self-control

[Maidinusa]

is anybody here into self-bondage, self-punishment, taking risks, or mind-games with themselves?

 

[FurryFury]

Only when directed to (by someone I consent to give authority to) and when I don't have a skin to skin partner.

At those times, it has been interesting to see what I learn.

FF

 

[DMConnor109]

Hmm. Sounds interesting. Never done anything like that without instruction.

 

[Maidinusa]

The imagination is a powerful tool. try it!

 

[AndyS_uk]

is anybody here into self-bondage, self-punishment, taking risks, or mind-games with themselves?

Only with respect to Tease and Denial. It's nice to have this directed by someone but, if that's not possible, then some of the T&D mp3's from these places; http://www.mistressmarisa.com/database/home.php and http://www.isabellavalentine.com/ also work well. It's also a good discipline for learning how to control even when extremely frustrated.

Sometimes, when I'm alone, I can imagine being instructed to do things that I woudn't normally do...it kind of moves the idea as though someone else has had it so it feels as though the idea hasn't come from me. Needs a fertile imagination but, as you said, the mind is a powerful thing and I have pushed a lot of limits in this way.

 

[switchbitch]

is anybody here into self-bondage, self-punishment, taking risks, or mind-games with themselves?

yes! very much so. Nine times out of 10 when masturbating I am using both self bondageand self punishment. I am usually wearing breast bondage, a variety of pegs(clothes pins) and clampsscattered over my body and often design body bondage that inflicts punishment as I masturbate. The pain/pleasure ecstasy is divine even if I'm alone. Many times I wear torturous bondageunder my clothes when I'm doing normal tasks, it keeps me in a constant state of arousal and awareness.

 

[Maidinusa]

I've never used more than 2 clamps at a time but I love the rest!

 

[Maidinusa]

good for you, Andy