Confessions: What Are Yours?

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Fearful person that I am, Death really doesn't bother me. I may not be in the perfect position in my life right now but if I were to die tomorrow, I don't think I could feel too bad about it. I don't want to sound like the typical arm chair philosopher, but it's really true that Death is nothing. Life is everything and the only sure thing, tangibly speaking. I mean, we control our lives, but not our deaths, so we may as well make the best of it. The only advice I can give to really get the most of it though is really just enjoy the small stuff. That's what's important: Sand between your toes, a good martini with jazz or a fine red wine with Italian food, a warm dog snuggled up on your lap, and the kinds of friends that you can sit for hours with and say nothing to and still not be bored. That's what life is and that's what's important. And, in all honesty, while not a religious person, I think that's what your reward will be on the other side, if you've earned it- all the stuff that you enjoyed the most and that meant the most to you. But, if not, then enjoy it while you're here.

I'll leave this with just two anecdotes, since I feel I'm already pushing the limit of some attention spans:

Last year when I was on the skids there was a certain night that I went to a local bar to hear my friend Joan play her guitar and sing. She's a fantastic musician and one of the best female vocalists I've ever heard, hands down (She tears up Crazy on You*). After it was over, Joan, our friend Brian (another aging musician and happy old hippie), and another friend Bill headed back to Brian's place where we rousted Brian's 19 year old son (an amazing guitarist in his own right) out of bed. We all played cards, drank some more, the others lit a few (not my cup of tea, so I had a Coke instead). By the end of 2 hours, Brian's son had pulled out an old 6-string and was picking idly. Suddenly, without any conscious awareness, we all just kind of joined in where we could- Brian on his piano, Joan singing, me adding harmonies, and Bill pounding a rhythm on the table. We ended up sitting around for hours playing old Zeppelin songs together and singing four-part harmonies on songs by The Band. Looking back, that's life to me. It's moments like that that just make you feel perfect and whole. I hope that's what's waiting on the other side when I go.

The other is just a blurb about Warren Zevon. When he was diagnosed with mesothelioma in 02, he was given just 3 months to live (he managed a full year, and one final album). Zevon had been a regular guest on the Late Show, and Letterman asked him to come on and fill a whole hour- it turned out to be his last public performance before his death. During the interview, Letterman asked some standard questions which Zevon answered with his usual dry wit. Finally, Letterman asked, "Is there anything that, given your current situation, you think you know about life that the average person doesn't?"
Zevon thought for a moment and replied, "No, not as such. Unless it's that I know how much you're supposed to just enjoy every sandwich."

That sums it up, friend. That's the secret.

Enjoy every sandwich.

Okay, this was rather long and pointless, but I'm feeling rather philosophical tonight I guess...
Your thoughts, sir, come pretty close to mine. Obviously, you're a genius. :D
Seriously I enjoy reading your posts, no matter the subject.

ICT Shai and Raven brighten my days. I can't help but smile when I see their avis.
 
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Fearful person that I am, Death really doesn't bother me. I may not be in the perfect position in my life right now but if I were to die tomorrow, I don't think I could feel too bad about it. I don't want to sound like the typical arm chair philosopher, but it's really true that Death is nothing. Life is everything and the only sure thing, tangibly speaking. I mean, we control our lives, but not our deaths, so we may as well make the best of it. The only advice I can give to really get the most of it though is really just enjoy the small stuff. That's what's important: Sand between your toes, a good martini with jazz or a fine red wine with Italian food, a warm dog snuggled up on your lap, and the kinds of friends that you can sit for hours with and say nothing to and still not be bored. That's what life is and that's what's important. And, in all honesty, while not a religious person, I think that's what your reward will be on the other side, if you've earned it- all the stuff that you enjoyed the most and that meant the most to you. But, if not, then enjoy it while you're here.

I'll leave this with just two anecdotes, since I feel I'm already pushing the limit of some attention spans:

Last year when I was on the skids there was a certain night that I went to a local bar to hear my friend Joan play her guitar and sing. She's a fantastic musician and one of the best female vocalists I've ever heard, hands down (She tears up Crazy on You*). After it was over, Joan, our friend Brian (another aging musician and happy old hippie), and another friend Bill headed back to Brian's place where we rousted Brian's 19 year old son (an amazing guitarist in his own right) out of bed. We all played cards, drank some more, the others lit a few (not my cup of tea, so I had a Coke instead). By the end of 2 hours, Brian's son had pulled out an old 6-string and was picking idly. Suddenly, without any conscious awareness, we all just kind of joined in where we could- Brian on his piano, Joan singing, me adding harmonies, and Bill pounding a rhythm on the table. We ended up sitting around for hours playing old Zeppelin songs together and singing four-part harmonies on songs by The Band. Looking back, that's life to me. It's moments like that that just make you feel perfect and whole. I hope that's what's waiting on the other side when I go.

The other is just a blurb about Warren Zevon. When he was diagnosed with mesothelioma in 02, he was given just 3 months to live (he managed a full year, and one final album). Zevon had been a regular guest on the Late Show, and Letterman asked him to come on and fill a whole hour- it turned out to be his last public performance before his death. During the interview, Letterman asked some standard questions which Zevon answered with his usual dry wit. Finally, Letterman asked, "Is there anything that, given your current situation, you think you know about life that the average person doesn't?"
Zevon thought for a moment and replied, "No, not as such. Unless it's that I know how much you're supposed to just enjoy every sandwich."

That sums it up, friend. That's the secret.

Enjoy every sandwich.



Okay, this was rather long and pointless, but I'm feeling rather philosophical tonight I guess...

Na bro not long and pointless at all. I know this is literotica but I appreciate you taking the time to respond to mine. I agree it is those certain moments that make it all worth while. I am in a fantastic place in my life. I have great friends and a fabulous family. A great job that I love and have met some very cool and genuine people on this site. So don't ever apologize for posting anything on here that you feel like posting. I have learned in the month o rso i have been on here that if they don't like me fuck em....I am who i am..A silly silly man with dumb stories that for some reason make a few laugh every now and then...I work all day every day..this is a great way for me to be to let loose and say whatever...
 
Shai... Raven... when I look at your cleavage, babies are the FURTHEST thing from my mind, just FYI! And I like it that way! :D
 
Na bro not long and pointless at all. I know this is literotica but I appreciate you taking the time to respond to mine. I agree it is those certain moments that make it all worth while. I am in a fantastic place in my life. I have great friends and a fabulous family. A great job that I love and have met some very cool and genuine people on this site. So don't ever apologize for posting anything on here that you feel like posting. I have learned in the month o rso i have been on here that if they don't like me fuck em....I am who i am..A silly silly man with dumb stories that for some reason make a few laugh every now and then...I work all day every day..this is a great way for me to be to let loose and say whatever...

And to that, I say this...
 
im_a_man: It's good to know that you're always "ready", unexpected or otherwise. ;)

theravenfox: It's a colloquialism in another language (the baby's ass comment). We tiny-titted girls sometimes envy bigger-busted women. :eek: And when we are amongst ourselves, we sometimes gossip and say, did you see so-and-so? Her boobs are so big/large/etc, it's like a baby's ass! :D Usually it's in a tone of amazement or envy. ;)

polylovr: I'm glad that my AV gives you a little joy. :)

glasspenguin: ICT I like reading your posts, whether you're ranting or spouting out philosophical hoola-baloo. :)
 
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ICT my first day back at school with my students was not as painful as I thought it would be :). Of course I had 1/3 of my class out sick as well :p
 
I wish I could help but I can sympathize...

ICT my mother thinks I'm fat and should lose more weight. When I told her that I lost *some* weight already, she said that it wasn't enough and I should lose more of my belly fat. She kept on about my predisposition to hypertension and etc. I know those things already, that's why I've tried to exercise regularly and eat healthier (read: no more potato chips because they caused my belly fat in the first place! lol). When she was single and childless, my mom weighed less than a 100 lbs and her waist was really tiny. I've seen her wedding dress and I wonder how anyone could fit into that. Now you guys know why I have body issues. I love her dearly but sometimes she's too much.

ICT I have a hard time imagining someone would tell sexy ShaiGirl:rose: she needs to "lose more weight", since she is obviously gorgeous:D, but since it is her mother, I can sympathize with her in the face of such an unrealistically critical appraisal of sweet ShaiGirl:rose:'s delectable physique:(

ShaiGirl:rose: I know you have worked hard to make the impressive strides in improving your health and I can understand how such a comment from your mother can blur your own image of the accomplishments you've made. I'm sure you know this but I remind you anyway:rolleyes:, you are not your mother. You are living in a healthier way and are taking your health seriously. I'm sure, in her own way, she just wants what she thinks is best for you. Take her commentary as an expression of her caring for you and disregard the content (as much as is possible:rolleyes:) as her own arbitrarily formulated ideal not as a standard to be achieved. You look great and are living healthy, that is all that can be asked. You're physical accomplishments are obvious to those of us who have enjoyed your shared pics:)

Your physical beauty, kindness, compassion, wit and charm are part of the truly wonderful total package that is you. No matter what anyone ever tells you, you are an inspirational treasure of incalculable richness and my friend:)

Take care dear ShaiGirl:rose:
 
ICT my mother thinks I'm fat and should lose more weight. When I told her that I lost *some* weight already, she said that it wasn't enough and I should lose more of my belly fat. She kept on about my predisposition to hypertension and etc. I know those things already, that's why I've tried to exercise regularly and eat healthier (read: no more potato chips because they caused my belly fat in the first place! lol). When she was single and childless, my mom weighed less than a 100 lbs and her waist was really tiny. I've seen her wedding dress and I wonder how anyone could fit into that. Now you guys know why I have body issues. :( I love her dearly but sometimes she's too much. :eek:
I completely get this. My mother has never been upwards of 115 pounds, and she is extremely self-critical. Every time I see her she asks me what I've been doing to lose weight, wants me to go to the gym with her, etc. It's a challenge to stay patient and not lose it. Glad to see I'm not the only one!

I hope it gets better for you. By the way, you are stunning.
 
It's a situation like Peter Davison found himself in when he took the reigns from Tom Baker. I hope Matt Smith does well, and I will greatly miss David Tenant's Doctor. He's one of my favorites for sure.

I will say that is was nice the way he went through and found closure with his past companions, and it was nice to see that Mickey finally got a happy ending after getting crapped on so much.

And I thought it was hysterical when the newly regenerated Doctor complained about still not being ginger.

I know I've said this before, Ima, but the fact that you like Doctor Who makes you even hotter to me ;)
I loved him going back like that and making changes. It was great seeing the people again, too. Was so sad at Donna's wedding. I wished he could have talked to her :( What was the ginger reference? I don't think I've heard that. I didn't understand it. Wow! Makes me even hotter? How hot is that now? ;)

ICT I want to give Ima a big hug. :)
That is so sweet :rose: I'm better now but you don't know how much I could use one.
 
I completely get this. My mother has never been upwards of 115 pounds, and she is extremely self-critical. Every time I see her she asks me what I've been doing to lose weight, wants me to go to the gym with her, etc. It's a challenge to stay patient and not lose it. Glad to see I'm not the only one!

I hope it gets better for you. By the way, you are stunning.

First let me clarify that, from what I've seen, you ladies look amazing, and I see no reason for any changes.
However, I can see your mothers' perspective.
My daughter is quite large, and while I would never suggest that she needs to lose weight, I have offered my help and support if she ever decides to pursue that. My concern with her is twofold:
Her self esteem issues have been very apparent for over a decade, and I hate to see her suffer.
Her genetics are working against her. I was diagnosed diabetic at 32ish. She'll be there much younger than I, and I hate to see that.
 
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ICT I'm totaly addicted to this show called "Hoarders" as a clean freak its like watching a terribad train wreck or a donkey show, its repulsive but at the same time I cant help but look in awe at the way some of these people live!:eek::eek:
 
Been wondering where you'd been! Welcome back. Happy New Week.

Back atcha' Ima! Just been hella' busy with company and such, but things are quieting down now...well, as much as they ever are actually "quiet". :D



ICT I'm totaly addicted to this show called "Hoarders" as a clean freak its like watching a terribad train wreck or a donkey show, its repulsive but at the same time I cant help but look in awe at the way some of these people live!:eek::eek:

OMG, I KNOW, right?!?!! That's the most bizarre show ever, yet oddly fascinating. :eek:
 
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ICT I sould not play video games before bed they just piss me off and then I cannot sleep. :( gotta find something to unwind to now :(
 
I confess I'm happy to see so many fellow Doctor Who fans on this thread, but frustrated that I have to keep skipping and not reading posts since I haven't seen either episode of End of Time yet. Grrr. Really need to get those downloaded and watched.
 
ICT that I'm bored, lonely, horny, and trying to work, any two of those wouldn't be a problem.. LOL.
 
ICT I should be working but I'm here at Lit reading this confession thread. :D

I completely get this. My mother has never been upwards of 115 pounds, and she is extremely self-critical. Every time I see her she asks me what I've been doing to lose weight, wants me to go to the gym with her, etc. It's a challenge to stay patient and not lose it. Glad to see I'm not the only one!

I hope it gets better for you. By the way, you are stunning.

Are you my sister?! :eek: Now I know where the boobs in the family went. You got them all! :D

Yeah, it's tough sometimes. It's the same with my mom. :eek: I hope it gets better for you too. *hugs* And you are gorgeous! ICT I've been lurking in your thread. *wink* The idea that Ekserb (with his fantastic skills) is going to photograph you is truly mind-boggling.

First let me clarify that, from what I've seen, you ladies look amazing, and I see no reason for any changes.
However, I can see your mothers' perspective.
My daughter is quite large, and while I would never suggest that she needs to lose weight, I have offered my help and support if she ever decides to pursue that. My concern with her is twofold: Her self esteem issues have been very apparent for over a decade, and I hate to see her suffer. Her genetics are working against her. I was diagnosed diabetic at 32ish. She'll be there much younger than I, and I hate to see that.

Hello Polylvr, and thanks for the compliment. :) I know the point that my mom is trying to make- it's about health issues. I've got "bad" genes as well - hypertension and diabetes - which she points out comes from my dad's side. :D I know my predisposition, that's why I try to keep my BP and glucose levels normal - with the exercise and healthy living. My body also gives me warning signs if I consume too much (or exercise too little). But sometimes, as MYW said, it's tough to be patient. Re: your daughter, maybe you should point out to her this "I confess" thread? :eek: (OMG, a father telling a daughter to visit an erotic website!) :eek: I hope you don't take this the wrong way - but I think motivation (for weight loss, appearance, etc) should come from within. Diabetes and hypertension often go together, and have lifelong complications. I've seen it in several relatives that's why I try to not be in that boat. *hugs* to you and a :rose: for your daughter.

ICT I have a hard time imagining someone would tell sexy ShaiGirl she needs to "lose more weight", since she is obviously gorgeous, but since it is her mother, I can sympathize with her in the face of such an unrealistically critical appraisal of sweet ShaiGirl's delectable physique......

Wanton, even though you're cajoling me to lose my "shyness", you say the sweetest and wisest things sometimes. Thanks, friend.

Aww, what a sweet post. It makes me happy when I see people building each other up around here. And ShaiGirl, I know that I don't know you, but from what I've seen of your posts, it seems like you do a lot of that yourself, which I think is a character trait of an awesome person (in my humble opinion, of course. )

I confess that being one whole day into my grad school experience, it now seems slightly less intimidating than when I was just waiting for it to start. However, I'm still anxious about how I'm going to balance full-time work, half-time school, and all the other things I want to do in my life.

Thanks for your words, ms_intrigue, pleased to meet you. I think we haven't interacted before. :) Re: your schedule, I'm sure you will be able to fit it all in! We women are multi-taskers. *wink*

ICT that I'm bored, lonely, horny, and trying to work, any two of those wouldn't be a problem.. LOL.

ICT I'm intrigued what those two "non-problems" are.
 
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ICT I'm intrigued what those two "non-problems" are.[/QUOTE]

Bored and lonely, or bored and horny, or horny and lonely.. but not all four at the same time LOL.

For the record Shai, you've got a lovely body, and I think or at least hope you know it. :) I got a serious chuckle out of your line to MYW, you know who got the boobs in the family LMAOO..

Have a wonderful day babe!
 
Bored and lonely, or bored and horny, or horny and lonely.. but not all four at the same time LOL.

For the record Shai, you've got a lovely body, and I think or at least hope you know it. :) I got a serious chuckle out of your line to MYW, you know who got the boobs in the family LMAOO..

Have a wonderful day babe!

I'm glad I was able to make you smile. ;) If MYW was my sister, the boob genes skipped me (since I'm older) and she grabbed all of them. :D

Have a wonderful night! Tschuss! :)
 
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