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Confessions... wow! The one thing I did that bothers me to this day. My friend and his wife were "separated." She'd kicked him out of the house. He was a kind of control freak. He was just possessed with the idea that his wife while separated might be sleeping around on him. The worst part was, I was close to both of them. So I decided to stay out of it all together. You know let them work it out. Well he kept insisting that I should talk to her and find out if she as screwing other men. Finally, she called me one night and asked to talk. He found out about her request, and told me to go over there. So I went over there. Well we had too much wine and ended up in bed together. Well they got back together about a month later. You know the play, could not live without each other. He insisted that she tell him everything and that he would not get mad. Well, she told him the truth. Needless to say, I lost two very good friends because I could not control my urges.
 
lookinforward said:
Confessions... wow! The one thing I did that bothers me to this day. My friend and his wife were "separated." She'd kicked him out of the house. He was a kind of control freak. He was just possessed with the idea that his wife while separated might be sleeping around on him. The worst part was, I was close to both of them. So I decided to stay out of it all together. You know let them work it out. Well he kept insisting that I should talk to her and find out if she as screwing other men. Finally, she called me one night and asked to talk. He found out about her request, and told me to go over there. So I went over there. Well we had too much wine and ended up in bed together. Well they got back together about a month later. You know the play, could not live without each other. He insisted that she tell him everything and that he would not get mad. Well, she told him the truth. Needless to say, I lost two very good friends because I could not control my urges.
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wow... that might be - but they weren't very good friends either - she was as much fault as you and he wanted you to be his spy? Stick to your screen name and keep looking forward. Hugs.
 
funluvinaj said:
wow... that might be - but they weren't very good friends either - she was as much fault as you and he wanted you to be his spy? Stick to your screen name and keep looking forward. Hugs.
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I had written a paragraph or so on this..you put it into 2 lines my lady. They used you..they weren't good friends. You have nothing to be ashamed of young man..
 
ICT I flirted quite thoroughly with my cleaning lady today. She's older (which is nice in my book) and still in quite fine shape. Was somewhat intoxicating.
 
ICT one of my pet peeves is when people use others for their own whim, lie about loving them, and then threaten to drag them down with them when they get busted. That isn't love - or even friendship - it is selfishness.
 
ICT wanting to put multiple sharp impliments into various parts of my former fuck buddy's new squeeze.

I shouldn't, and outwardly I wished them both well, said how happy I was he had found someone etc. And I am, it's just that the sex is really, really, really good.

And he's a mate, a mate who tends to get caught up in his relationships, and let his friendships slide *sigh* Stupid facebook. Ignorance really is bliss sometimes
 
ICT an email from my sexy coworker today, while I was working from home, got my imagination rolling.
 
likes2watchU said:


{{{{draconus_infernus}}}} sorry the new year is being a bully. i feel the same way about being 40 and am actually looking forward to my birthday. go figure

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Thanks :D ICT after this afternoon, it looks like things are looking up. This year might not be that bad after all.

Age is but a number, my friend. It only has power over you if you let it, and you're only as old as you feel.
 
ICT I wonder how long we can survive on our own without having someone special in our lives. I know it's taking it's toll on me. I feel kind of dead inside.
 
ima6uldv8 said:
ICT I wonder how long we can survive on our own without having someone special in our lives. I know it's taking it's toll on me. I feel kind of dead inside.
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BEAR HUG! hugs and hugs.

I'm sure your someone special will be along Ima.
 
ima6uldv8 said:
ICT I wonder how long we can survive on our own without having someone special in our lives. I know it's taking it's toll on me. I feel kind of dead inside.
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I love you sis... my heart aches for you, I hate that there is nothing I can do to take your pain away. I love you. AJ
 
ima6uldv8 said:
ICT I wonder how long we can survive on our own without having someone special in our lives. I know it's taking it's toll on me. I feel kind of dead inside.
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From where I'm sitting, it looks like you are special to a lot of people here. You're not alone.
:rose:
 
ICT I think it's pretty cool that so many folks are giving Ima their support. This is a true online community!
 
ima6uldv8 said:
ICT I wonder how long we can survive on our own without having someone special in our lives. I know it's taking it's toll on me. I feel kind of dead inside.
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Love, I know how you feel. I've been dealing with the same thing and I know how rough it can be- particularly when others you know seem so much better off.

I'm going to try not to say the cliche stuff about how you need to "buck up" or how "you mean a great deal to a lot of people," because I know that even though it's true, it doesn't do much to help. It's just not what you want to hear because it's not the same. You know you're loved here, but it's not exactly the kind of love you're looking for.

All I can say is it will get better and you will find someone. You're a remarkably special person and it's unfathomable to me that you could go through life without someone noticing that. In the meantime, all I can offer is a shoulder, a willing ear, and a pat on the back every now and then. It's not much, but you have my support until you find your way. I just wish I could do better than that for you- God knows someone like you deserves it.

"... searching for a heart,
Searching every one,
They say love conquers all,
You can't start it like a car,
You can't stop it with a gun."
-WZ
 
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ima6uldv8 said:
ICT I wonder how long we can survive on our own without having someone special in our lives. I know it's taking it's toll on me. I feel kind of dead inside.
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Believe me ima6uldv8, not long... I came very close to loosing "Her" forever and I'm glad She had enough left in her to reach out to me and though we have work to do I think we're on the right track...

HisAloneToUse.... :rose::kiss:
 
lookinforward said:
Confessions... wow! The one thing I did that bothers me to this day. My friend and his wife were "separated." She'd kicked him out of the house. He was a kind of control freak. He was just possessed with the idea that his wife while separated might be sleeping around on him. The worst part was, I was close to both of them. So I decided to stay out of it all together. You know let them work it out. Well he kept insisting that I should talk to her and find out if she as screwing other men. Finally, she called me one night and asked to talk. He found out about her request, and told me to go over there. So I went over there. Well we had too much wine and ended up in bed together. Well they got back together about a month later. You know the play, could not live without each other. He insisted that she tell him everything and that he would not get mad. Well, she told him the truth. Needless to say, I lost two very good friends because I could not control my urges.
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Talk about "wow!!!".

My heart nearly stopped when I read this. When I was young and silly, I was in a very similar position to the wife, my boyfriend was the control freak. I screwed up, because I was immature and didn't know how to handle the situation. Got the guilts and 'fessed up. He went nuts, though he had basically manipulated the situation and used it against me for the next 5 years.

Anyway... I felt guilty for years, but i finally came to my senses.

Life's too short to beat yourself up for being human. And it's much to short to carry around a burden of guilt. You have to keep looking forwards.

Sometimes I wonder why I stayed with him so long.
 
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