Men Who Crave Men

[kingkhan1]

I know there is that popular thread Men Who Crave Cock bu, not Attracted to men. It was the thread that pulled me into this forum but, after a year of fooling around with a fuckbud that I crave men not just the cock.The final time I fucked him (he moved on to a serious relationship) we cuddled while watching a movie and fell asleep together and in that moment holding him I don't think I have felt so good in my life. I need another man to recapture that feeling.
So, any others crave man and not just cock(even though we crave cock too).

 

[jnibroc88]

I am a bit sad with the lack of actual gay/bi men on this site. I am not bi-curious and I don't feel like always helping men, like this, out. I am a pansexual, and I can fall in love with someone regardless of their gender.

 

[kingkhan1]

True, I don't want to project on to others what I went through but, just liking cock and not men was just a phase for me. I would say I am bi but, I want a man more at the moment.

 

[jnibroc88]

True, I don't want to project on to others what I went through but, just liking cock and not men was just a phase for me. I would say I am bi but, I want a man more at the moment.

I don't mean to sound rude, but are you really looking for some one to meet in rl on here? And, as far as what you went through, I am sure it is very similar to most. I never say I want a man or a woman more at one point or another. It is all who I happen to find. I hope you find the man you are looking for.

 

[kingkhan1]

No, I am not looking to meet someone in real life from here. Just when I read the posts most of them are this tentative liking of guys and a distancing of being gay/bi like, the whole liking cock and not liking men. I just wanted to hear more of those guys who are really into guys.

 

[jnibroc88]

Good. And it wouldn't be that big of a deal. I was just going to recommend the personals. I was thinking of starting a similar thread recently. There is not, as far as I know, a thread for gay and bi men. A lot of bi-curious, and only liking cock threads though.

 

[Chrissi]

I am a bit sad with the lack of actual gay/bi men on this site. I am not bi-curious and I don't feel like always helping men, like this, out. I am a pansexual, and I can fall in love with someone regardless of their gender.

There are a couple of gay men here, myself included, but otherwise you are somewhat correct.

I think there are many more who call themselves bisexual, but more as a defense mechanism as a result of the sad state of feelings toward open homosexuals.

 

[Chrissi]

I know there is that popular thread Men Who Crave Cock bu, not Attracted to men. It was the thread that pulled me into this forum but, after a year of fooling around with a fuckbud that I crave men not just the cock.The final time I fucked him (he moved on to a serious relationship) we cuddled while watching a movie and fell asleep together and in that moment holding him I don't think I have felt so good in my life. I need another man to recapture that feeling.
So, any others crave man and not just cock(even though we crave cock too).

I know many men like you, some where married, some not, many were curious, many called themselves bi. Once they opened up and accepted their own feelings and wants, once they admitted to themselves that they like, no desired, emotional and physical contact with other men (or even a certain man), then for some it was like a new life beginning for them. Many wanted to shout it from the rooftops...some are still deep in the closet, some not so deep. But I would have to say that they all identify as gay now, at least the ones that I am familiar with.

To answer you question, yes, I so much need an emotional attachment to another man. Sex is certainly pleasurable, or as pleasurable as you want to make it, but it is the other contact and connection that I truly want.

topher

 

[queerunity]

I think there are some men who don't identify as gay or bi and do like men physically but not necessarily emotionally. Some of these men get lumped under the medical term Men who have sex with men (MSM) and it could be situational homosexuality like jail, dorm, etc. The other group is men who call themselves g0ys who like physical contact with men but eschew much of what gay culture has to offer.