I am straight, but after having seen my girlfriend in the throes of g-spot orgasm, I feel I would really like to experience something similar. I have done some self exploration, but I am a big guy so 'range of motion' and such is a bit of an issue for me. Anyway, I did manage to find the spot I believe, but only because from what I have read, it makes you feel as though you have to pee, which it did. Anyone have any advice that might help me along here?

 

[NomadLady]

Any of the Aneros toys should help you out with your sefl-exploration. I've ordered my friend the Progasm and can't wait to see how he likes it.

 

[Ravenloft]

I was thinking about buying an aneros too. They don't seem to explain what the point of the different models are for though...

 

[redpaint]

I Have been looking for something myself but was unsure what to get and the best way of using them.

 

[wobnair]

advice

Try a small vibe i can cum every time just using it, just find the right spot leave it then cum buckets. The first time i did it, it was so intense i could have cried.
All with no hard on.

 

[Ravenloft]

Just to get some clarity here though as to finding the right spot. Are we on the right track when we hit the spot that makes us feel like we have to pee?

 

[TomBoner]

Yes ... that can be one of the feelings. Usually though as I stimulate it more it becomes more of an arousing feeling and never fails to make my cock more engorged and yearning to ejaculate. Furthermore, when I do ejaculate while my prostrate is being stimulated, it's a powerful massive blast of hot creamy sperm and semen ... and an awesome satisfyng feeling of all my sexual senses.

But having it make you feel like you need to pee can be common at the start.

 

[Chrissi]

Just to get some clarity here though as to finding the right spot. Are we on the right track when we hit the spot that makes us feel like we have to pee?

Yup, among other feelings, just let go. It takes a bit of experience to let the feeling take over, as you may feel like you have to pee or go the other way. If you are nervous about it, do it in the shower or tub.

As to the general location: With your middle finger turned up toward your balls slide in your ass to your inner ring. Feel around. You will absolutely know when you hit your prostate. Rub it or press on it, and you will start to slowly ejaculate, and not precum.

What is important is to just let the feeling take over. At first, it is going to feel like a body movement, but trust me, it isn't.

have fun
topher

 

[redpaint]

That's my big problem Because of my back I don't think I can get into a piston where I can use a finger. When I went on vacation back inn January My friend did it to me for my first time. I never had a feeling take over me like that. I have tried to do it by myself, But I can't seem to find the spot and need something that can help me. Now if my friend didn't live so far away I would most likely Be his little sex slave by know.

 

[Jenna2641]

Ravenloft,

Start with doing kegel exercises. You can look on the web for all the benefits of the exercises on male, sexual, urinary, and prostate health. In general, better PC muscle strength and control can improve sexual enjoyment and performance. Whether alone or with your partner.

You can start kegel exercises now while you decided what kind of toy to buy.

I haven't tried an aneros myself, but all the reviews and experiences I have read about have been positive. They can be expensive. I tried a cheap $10 anal stimulator nock off and it really didn't do much for me. I some times use it to give me some resistance with my kegel exercises, but for the most part it was just mildly pleasureable.

Wobnair has a good idea. I have tried vibrators. You will probably have to shop around. The best one I found was g-spot vibrators from Adam & Eve. On other threads about favorite anal toys I have talked about this. My wife and I got his and her vibrators. One for me and one for her. Each a different color so we don't confuse them. While I haven't had an orgasm with mine, the sensations of it are amazing. We have enjoyed putting mine in me while I fuck my wife. I usually can't last long between her warm wet pussy and the vibrations against my prostate, but until I cum, she loves feeling the vibrations through my cock. Amazing.

A few months ago, I started doing kegel exercises regularly. After about three weeks, I had a day alone at home and broke out the vibrator while enjoying reading Literotica. I started out with a few small dildos to stretch me out slowly then slip the vibrator in. I started out with it on low while I posted messages of my experience on lit. I can't remember the thread name now. Might have been the currently masturbating thread. Every few minutes I would turn up the vibrations. Soon it was driving me crazy. I was hard as a rock between the mental stimulation of what I was reading on Literotica and the vibrations inside me.

The sensations kept building and building. It was so intense. Eventually they would peak and back off, but then, without changing the vibration level, it would start building to a peak again. It was crazy. I can't remember how many times I peaked. I eventually had to stop and clean up to go somewhere, but it was intense. Not sure if I let it keep going if I would have cum or not.

Unfortunately, I hadn't had a chance to repeat that experience, though I have had plenty of sex play with my wife since, so I am not too disappointed. I also got kind of busy and let the kegal exercise go for a while, but I hope to start back up soon.

Hope you find a toy that is right for you and have some enjoyable times! Good luck! Jenna

 

[krissive69]

i have an aneros maximum in me right now.... feels great! i think this is something you just sort of take your time w/ and grind your hips around.....

 

[hotrodtom]

i have an aneros maximum in me right now.... feels great! i think this is something you just sort of take your time w/ and grind your hips around.....

Are you able to use it sitting down, or are you required to stay on your side as suggested by the package? I have a small Aneros and have not used it except briefly. Can't visualize how I would sit at a computer keyboard with it in, but I'm a virgin at this. Teach me, show me, do me...

 

[Jenna2641]

Are you able to use it sitting down, or are you required to stay on your side as suggested by the package? I have a small Aneros and have not used it except briefly. Can't visualize how I would sit at a computer keyboard with it in, but I'm a virgin at this. Teach me, show me, do me...

When I have used my g-spot vibrator, I would sit on the very edge of the chair, lean back in a lounge chair, or kneel on the floor while typing on the computer. Otherwise, laying on my back in bed seems the best.

 

[Ravenloft]

Thanks for all the advice everyone, I really do appreciate it.

Like Redpaint its difficult for me to get into a position in which I can stimulate myself with just my fingers.

I will have to go shopping this weekend, it looks like.

 

[hotrodtom]

When I have used my g-spot vibrator, I would sit on the very edge of the chair, lean back in a lounge chair, or kneel on the floor while typing on the computer. Otherwise, laying on my back in bed seems the best.

I tried the little Aneros this morning again. It feels so goo-o-od going in slowly. I lay there for a few moments enjoying the sensations and tried walking around with it, getting used to it. Never had a full erection but I was leaking precum like a faucet, which I never do. I sat at the edge of the office chair in front of the keyboard and felt it penetrate more fully. It became uncomfortable after a while and so I went back to bed and removed it -- again, the sensations of in-out-in-out were so-o-o good. I may be on to something...

 

[NomadLady]

Never underestimate the value of the Kegel exercises. I have an hour long commute every day for work and spend at least 15 minutes of that time doing these. Have been doing this for years and get quite the nice compliments on the strength of my muscles in that region. I make for more powerful orgasms for me and helps when you can clamp down on a cock hard and help your partner cum...

 

[Ravenloft]

Oh yeah Nomad, I know the power of Kegels. I actually use them myself to make my erection that much more firm as I'm thrusting in if making love slowly.

On another note, is there anyone here that might be able to help me interpret a tarot card reading? If so, please pm me.

 

[Jenna2641]

I tried the little Aneros this morning again. It feels so goo-o-od going in slowly. I lay there for a few moments enjoying the sensations and tried walking around with it, getting used to it. Never had a full erection but I was leaking precum like a faucet, which I never do. I sat at the edge of the office chair in front of the keyboard and felt it penetrate more fully. It became uncomfortable after a while and so I went back to bed and removed it -- again, the sensations of in-out-in-out were so-o-o good. I may be on to something...

Tom, That sounds so sexy! Sounds like you had a delicious morning with your aneros. If I understand the literature and personal testimonials on the product website, you should try laying down on your back or on your side. You can have your knees raise or legs layinging flat. You then just relax your entire body. Sometimes this relaxation and the fullness will cause your body to react. Others suggest doing kegel like exercises with it in. Others stroke it in at out using the little tab that rests against your perenium. Experiment and have fun. Walking around with it in certainly sounds like a new twist. I look foward to hearing more about your experiences. Jenna

 

[Jenna2641]

Never underestimate the value of the Kegel exercises. I have an hour long commute every day for work and spend at least 15 minutes of that time doing these. Have been doing this for years and get quite the nice compliments on the strength of my muscles in that region. I make for more powerful orgasms for me and helps when you can clamp down on a cock hard and help your partner cum...

Something told me you would be a proponent of kegel exercises. Big Hugs! Jenna

 

[Womanluvr]

The first thing you should do when you buy an Aneros is toss the directions! They were writen with intent of maximizing the health benefits of prostate massage; not the pleasure. I find it most pleasurable when I lie on my stomach. Others will tell you it is best when sitting or laying their side, etc.. You have to experiment. You have to work at it a little but in the end it is definitely worth the reward.

Also if you are shopping for toy you should consider the Nexus Glide. I find it's perineum tab to be much more comfortable then the aneros's.

 

[sarod]

Hey now!

You people are making me horny! Wish I had a cock to suck!

 

[Ravenloft]

I'm making some progress. Had to improvise with a smooth plastic handle of an ice cream scoop with a conture grip and a back massager. But I got somewhere with it. LOL.

...Then I broke the massager... :'(

 

[Jenna2641]

I was a little bored at lunchtime. I couldn't browse Literotica at lunch time as my Blackberry lost its charge and I forgot my charger at home. I been feeling very horny lately, thus browsing lit on my cell phone, so I went to the one website the company filters don't block, E-Bay. I was able to browse the adult section and put a few items on my wish list. One of the items on my list is an anal hook. It has a 1.25" diameter stanless steel ball on a hook that goes to an eye hole and you can use it in rope play. I am not so much into bondage, but for anal play, I might get into it with this. Well there was a new seller on e-bay and they just didn't put pictures of the hook up. They had a demonstration photo. They also had a stainless steel large plug with jewelry on it, with two similar photos. I had to copy them. They looked sexy. They also had a cock ring/anal ball as well, but the demonstration photo didn't show the ball inserted. A shame. Anyway, they looked so sexy. As I said, I copied them and shrunk them down to size. I'll probably never get either of them, but ohhh the fantasies. Hope you all squirm in your panties at the sight of them as much as I did!

 

[CanadaNorth]

Didn't do a thing for me

I tried it while on my back using my finger, using the advice on this thread. I seem to have found my prostate, because in stimulating it I felt a mild urge to pee... a little pleasure, but after a few minutes it just became boring. I was flacid the whole time.

 

[bi golly]

I have a dildo that isn't that big, but I use it after I have gotten hard (I like it when my prostate is already firm) and just he combination of the dildo in my ass and my slight stroking on my cock makes me come so hard I want to pass out.