Confessions: What Are Yours?

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*puzzled* looks at IMA6uldv8.....

ICT I'm beginning to wonder just what the hell is happening!?

I don't even know if you'll see this.... perhaps you are just done posting but will lurk for a while longer, knowing that SO many people were impacted in a positive way by interacting with you. None us know what tomorrow holds IMA. In the context of the many posts that followed your farewell.... we wish you wouldn't leave us.... any of us. Think of the lurkers that don't post that have benefited knowing you were always here. Sure we all need a break... a reality check... much of what we do is intertwined with what we say on LIT and then again, we do what we do on LIT because we don't always have the courage to IRL?....

The joy and support you have given so many has brought you some peace at times I'm sure. Reality has a way of checkin' us every now and then, but it shouldn't be a reason to leave the many tangible and intangible relationships you have formed here.... so many will miss you. I do know, that you will always be a part of this HUGE forum, and that people will continue to look for you ... today, tomorrow and well into the future.

Live your life the only way many of us know how. One day at a time. What's that adage?.... uhm... "who know's what tomorrow brings, live your live today - it's a gift....that's why they call it the present"! It really is about making mistakes....loving, living... leaving and doing it all over again.

Will remember you fondly!

IFCT parting is such sweet sorrow.....
 
Ima don't ever think of yourself as damaged goods. You are a wonderful, caring woman. If you need to take a break from lit, so be it. Never, ever feel that way about yourself, you are much too precious a lady for that.
You are too kind and I thank you.
Ima, don't go !!!!!

This is one of the classiest threads on Lit and you help more people here than you could know. ICT I can relate to the feeling of being damaged goods at times and just remember, you may feel that way sometimes but the feeling does pass and there are always brighter days, too.
I'm waiting for those brighter days, now. Thanks so much.
ICT this thread is one of my favorite parts of the board. The supportive atmosphere in here has done a lot to help me feel more comfortable as a new member of the forum. I'm continually astonished by how caring everyone is for each other, and willing to offer consolation and advice, or even just a friendly word to people who are having a hard time. When people are feeling down, or alone, they can come here and feel welcome.

You are the one who has created that atmosphere, Ima. That is an incredible thing, and it means a lot to many of us. Thank you.
I enjoy making a place for everyone to feel comfortable. It means a lot to me. Thanks so much.
Ima:

I've enjoyed our chats. My saddest Lit trips have come since we've stopped talking. I only hope that you find the path that is best for you, and perhaps we can connect there, again.
I'll be around a bit, hon. I appreciate it, really.
Oh, IMA - please don't go! Honey - you are NOT damaged goods. And you will never be alone. We love you here! I have been to the place where you are, and you have pulled me out, kicking and screaming!
Please know, I am here for you... email me, pm me, Im me whatever...
(((((HUGS)))))
Hey girl. I'm so glad I helped you. Who knew it would be reversed so soon?
I second this!
You're a sweetie.
:rose:
My Dearest 6uldv8.
In the days when I first started coming to Lit I stumbled upon an amazing thread. A place where people where honest, supportive, and caring. The O.P. was the diva, helping out, offering advice, and the odd dirty suggestion.
Nowadays I can't get here as much as I'd like, and I find my favourite thread on the Interwebs is having a crisis. I am truly sorry I couldn't have been more for you. Know that the kind words you have given me were a light in the darkness, at times.
If you choose to leave, leave in the knowledge that your time here has been well spent, in enriching the lives of people you will never meet. And if any of us had the power, we would do whatever we could to provide you with some of that enrichment as well.
I hope you find someone that truly complements you. If it takes leaving to do that, so be it. But I hope to see you here until the stars fall out of the sky.

Steve
I've missed seeing you around more Thanks so much for taking the time to post. It means so much.
I second these emotions. Hope you don't mind Steve. I could not have put my words so eloquently.

ima, in the short time i have been here, you have been a light to me. I hope to one day be able to do the same for you.
know that whatever you are going through at the moment, "this too shall pass"
WE LOVE YOU
Thank you, Ima
I really love it when new members are helped here. Thank you for sharing.
I confess~ I don't think there is anything wrong with damaged goods (everyone has a story). It sucks when the destruction is taking place but it doesn't make someone less worthy!

I don't even know if you'll see this.... perhaps you are just done posting but will lurk for a while longer, knowing that SO many people were impacted in a positive way by interacting with you. None us know what tomorrow holds IMA. In the context of the many posts that followed your farewell.... we wish you wouldn't leave us.... any of us. Think of the lurkers that don't post that have benefited knowing you were always here. Sure we all need a break... a reality check... much of what we do is intertwined with what we say on LIT and then again, we do what we do on LIT because we don't always have the courage to IRL?....

The joy and support you have given so many has brought you some peace at times I'm sure. Reality has a way of checkin' us every now and then, but it shouldn't be a reason to leave the many tangible and intangible relationships you have formed here.... so many will miss you. I do know, that you will always be a part of this HUGE forum, and that people will continue to look for you ... today, tomorrow and well into the future.

Live your life the only way many of us know how. One day at a time. What's that adage?.... uhm... "who know's what tomorrow brings, live your live today - it's a gift....that's why they call it the present"! It really is about making mistakes....loving, living... leaving and doing it all over again.

Will remember you fondly!

IFCT parting is such sweet sorrow.....
I really appreciate you posting. We've never talked before and your words mean a lot to me.

I posted a bit too quickly the other day. I don't like drama and I apologize for that. I want to thank you al who posted here and in PMs. It really means a lot. There are no words adequate to express my thanks. I'll be here when I can and feel like it. You all mean so much to me. I really didn't realize how much until this happened :heart:
 
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This next part is not for replies, I just need to say it and this is the only place I have.

I hate myself right now. I hate myself for being too needy, lonely or maybe both? I fucked up what could have been something really good. I'm hurting a lot right now and don't know when that will be gone. I can now understand why people have destructive behavior whereas I never could before. Life sure deals some sorry hands sometimes. Anyone have a new deck?
 
We had a wonderful winter. Warm, not a lot of snow.
But ICT I'm worried for the summer to come. Not sure if I believe the whole global warming thing, but the environment seems to be making some global shifts.

IFCT I'm looking forward to sleeping in the next 4 days.

IFCT I'm glad I've lost half a pant size, but now my belts are at that annoying stage of being a little too loose. And if I go down a hole, they're a little too tight.
 
ICT that I wish there were women online from my area that liked to talk. I've met ONE woman from my area that I've talked with. Other than that, it seems dead. I don't want to go barhopping for women, I just want one to talk with sometimes.

ICT that I want to cuddle really bad right now.
 
We had a wonderful winter. Warm, not a lot of snow.
But ICT I'm worried for the summer to come. Not sure if I believe the whole global warming thing, but the environment seems to be making some global shifts.
There's something going on with the weather. Usually by now we've got the heat and humidity. Its been so nice here! I'm dreading the summer but it coming later makes it much more bearable.
 
ICT that I wish there were women online from my area that liked to talk. I've met ONE woman from my area that I've talked with. Other than that, it seems dead. I don't want to go barhopping for women, I just want one to talk with sometimes.

ICT that I want to cuddle really bad right now.
I'm sorry hon. I know how powerful loneliness can be. I could use some major cuddling, myself.
 
There's something going on with the weather. Usually by now we've got the heat and humidity. Its been so nice here! I'm dreading the summer but it coming later makes it much more bearable.
You guys just had a cold snap, didn't you?
We were supposed to come down their for a vaca, but my work schedule and my wife's salary cut stopped it. I was looking forward to some midwinter sunshine, and to visiting some online peeps.:( Maybe next year.
 
ict, i being raised in a strict christian family, feel delightfully sinful when i slide up a formfitting pair of jean shorts on the first warm day of spring. the way they show off my hard earned muscular thighs and hug and lift my ass with a little hint of what lies underneith. makes me feel like i should be scolded. im usually quite modest. its my one guilty pleasure.
 
ict, i being raised in a strict christian family, feel delightfully sinful when i slide up a formfitting pair of jean shorts on the first warm day of spring. the way they show off my hard earned muscular thighs and hug and lift my ass with a little hint of what lies underneith. makes me feel like i should be scolded. im usually quite modest. its my one guilty pleasure.

ICT the image of Sovery in her shorts is quite sexy and I am so glad that spring is here, it is 80 degrees, and less clothing is the norm.
 
You guys just had a cold snap, didn't you?
We were supposed to come down their for a vaca, but my work schedule and my wife's salary cut stopped it. I was looking forward to some midwinter sunshine, and to visiting some online peeps.:( Maybe next year.
We've had a few and they've been wonderful! I was hoping you could make it down here. I'll look for ya next year. The last three days have been so pretty. Beautiful blue sky with no clouds which is my favorite :)
 
ict, i being raised in a strict christian family, feel delightfully sinful when i slide up a formfitting pair of jean shorts on the first warm day of spring. the way they show off my hard earned muscular thighs and hug and lift my ass with a little hint of what lies underneith. makes me feel like i should be scolded. im usually quite modest. its my one guilty pleasure.
You were raised that way too, huh? Maybe that's why we're here. Welcome to the thread. If you've got it, flaunt it. Good for you.
 
ICT sometimes the enormous gulf between the fantasies and fun that Lit gives me, and the reality of my life, makes me want to explode, or else just scream.

And I'm so glad you're feeling a little better, Ima :)

WF
 
ICT that I was naughty by myself earlier and it lasted a lonnnnng time. ;) I also confess that it's the first time I've "entertained myself" for hours in about a year.
 
ICT the image of Sovery in her shorts is quite sexy and I am so glad that spring is here, it is 80 degrees, and less clothing is the norm.
yeah your
probably right. just not my norm.
You were raised that way too, huh? Maybe that's why we're here. Welcome to the thread. If you've got it, flaunt it. Good for you.

lol your probably right. and thanks
 
ICT The S/O and are about to go have hot, wet, passionate SEX!
It is a nice day here and she want to try something outside, this will be different for me.
 
ICT that I was naughty by myself earlier and it lasted a lonnnnng time. ;) I also confess that it's the first time I've "entertained myself" for hours in about a year.

I never have a time when I can take all the time I need, for that.
 
ICT: It's Friday night, and I'm sitting here at home, watching Celebrity Sober House on VH1, and I am perfectly ok with that! :D
 
ICT: It's Friday night, and I'm sitting here at home, watching Celebrity Sober House on VH1, and I am perfectly ok with that! :D
That's one of my favorite shows! I'm so sick of some of them and their constantly changing emotions. And I was so glad to see Kari Ann gone.
 
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