Any ideas???

[Kinkybytch]

Okay I wanted to start off by saying I have thease fantasies of my husband "taking" it against my will ( or at least trying my damned hardest to be convincing that he is..lol) Any ideas of how I can get him wrapped up into my scenario and play out this fantasy we are both dominant people but I want to try letting him be the one who has all the control this time ... i like it for him to dominate me whenever the mood strikes... I just wanted some suggestions or ideas from people who have carried out this fantasy..Thanks!

 

[where]

talk about it at length, go through it scene by scene and have a safe word. My husband needed the reassurance that I was actually ok and just 'acting' and the safeword gave him that as did the blow by blow breakdown of the scene. It makes it like it's acting which helps break the initial inhibition down. The second time it was more ad lib and much better

 

[loneranger8921]

It seems you might need a mood setter and work it in slowly. I find clothing that makes you more famine and your mate in more masculine clothing sets a tone. High heels for example limits your movement while him in logger boots or military black boots sets a tone. You might have him wear sunglasses that you cant see his eyes. This gives you some what a feeling you don't know what he is doing and it might help him go into an alter ego which is what you are searching for. You want him to become a dominant machine not your loving mate

 

[culloden]

Wear clothes you don't care about. It's really hot to hear buttons hitting the floor when a shirt is ripped open. Thrift stores are great sources for shreddable clothing. You can even afford to tear apart a nice business suit from the Good Will once in a while.

 

[Miss Sixxy]

Wear clothes you don't care about. It's really hot to hear buttons hitting the floor when a shirt is ripped open. Thrift stores are great sources for shreddable clothing. You can even afford to tear apart a nice business suit from the Good Will once in a while.

it's hot just thinking about it.

 

[ForceFucker]

Fiction helps.

Find a film or a short story with a hot scene of non-con,and do whatever it is that you do to let him know that you are heavily aroused. If he so much as raises an eyebrow, start talking about it. Tell him how hot the scene made you. Say "it would've even been Hotter if..." and get specific. If he sees you aroused first,then he may be able to accept it if he is aroused also.

He won't just throw you on the couch,but it should start a dialogue.

 

[Kinkybytch]

Fiction helps.

Find a film or a short story with a hot scene of non-con,and do whatever it is that you do to let him know that you are heavily aroused. If he so much as raises an eyebrow, start talking about it. Tell him how hot the scene made you. Say "it would've even been Hotter if..." and get specific. If he sees you aroused first,then he may be able to accept it if he is aroused also.

He won't just throw you on the couch,but it should start a dialogue.

Well I have told him and he looks with a sort of how do you put it mischevious look in his eyes and you can see he's curious but not really too sure on it. Because sometimes he gets scared off during sex if he thinks hes hurting me and sometimes he does hurt he is rather a nice size and although it doesnt happen often its always unintentional. But its ok nothing major if i can give birth vaginally getting cut open completely have 3c-sections and take it up the ass and enjoy it I can tolerate anything pretty much. My tolerance for pain is high even within surgery settings...Idk maybe somethings wrong with me,
In any case of event I want it to be something that comes completely unexpected by surprise because if I am excpecting it it will ruin and take the fun out of everything and i wouldn't want that.