I am a guy that likes anal but....

I'm not gay. Is this normal?
[I wasn't quite sure if it was appropriate to post in this section, I hope it was.]

Sure -- Girls can use strap-ons on you (or finger stim).

Just be warned that your perception may be colored by your local community / upbringing.
 
Nothing wrong with that Mike, I have used a strapon with a few men and i doubt if they were gay. Plus I love the feel of wearing a nice cock. ;)
 
You're not gay, kiddo. :)

You have a nice, sensitive prostate. You have an erogenous spot that can only be reached from the inside. Women have gspots, just like that-- they also have clitorises, which can only be reached from the outside, kinda like your dick.

More men would know about their own sensitivities if they weren't so convinced that poking something up there would make them OMIGOD gay. Loving clitoral orgasms doesn't make every woman a lesbian! Some gay men do not like anal sex at all!

Being gay means; you are turned on by men because they are men, because men are what turn you on. If men don't turn you on, you're not gay.
 
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It's not gay unless you like a guy's dick in your ass.

True that :) But I know for example, that there are a lot of stimulating places that men only reach rectally. It's not 'gay' to enjoy that. It would make you gay if you wanted to enjoy that with a man. but again, even then...its what you like. How did you first experience that?
 
Nothing wrong with that Mike, I have used a strapon with a few men and i doubt if they were gay. Plus I love the feel of wearing a nice cock. ;)

Maybe mine was too cheap....i had trouble using. I told my gf at the time that I really understand now why guys get props. It's work to have a dick.
 
you like what you like. I have never fucked anyone in the ass, but does nto mean I won't. I would just have to get a strap on.

I would also finger yoru ass if you wanted me to. The only thing I don't do is lick your ass, but I mgiht lick your ass cheeks, adn spank you.

Keep me in mind Hon :devil:
 
You're not gay, kiddo. :)

You have a nice, sensitive prostate. You have an erogenous spot that can only be reached from the inside. Women have gspots, just like that-- they also have clitorises, which can only be reached from the outside, kinda like your dick.

More men would know about their own sensitivities if they weren't so convinced that poking something up there would make them OMIGOD gay. Loving clitoral orgasms doesn't make every woman a lesbian! Some gay men do not like anal sex at all!

Being gay means; you are turned on by men because they are men, because men are what turn you on. If men don't turn you on, you're not gay.

Yes, yes and yes.

I might add, there are many gay men who don't like anal sex, either topping or bottoming. Likewise there are gay men who don't even like oral sex.

To the OP, the sex part has nothing to do with being gay, it is just the pleasant side effect of it. I like to think that some gay men are truly enlightened sexually, in that we know what turns us on, and really getting there can only be done with another man. :D

You are not gay, you are just in touch with what makes you feel good.

topher
 
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