What's your favorite kink/play?

[chy_girl]

Just that straight forward - What's your pleasure? What's your poison? Floggers, fire, whips, chains, some kind of character play...

It occurred to me last week that some of the less experienced might not even know of the existence of some kinds of play/implements and what better way to learn and discover than a conversation? Especially if the less knowing can ask the all important question: *tips head to the side with a quizzical look* Really?

 

[chy_girl]

My absolute favorite is wax - the hotter the better.

My second favorite is edge play - you know... things with sharp edges. That one has to be applied sparingly though. Quite the head fuck.

And of course everything is better when you're tied up for it.

 

[intothewoods]

Hmmm...probably good old fashioned spanking, but I also love floggers.

Really, as long as the person is good at what they're doing and there's some good energy between us, I'm not really picky about the type of play.

 

[chy_girl]

Hmmm...probably good old fashioned spanking, but I also love floggers.

Really, as long as the person is good at what they're doing and there's some good energy between us, I'm not really picky about the type of play.

The energy does make it all the better.

Do you prefer the stingy or the thuddy floggers?

 

[ecstaticsub]

My absolute favorite is forcing me into emotional challenges. Humiliation play is one way. Or being shared with his friends--old and new, male and female. There are other ways too that I rather not mention, but the mental play is always so much more powerful than any use of a implement for us.

 

[KoPilot]

I love a good old spanking too... but to provide a little macro fuel, I like when he lays on me like a dead weight. Combine being completely immobilized from that with some tickling, and I'm in heaven. (I appreciate simpler things. :B) Man, there are so many other things I wanna try too, though! Lol, he wants me to make a paddle with an autobot symbol engraved in it. I've got a feeling that once I do, it'll become a favorite.

 

[infinity706]

My favorite is probably having to perform tasks. Sadly, I've rarely gotten to be submissive to any of my sex partners because most of them would just use it to try and get me to do something like anal without a condom.

 

[Claire73]

he wants me to make a paddle with an autobot symbol engraved in it. I've got a feeling that once I do, it'll become a favorite.

I had to google that

 

[intothewoods]

The energy does make it all the better.

Do you prefer the stingy or the thuddy floggers?

Ehhh I guess thuddy. I have enjoyed both before though.

 

[BiBunny]

Breast/nipple torture.

 

[CurlyKat]

I love thuddy impact stuff. The stingy stuff I can take a little bit of, but don't care for it nearly as much as something that feels heavier and deeper.

My real addiction is anything tactile, though. You can ask my friends, when I find something I like (clothes, shoes, literally anything), chances are high that it will be something soft or otherwise interesting to the touch, and the first words out of my mouth will be "touch this." Leather is very good at this, because it can be soooo soft and smooth, but can hurt at the same time. Being very tactile, I also really get into skin sensation play like ice, scratching, biting, some heat (I'm really sensitive to heat for some reason), and things like that. Especially ice after impact play... yummmmmm.

 

[sb2009]

1. good old fashioned being spanked with the hand.

2. tied up.

3. being tied up and spanked LOL

 

[Soumis]

Lord have mercy...for sheer mindfuckness...knifeplay.

I also like bondage, impact play, fire...

 

[sb2009]

My absolute favorite is forcing me into emotional challenges. Humiliation play is one way. Or being shared with his friends--old and new, male and female. There are other ways too that I rather not mention, but the mental play is always so much more powerful than any use of a implement for us.

you have me all aquivver! Is that even a word????

 

[KoPilot]

I love thuddy impact stuff. The stingy stuff I can take a little bit of, but don't care for it nearly as much as something that feels heavier and deeper.

Fuuu-. This. I love lotsa this, with the stingy stuff interspersed throughout to keep me on my toes. (Or belly.)

 

[chy_girl]

Ehhh I guess thuddy. I have enjoyed both before though.

Stingy or thuddy depends on the mood. The one's that fuck with me the most are floggers that can be either though. My people have a horrible habit of picking those and then tossing in the unexpected.

Breast/nipple torture.

Yes.
Preferably soothed by bites

*snip*
My real addiction is anything tactile, though. You can ask my friends, when I find something I like (clothes, shoes, literally anything), chances are high that it will be something soft or otherwise interesting to the touch, and the first words out of my mouth will be "touch this."
*snip*

Away from play I'm the same way but once the play starts something in my head shifts. Mistress has this decadent piece of rabbit pelt that you could just melt into and stay forever... and she really likes to use during between hits of rubber floggers or dragon's tongues. Makes me want to crawl out of my skin.

My absolute favorite is forcing me into emotional challenges. Humiliation play is one way. Or being shared with his friends--old and new, male and female. There are other ways too that I rather not mention, but the mental play is always so much more powerful than any use of a implement for us.

How does the humiliation play work?

My Sir is a master at the head fuck on an emotional level, but I've never really understood what takes it from personally embarrassing head fuck to humiliation play...

 

[sb2009]

I have to say though, my husband has been making floggers and they varying textures are great....and he can make it sting-y or thud-y depending.

I've been teasing him tonight, and every time I do something to piss him off I say " ooh, I deserve a spanking!" and he says

"no, no spanking!"

 

[Xelebes]

Watersports, yes, watersports. My, oh my, watersports!

Wetting too. Starting to get interested in diapers too.

 

[chy_girl]

"no, no spanking!"

It sucks when they figure that part out...

 

[rida]

Serving my PYL. However he wishes. I'm simple like that

But if we are talking about something for myself, I'll have to say rope bondage and wax.
Forgot ice cubes! Yes, I love ice cubes.

Now, it is a bit of a OT, but can I say what I hate instead?
Hubby has a little rubber flogger that I really hate! It is stingy and hurts in all the wrong ways! Good thing he has not used in ages. Another thing that I hate is being tickled, and I'm very happy none of my PYL are interested in it.

 

[Essene]

-Don't really know that I have a favorite, although I might have a chance to date a m->f CD submissive. If the stars align, I may discover a new found love for dressing a man up in feminine clothing...and all of the lovely humiliation that can go along with it.

 

[Black_Bunny]

What an awesome, inspiring thread

I've only just begun to scratch the surface, but so far I'm enjoying a stinging-type flogger, bondage tape (like duct tape but it doesn't rip your hair out), and light choking (my sex counsellor has a big concern with asphyxiation).

I'm also up for old-fashioned hair-pulling and want to experiment with knife play.

You're right, chy_girl, I'm sure there is so much out there that I haven't even thought about... I love the feeling of endless possibilities!

 

[Noira]

Erghhh. I hate thuddy and I hate slicy and I HAAATE needles. Stingy, scratchy, ice, wax, firm pressure, hair pulling... ahh, that I like. Wax and hot water are particularly interesting, I hate being burnt but I just love having wax on myself. What a quandry! I too love tactile sensations, and it goes both ways.

On the flip side, I like reactions of any sort. Any sort. Whatever makes people react in that way I like sooo much is the kink I want to make them endure.

Right now, though (YES REALLY) my current favorite kink is the Victorian lifestyle play... I just love the idea of having a servant to wash my clothes and dust my home and uh, dust other things, while I play the highborn mistress. Toss in a bit of the rod, maybe a whip or two, some maid costumes, corsets, fancy dresses, definately assignment of tasks, creative use of the aforementioned duster... bet you could get some interesting heat play with oil lamps, and I can definately think of very, very interesting things with those old fashioned clothes wringers and all...

Maybe an obscure kink, but mm.

 

[seela]

Humiliation and objectification. Being pushed to the utter state of pure panic and fear. Being broken.

 

[Kity]

Breath play is my absolute number 1, although trust worthy Doms are few and far between.
Then flogging, with a heavy thuddy flogger that I can take for ever, sending me right into sub space and keeping me there.
Another favourite but so impractical is slapping, I love face slapping but not the headaches, so it's very very rare.