Begging for permission

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One of my favourite parts of D/s. When a sub begs for dom's permission to do stuff like suck his dick, etc.

What do you think?
 
One of my favourite parts of D/s. When a sub begs for dom's permission to do stuff like suck his dick, etc.

What do you think?


Being told to do it annoys me.

Now, if he does something that inspires it.. well.. then, that's hot.
 
Begging for permission is fine if what he/she is begging for is something they supposedly would rather not do...and they are begging because the alternative is worse...such as a sub str8 male/female begging to go down on a another sub male/female. because the woman in charge is abusing him.
I have known a few wives whose Dom husband used a hairbrush on them until they begged to go down on the other woman.
 
I love when my little slut wants to suck my dick so bad that she begs. I love holding her by the hair as I tease her with it right in front of her, rubbing it all over her face. Lifting my shaft and pressing my balls against her lips, forbiding her to suck. Then feeling the passion she fucks her face with it when I finally allow her cock.
 
I would say that it's less pathetic when the sub starts begging than when the Dom starts begging.

Agreed.

I've found the simplest one to implement is begging for permission to cum (the submissive doing the begging :) ) because there's also some time pressure associated with it.

Fun, but I don't like to overuse it... I respect my girl, and I don't like the idea of her snivelling, even to me. Begging occasionally is good. :D
 
Totally off subject, but I am a great admirer of that opera those guys wrote about you ;)

Nothing against Bobby Darin, though, I hope.

Agreed.

I've found the simplest one to implement is begging for permission to cum (the submissive doing the begging :) ) because there's also some time pressure associated with it.

Fun, but I don't like to overuse it... I respect my girl, and I don't like the idea of her snivelling, even to me. Begging occasionally is good. :D

No, sniveling is never attractive. Groveling is also unbecoming.
 
The only kind of begging I like is the "please don't do that" type.

The other kind reminds me of little kids in the sugarey cereal isle.
 

Thanks for the link--hadn't heard that version before.

Oh, a little can be good. :) Just not overdone.

Well, groveling reminds me of sniveling, and sniveling reminds me of George Bush, and so that's a real buzz-kill for me. But I think I understand where you're coming from. ;)

The only kind of begging I like is the "please don't do that" type.

The other kind reminds me of little kids in the sugarey cereal isle.

Heh. Yeah, it reminds me of my first wife begging to get a new pair of shoes when we couldn't even pay the rent.
 
i am learning that it's a fine line for my Master. If He wants me to beg, He will tell me to - if i start begging - it can be annoying to The Man. It's all about the appropriate time/place for U/us.
 
i am learning that it's a fine line for my Master. If He wants me to beg, He will tell me to - if i start begging - it can be annoying to The Man. It's all about the appropriate time/place for U/us.

Yes. Beggars can't be choosers.

Hmmm...is there any begging that I don't like? :) Maybe contrived begging, like canned laughter. (Canned begging?)
 
My icelandic Mistress

Would have me well tied ...then bring out the needles..she wouldl remind me, "Oh yes you will be begging of that I am quite certain...but it may not help you this time"
I think not knowing if she will stop is the key to the session.
 
begging is good but the promising to be good I can find tiring as she has niether the desire or capacity for this and if she did would be boring
 
I just did this last night to the misses (we are not 'full time' lifestyle, and we both switch), as I was in charge.
I just made her ask each time before she licked the pre-cum off the tip.

just limiting it to that particular act was pretty fun for us both.

/two cents
 
The only kind of begging I like is the "please don't do that" type.

that is pretty much the only kind of begging i do. in those rare moments where my anxiety and outright terror over something is so high i start questioning his concern for me or my sanity. but even then i'm totally ashamed at my lack of perfect slavishness. good thing it takes a heck of a lot more than my begging for him to change his mind.
 
Theres a place to stop with begging, usually for me its always
"Oh please sir not the gag again"
and after that it just gets annoying.
 
Begging for permission is fine if what he/she is begging for is something they supposedly would rather not do...and they are begging because the alternative is worse...such as a sub str8 male/female begging to go down on a another sub male/female. because the woman in charge is abusing him.
I have known a few wives whose Dom husband used a hairbrush on them until they begged to go down on the other woman.

Oh! I got a shiver when I read that!
 
Begging has been a huge part of mine and my guy's sex life.
Up until now, it's been...a major turn off. Because it was always him begging for a BJ after I've already been totally spent. "Come on...please? Just for like...two seconds." That's irritating to the core.

Especially since he knows he could make me want it so bad, with just a little finesse. He's getting better at taking control now, and just the other day had me begging for my own orgasm. That's actually a lot of fun, and it (fortunately? unfortunately?) really gets me off when he says no.

I don't understand the appeal of begging, but being submissive I understand the power in being teased.
 
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