The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[graceanne]

Deeply positive vibes and thoughts toward a wonderful friend facing a potentially life-threatening circumstance due to her job. Please join me in wishing for her that nothing happens.

Thank you.

Definitely. Lots and lots of prayers from here.

 

[chy_girl]

OMG

I love your av. I adore your av. It's going to go on the made me laugh thread.

Glad you got a laugh out of it. I actually came across it when searching out pics for DGE's religious thread.

It was too perfect to pass up... Jesus in a *palm/face* moment.

 

[graceanne]

Glad you got a laugh out of it. I actually came across it when searching out pics for DGE's religious thread.

It was too perfect to pass up... Jesus in a *palm/face* moment.

I imagine He spends most of His time in that position.

 

[chy_girl]

I imagine He spends most of His time in that position.

Not according to the churches I've been to. Though it's hard to imagine that he has *that* much patients.

Personally, I think all the various gods and goddesses are sitting around taking bets on how long it takes humanity to fuck things up. I'm kind of twisted in my outlook though.

 

[graceanne]

Not according to the churches I've been to.

Yeah, well most churches refuse to consider Jesus doing more than looking holy and Anglo. Most Christians could stand a stiff infusion of humor.

 

[chy_girl]

Yeah, well most churches refuse to consider Jesus doing more than looking holy and Anglo. Most Christians could stand a stiff infusion of humor.

*coughs and tries to look serious*

I really like you. Probably would have stayed in the church longer had they had that opinion.

 

[graceanne]

*coughs and tries to look serious*

I really like you. Probably would have stayed in the church longer had they had that opinion.

Thanks. I've heard that before, but unfortunately I'm pretty rare. Or so I hear.

 

[chy_girl]

Thanks. I've heard that before, but unfortunately I'm pretty rare. Or so I hear.

Yes, you are rare. Even more so from the perspective of the Christian population.

Shame really, they could use some lightening up. And common sense for the people on the more extreme end of things.

 

[MisterSir]

One step at a time. Just keep practicing, you'll get there.

Thanks love.

 

[Cattypuss]

when I left her at the station and I ended up merely nuzzling her ear when I attempted to kiss her goodnight.

Actually that sounds erotic as hell. Always good to leave them wanting more.

 

[the captians wench]

Actually that sounds erotic as hell. Always good to leave them wanting more.

I was thinking the same thing. Deffo would have wet my panties if I ever wore any.

 

[minx1]

Deeply positive vibes and thoughts toward a wonderful friend facing a potentially life-threatening circumstance due to her job. Please join me in wishing for her that nothing happens.

Thank you.

That sounds terrible Sir W!

Sending all the positive vibes I can muster. Hope she will be ok

 

[Keroin]

Deeply positive vibes and thoughts toward a wonderful friend facing a potentially life-threatening circumstance due to her job. Please join me in wishing for her that nothing happens.

Thank you.

I have a surplus of good karma lately. Consider it yours to distribute how you like, SW.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Definitely. Lots and lots of prayers from here.

That sounds terrible Sir W!

Sending all the positive vibes I can muster. Hope she will be ok

I have a surplus of good karma lately. Consider it yours to distribute how you like, SW.

Thank you, thank you, and thank you, both for me as her friend, and I'm certain from her as well. She *will* know of your good wishes.

 

[MisterSir]

Actually that sounds erotic as hell. Always good to leave them wanting more.

I was thinking the same thing. Deffo would have wet my panties if I ever wore any.

You're giving me way too much credit, but I appreciate the effort and unintended tip on how to provoke wetness. Now watch as she decides to tell me she's actually not interested in dating.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

You're giving me way too much credit, but I appreciate the effort and unintended tip on how to provoke wetness. Now watch as she decides to tell me she's actually not interested in dating.

At the least, she thinks enough of you to have told you that she'll find you a playmate if you go to this club Saturday night. That alone tells you that she considers you to have a certain modicum of talent/value. Perhaps she thinks she isn't good enough for you, or experienced enough, or ... who knows?

I can tell you this for certain: Unless she's completely out to burn you, she's not going to be willing to find you a playmate knowing/thinking it will be a failure, because to do so "for" someone she doesn't think has potential (at least) would be immensely damaging to her reputation, and for most females, even more than we males, that rep is important.

MS, dood... try to have a little more faith in yourself - and the rest of humanity, especially the distaff side.

 

[MisterSir]

MS, dood... try to have a little more faith in yourself - and the rest of humanity, especially the distaff side.

Tried. Hasn't worked out for me yet. And in the interests of not sounding like a complete whiner, that's all I'm going to say on the matter.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Tried. Hasn't worked out for me yet. And in the interests of not sounding like a complete whiner, that's all I'm going to say on the matter.

Send the girl here. We'll talk to her!

 

[neci]

my nose is still running and my eyes are bloodshot from crying.
i wish i were tougher.

 

[MisterSir]

Send the girl here. We'll talk to her!

...I'm going to have to pass for now. Probably not a good idea for her to see what I've been saying. I find not looking like a complete neurotic mess is a good thing. Not that I've been succeeding there.

 

[unregistered]

 

[chy_girl]

my nose is still running and my eyes are bloodshot from crying.
i wish i were tougher.

*big hugs*

 

[chy_girl]

How does one define love in the BDSM context when it excludes a romantic relationship? When it's simply a PYL/pyl dynamic?

It isn't romantic love by any means, but it isn't simply platonic love either. How do you describe something that doesn't seem to exist outside of your own head? How do you explain it when the words don't fit? And more importantly, how do you keep from fucking it all up when you do try?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

How does one define love in the BDSM context when it excludes a romantic relationship? When it's simply a PYL/pyl dynamic?

It isn't romantic love by any means, but it isn't simply platonic love either. How do you describe something that doesn't seem to exist outside of your own head? How do you explain it when the words don't fit? And more importantly, how do you keep from fucking it all up when you do try?

This is *not* aimed to criticize you - or anyone, really... but I see this type of question so many, many times (including at least one thread on the Talk page currently).

Why do so many of us want to *define* our relationships, describe them, explain them? Why can't we just *enjoy* them? Is it possible that many "failed" relationships collapse *because* we're dissecting and analyzing them to death?

 

[chy_girl]

This is *not* aimed to criticize you - or anyone, really... but I see this type of question so many, many times (including at least one thread on the Talk page currently).

Why do so many of us want to *define* our relationships, describe them, explain them? Why can't we just *enjoy* them? Is it possible that many "failed" relationships collapse *because* we're dissecting and analyzing them to death?

Because Mistress has ordered a journal entry and I don't know how to explain that they've stolen my heart without threatening the boundaries set up to protect the relationship between her and Sir.