Don't want to be an anal whore LOL

[Hiliburn]

I've been a prude my entire life, but last few years I think I've figured a few things out with age. And become a very horny wife, lol. Hubby wants anal, always thought that was asking way too much, but I like to abide by the saying- "never say never". I know we will be soon, starting slowly fingering the subject haha. He's been there twice now with his fingers and last time he also manipulated me vaginally to cumming. A few nights ago I was helping myself and couldn't get over the hump until I started thinking about anal penatration. Last night we were having great hair pulling (didn't know that pulling my hair involunatarily raises my ass in the air lol) and cumming was very close but not quite. I was so wet and sweaty that I could feel my ass cheeks sliding and griping him and then I came really hard (even got a headache after from all those chemicals lol).
So obviously anal interests me now, didn't really want to share that with hubby! But only because of my own hang-ups. Obviously we still need to 'finish the job' before I KNOW for sure.
Anyway had to 'vent' my concern or my conversion somewhere.
(thank goodness for the Black Manual! lol)
Hili

 

[kaycee217]

Glad you're sharing and that you're crawling out of your shell, so to speak.

Good luck on your explorations.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

go for it, slowly, carefully & in your own time.
Anal can be utterly amazing, a totally different orgasm (more A spot I think)
if it is feeling good to you, relax and let him go there.
Lots of threads on how to do it safely and well.......just lube!!!

 

[MissMDS]

If you hadn't put the "LOL" in the subject line, I would have thought that you felt that being an anal whore was a bad thing.

 

[Eilan]

Don't worry. As long as you don't accept pay for teh buttsex, then you'll just be an anal slut.

 

[mentionME]

Don't worry. As long as you don't accept pay for teh buttsex, then you'll just be an anal slut.

LOL...

 

[Hiliburn]

Don't worry. As long as you don't accept pay for teh buttsex, then you'll just be an anal slut.

oh whew! lol


Thanks for your support! Really great and needed! Last night's wasn't a wonderful experience, but I took more than I have before. As Evilzeus suggested, conditioning! here's to the exercise!

 

[maggiemarie]

And the exercise is half the fun (or thereabouts...)

 

[Wyldfire]

oh whew! lol


Thanks for your support! Really great and needed! Last night's wasn't a wonderful experience, but I took more than I have before. As Evilzeus suggested, conditioning! here's to the exercise!

Your own fingers first in some masturbation. Loads of lube too. One finger first, then as many as you can handle up to as many as he is wide. Go one finger more comfortably before you let him try.

 

[Ohiorob]

Anal.......the great unknown. Although we treat it shyly.....ladies and gentlemen alike crave it.......when done right. Be brave and open minded.

This is a little like launching out there with Star Trek. It is the journey into the unknown......until you stumble upon the planet "Great Pleasure".

Anal is great pleasure if done right. ALL must be cleaned....that may require enemas. Fingers coated with saliva might be a gentle start. The anus has more nerve endings than anyplace else. That =sensitivity.

A tongue...or fingers and ky might be next. We are talking about lovers here.....not sex partners.

If you love sex and intimacy........anal skills (giving and receiving) should be part of your life.

btw: being an anal whore with a lover...is a good thing.