BLoved!

[Keroin]

Oh, well he was close. It was a boy thing - "gown" v. "dress" and all.

And I must hijack once more to say how much I love WD's current av pic. What a handsome furball!

(I miss my cat )

/Keroin cat hijack

 

[Rosie_Riveter]

You're gorgeous Keroin. Nice dress too.

 

[Kikori]

I think in my case it's because I really want to see the best in people and I can't imagine why someone can keep saying the same thing when tons of people have said "but no, that's not what happens around here, mabye you just went one really badly run event?"

It's kind of like me not quite understanding why my kid is lieing to me about changing the cats' water, when the evidence is *right there* that it has not been changed. I'm just an optimist. Sigh.

Problem is, he's pretty much proven he's not going to show us any kind of respect.

Surprisingly, it wasn't in the "casual BDSM" topic. Post 4 in his Love, Part I is where he showed he acknowledged he was posting in the wrong place. He certainly will keep it in mind that we have a sticky for promoting our own stories, but did it matter? Clearly not. Because action wasn't taken against his topic within a day, he's clearly special and not doing ANYTHING at fault despite the rules being what they are.

The rest of what he's done can be up to optimistic perception, but that is one of the few times it can't be denied he's not here to make friends or make an effort to do anything but be a pain in the ass.

If there's more needed of actually documenting his lack of respect, I'm going to pull a Bloved and self promote myself with the response I gave him about how often he's contradicting himself about what he says. Disrespecting who he says he will respect, ignoring people who have valid points, insulting by association some he may claim to want to "inform", etc.

He's pretty much just a troll. A ~smiling~ troll. I'd vote that we should laugh at him being a testament to our patience, but that still gives him the chance to start the topic with an entirely new section of the website. As does ignoring him.
(I can see it now. "The ethics of casual "GLBT", describing his love of a man he's known online for a month and how he saw two women kissing as proof of all his arguments...)

 

[Keroin]

You're gorgeous Keroin. Nice dress too.

Gracias.

That was my first night out, with my husband, after two years on a small island. I can still taste that meal...mmmmmmm.

/Keroin dinner hijack

 

[WriterDom]

Oh, well he was close. It was a boy thing - "gown" v. "dress" and all.

Gown worked as a metaphor for formal. That's all. Of course being a woman you HAD to see it.

 

[Rosie_Riveter]

Gown worked as a metaphor for formal. That's all. Of course being a woman you HAD to see it.

I did get a giggle thinking about formal BDSM.

 

[FurryFury]

I'm leaning toward the idea of him being a high school kid out for summer lately.

It's pretty clear he has no tolerance, just likes to argue for argument's sake and really doesn't understand BDSM at all.

If he was able to learn he might actually become a decent member of the group. Sadly, he isn't willing. That stick is still firmly up his ass.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I haven't made one comment on any of his threads. I really don't understand why everyone is giving him so much attention.

He gives those of us who don't believe in having BDSM relationships outside of a loving couple a bad name. I can't imagine bottoming or submitting to someone I was not in love with and who loved me.

However, the big difference between he and I is I'm not telling everyone who doesn't agree with me that they are wrong evil abusers. It just isn't something I am into. Everyone else can do whatever they want.

Please, please stop feeding the troll. He may never go away, but stop giving him attention.

 

[chy_girl]

I'm leaning toward the idea of him being a high school kid out for summer lately.

It's pretty clear he has no tolerance, just likes to argue for argument's sake and really doesn't understand BDSM at all.

If he was able to learn he might actually become a decent member of the group. Sadly, he isn't willing. That stick is still firmly up his ass.

See, and after getting some of his history I'm very tempted to use a word I hate. Broken. Not that broken can't be fixed, because it can. It's just very frustrating and tends to make me very heart sore when I run into someone who hasn't fixed the breaks yet.

 

[where]

given that almost no one agrees with him and he makes very longwinded posts that are essentially repetitive and he is unable to concede even the smallest point makes him a bore rather than a troll.

Given his propensity for posting his drivel just about everywhere (and I will say here and now that some of the stuff he says, I think he has a point, but only up to a point) whatever the context and the fact that people keep quoting the fucker to disagree with him using the same old counter-arguments, then nuclear iggy courtesy of the firefox add-on is the way to go. It does mean I have to read the responses, but at least it makes it more interesting guessing which specific point is being countered and I don't have to scroll through all the quotes.

we all know what he has to say, hardly anyone agrees, there is no movement on either side so just ignore him.

 

[FurryFury]

See, and after getting some of his history I'm very tempted to use a word I hate. Broken. Not that broken can't be fixed, because it can. It's just very frustrating and tends to make me very heart sore when I run into someone who hasn't fixed the breaks yet.

I know what you mean. I run into broken folks all the time. It's not that they can't fix themselves it's that they refuse to really look at the gray areas that scare them in a tolerant and useful way.

 

[Netzach]

RR nailed it "life giving levels of attention critically low" at one point.

I admit it's actually the safety nazi in me that causes me to post my piece of reality. I'm livid when anyone trashes the one or two things the Leather community has come up with to keep predatory weirdos in check.

Absolutely a testament to anyone and everyone can be here.

 

[Cattypuss]

........

 

[Cattypuss]

I'll bet his mustache smells like a wet ashtray. *barf*

Yes indeedy. What's more, I'll bet it's his most attractive feature.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I did get a giggle thinking about formal BDSM.

I once wore a white lace handkerchief in my right pocket. It drove the leathercrowd nuts trying to figure out what I meant by it...

Truth to tell, I didn't know what it might mean, either!

 

[JMohegan]

And I must hijack once more to say how much I love WD's current av pic.

Scut Farkus! What a rotten name!

 

[JMohegan]

I once wore a white lace handkerchief in my right pocket. It drove the leathercrowd nuts trying to figure out what I meant by it...

Haha, that's awesome.

 

[intothewoods]

Gown worked as a metaphor for formal. That's all. Of course being a woman you HAD to see it.

It's actually not formal. It's more of a cocktail dress. I'm sorry - I just can't help myself.

 

[Keroin]

Scut Farkus! What a rotten name!

That's the cat's name? How do you know this?

It's actually not formal. It's more of a cocktail dress. I'm sorry - I just can't help myself.

Rainbows, unicorns, playful puppies! Happy, positive thoughts.

 

[intothewoods]

That's the cat's name? How do you know this?



Rainbows, unicorns, playful puppies! Happy, positive thoughts.

That's what I was wondering!

Well classifying apparel does bring me inner joy, but ok...puppies!

 

[BLoved]

However, the big difference between he and I is I'm not telling everyone who doesn't agree with me that they are wrong evil abusers. It just isn't something I am into.

Of course not, because if you were people would be telling you to

Kill yourself.

Everyone else can do whatever they want.

So much easier to turn a blind eye to abuse.

 

[JMohegan]

That's the cat's name? How do you know this?

That's what I was wondering!

For god's sake, people! Don't you watch classic Christmas flicks?


"Scut Farkus! What a rotten name! We were trapped. There he stood, between us and the alley. Scut Farkus staring out at us with his yellow eyes. He had yellow eyes! So, help me, God! Yellow eyes!"

 

[Keroin]

For god's sake, people! Don't you watch classic Christmas flicks?


"Scut Farkus! What a rotten name! We were trapped. There he stood, between us and the alley. Scut Farkus staring out at us with his yellow eyes. He had yellow eyes! So, help me, God! Yellow eyes!"

AAHHHHHH!

*lightbulb comes on*

One of my all time faves, too.

"You'll put your eye out!"

 

[intothewoods]

For god's sake, people! Don't you watch classic Christmas flicks?


"Scut Farkus! What a rotten name! We were trapped. There he stood, between us and the alley. Scut Farkus staring out at us with his yellow eyes. He had yellow eyes! So, help me, God! Yellow eyes!"

Strangely these are not my favorite films of all time.

I take it it's from A Christmas Story?

 

[JMohegan]

AAHHHHHH!

*lightbulb comes on*

One of my all time faves, too.

"You'll put your eye out!"

Scut Farkus is all I can think about when I look at that av. I think WD photoshopped it for the humorous creepiness effect.

Strangely these are not my favorite films of all time.

I take it it's from A Christmas Story?

Yes, and there's no Jesus in that flick!

Scut Farkus --

http://latwistermovie.com/farkas.jpg