What's your favorite kink/play?

[Lizzie_Borden]

I love thuddy impact stuff. The stingy stuff I can take a little bit of, but don't care for it nearly as much as something that feels heavier and deeper.

I know what you mean.

We bought a bundle of new rope a while ago, and it's still wrapped up around itself like when we bought it. He hits me with it instead. The thud is so wide, and deep, it's phenomenal. Goes really well after the sharper bite of the cane. Almost like a massage.




Otherwise I'm a big fan of bondage, sexual use, and resistance play.

 

[MisterSir]

Pain. If they get something out of it so much the better, but pain in general encompasses it.

 

[ecstaticsub]

How does the humiliation play work?

My Sir is a master at the head fuck on an emotional level, but I've never really understood what takes it from personally embarrassing head fuck to humiliation play...

This is really hard to describe. Humiliation is completely in the eye of the beholder. I am trying to think of how to explain this without details (explaining the details would be embarrassing, while the actions themselves have been humiliating--though erotic as hell))

The only way I think I can say it is that I am a confident, intelligent, self assured woman. Daddy has found ways to bring me down a few pegs without being demeaning yet flipping that switch that enforces that I am simply his property.

 

[CutieMouse]

Mindfucks... ohhhhh the bliss of an elegantly executed mindfuck.

And ES I have a feeling I know what you mean... that moment where you realize something inside you just went *ping!* and suddenly you're doing or wanting or begging for things no self-respecting, confidant, intelligent, kick-ass woman would ever consider doing, wanting, [needing], or begging to do.



















Not that I would know anything about that... or anything.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Mindfucks... ohhhhh the bliss of an elegantly executed mindfuck.

And ES I have a feeling I know what you mean... that moment where you realize something inside you just went *ping!* and suddenly you're doing or wanting or begging for things no self-respecting, confidant, intelligent, kick-ass woman would ever consider doing, wanting, [needing], or begging to do.

Not that I would know anything about that... or anything.

Yes, exactly. Thanks for saying it better than I could explain.

 

[rida]

Pain. If they get something out of it so much the better, but pain in general encompasses it.

Spoken like a Sadist! LOL

 

[midwestyankee]

Enjoying the fruits of training and behavior modification. And the occasional mind fuck.

 

[cromsgirl]

I prefer the stingy floggers. I also enjoy crops, canes, belts and his hand. I really like being tied up. I don't enjoy pain as such, I like the implements to find that line right between pleasure and pain. My husband is a master at hitting (pun intended) that line. He will throw in a few painful licks and then back down.

 

[KoPilot]

The only way I think I can say it is that I am a confident, intelligent, self assured woman. Daddy has found ways to bring me down a few pegs without being demeaning yet flipping that switch that enforces that I am simply his property.

Oh wow, if you go and explain it like that, then I think that I'm starting to get a kick from this too! S considers himself to be quite the bastard, and he has an appropriately suited sense of humor. I always wondered why I'd bristle a bit at his quips and then crave a little more.

 

[andyomama66]

soory, folks.. I'll do better

 

[andyomama66]

oops, my post was misplace. sorry, kopilot. (so green, I am.)

 

[andyomama66]

oops, wrong spot

 

[justhisgirl]

I love a good spanking or whipping. If I am warmed up proper I can take the most amazing amounts of pain and happily flow with the whip...sadly this also is my biggest dislike because if I am not warmed up I am a whimp and a simple hand slap to the ass will put me in tears.

 

[Homburg]

Pain.

I don't really care overmuch what form it takes.

If you are asking solely play what involves objects, answer changes to ropework.

 

[Black_Bunny]

sending me right into sub space and keeping me there.

OMG I think I experienced this the other day... where can I find out more about the 'sub space'? The search function doesn't seem to like me

 

[warrior queen]

i really love being tied up and flogged - heavy, thuddy please! - and it's especially good when i'm sensory-deprived (headphones and blindfold) so that i can't expect or anticipate.
the mindfuck comes in when HE's doing this and our 'third' enters the play, and i'm never warned when this might be..... then i'm being traded between the two and i never know what's going to happen!
each time has been different, with new things coming into action.... it's where i learnt about how much i like wax, about using ice after flogging, about canes and how fine the line is between pain and pleasure both... and about how much i love being 'used' by both HIM and HIS friend in all ways (thinking this is more about forced sex and forced orgasms).

my only regret - yes, there is one! - is that i had to wait till i was 40+ yrs old before finding out just how awesome this could all be.

 

[Yourfriendsfriend]

I love to tease and be teased, so orgasm denial is a lot of fun.

Biting/nibbling is sexy and nibbling/licking the earlobe or the area below it is especially intimate in my opinion.

Love to spank a woman's ass until it's red, and pull her hair ^^.

I get loads of satisfaction just lying on top of her feeling her naked body pinned against the bed under mine. soo hot.

For me it's not so much about giving her pain. I get a rush out of having control over her sexy body and giving her some pain is part of that.

 

[Bi_Kitty]

1.) Breath play. 2.) Anal. 3.) Nipple torture.

 

[shamegirl]

Bondage and humiliation

 

[RuReal]

Impact play is fun. I love a good tit slap watching the look on her face and the sounds she makes.

Biting seems to do good things.

Anal play I am planning to order some anal dilators. When I mention them she seems to go all dreamy.

Medical play is all sorts of hot in the mind right now. Have to do some testing and ordering to be sure, but it is coming.

Electrical play is high on our list of loves.

Hotest thing though has to be the power exchange. ie. I purchased a large bottle of distilled water about a month ago and it was sitting in the kitchen. When I purchased it she started asking questions and worrying at it, but I refused to answer. Well about a week ago I decided to put the item into play. I started boiling water and set aside a cup and a half of distilled water to warm in a double boiler setup. I hit the washroom to do some prep work lay out a towel break out the equipment. She is watching me zip back and forth through the place and you can see her wondering what is going on.

When I finally walk up to her take her hand and the cup of water into the washroom she was just on the edge. Forcing her to bend over the counter while I explained how the enema would work well... She went from fear and dislike to enjoying the experience and the loss of control. No sex involved non of the movie aspect scenes that people have watched on the internet. Just the fact that I was taking this one natural aspect of her bodies control and making it mine mentally worked for both of us.

 

[bi200069]

Favorite kink

I LOVE cbt. Anything that causes cock pain turns me on.......needles, razor cuts, burns, peehole insertions and I like to be anally penetrated....thick, hard and rough

 

[KoPilot]

I also really wanna work on figuring out how to introduce a little size-play, but boy is that going to take some creative problem-solving. -puts on thinking cap-

 

[CurlyKat]

As warrior queen said.... ice after flogging. Holy bejeezus yes!

 

[roxxana]

x

its always been the restraint for me - prefereablly blindfolded too !

but recently i seem to like the slaps getting harder , and in more intimate areas !!! exploring more now ....

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Yes.

All of the above.

Inflicting pain. The more the merrier. Tears. God, they are sweet.

Cutting, needles, electrical play of all kinds.

Fireplay - all kinds from the heat/sensation of wax to the intensity of Devil's Fire/cell popping. And Hom - I've added fire flogging to my repertoire .

Flogging, particularly florentine.

Canes, paddles, straps, belts, dragon tails, dragon tongues, quirts, whips....

Breathplay.

Bondage in many forms, but seriously, I'm a lazy bastard. "Don't you fuckin' MOVE, bitch!" is my favorite form of bondage...

Mummification, sensory deprivation, sensation play, contrasts, mindfucks...

They are all tools at my disposal.