Tried out one of those guys who just wants to give a woman oral

kimbernee

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This isn't a story masquerading as a post, I promise. This really happened and I'm sharing because other women might get some use out of it.

I recently had a very enjoyable encounter with an ex who had unexpectedly developed awesome oral technique. I hadn't had any that good in a while and it left me craving more. I've seen those ads on Craigslist from guys claiming that all they want to do is give a woman oral: come over, lick your pussy, leave, no reciprocation needed. So I decided to try it.

I placed an ad explaining what I was looking for and got a ton of responses (of course). I could tell a lot of them were just using the oral as an "in" to get with me, but there were a few who sounded completely sincere. I picked out someone who wrote well, was ridiculously enthusiastic, and was quick to send pictures and slow to ask for mine back.

We met the next day in a public place and after looking each other over agreed to go back to my place. It was a little awkward getting started with some questions about what I liked and what I'd allow, but eventually he took off my panties and away we went. He spent maybe 45 minutes between my legs without resurfacing until I told him I'd had enough. He never took off his pants or asked me to touch him or even touched himself. When I was done we cuddled a little bit and he asked for feedback on his technique and then he left. When he got home he sent a lovely email thanking me for the experience and generally gushing compliments.

His technique wasn't exactly what I like, so orgasm-wise it was more OK than great, but he's so eager (I have a phone number now to use to summon him with at any time) and so willing to learn, that I don't see why we won't get to great eventually. I'm definitely giving him more chances. ;)

I've done various other scenarios through Casual Encounters on CL and this is the only one that's worked out exactly as planned. I guess you get a nicer breed of guy when you post looking for someone to lick your pussy without reward than when you post looking for someone to fuck you blind with a big cock. Too bad, cause I like both. :D

So for any woman who's ever been curious to try this. My experience says go for it! :)
 
positive advertising.....

that's what we pussy lickers like to see..... positive advertising.....:p:p:p
 
It probably wouldn't hurt to give the guy some reacharound every once in awhile.
 
ive never heard of this craiglist but sounds interesting. Might add to it if its worth it. Just out of interest is it only for men wanting to please women or is there a part for women advertising for men? Was it very hard to find genuine people on there though all the odd ones or were they fairly easy to pick out?
 
I don't see myself ever doing this, but the idea is pretty damn hot.
bobinks2 said:
It probably wouldn't hurt to give the guy some reacharound every once in awhile.
Isn't the whole point of the experience that there isn't supposed to be any reciprocation?
 
I remember a young Lady I introduced to vibrators and then to oral sex...just on her, I never took my jeans off. That was her first timer for someone going down on her.

Her boyfriend wouldn't even try it. I think I made a good impression and a case for frequent oral sex.

My roommate at the time was so intrigued about the screaming orgasms and calling on God ( She couldn't believe we weren't fucking) that I got some from her about six months later.:)
 
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I'm very happy to hear that you had the courage to give this a try, and even more delighted that it was a positive experience. I hope that we'll see more posts like this from other women talking about their equally pleasing adventures.

I've wanted to post a personal ad offering this type of encounter for a long time, but haven't had the courage to. Until now.

Thank you so much for sharing.
 
Very interesting, Kim!

I browse CL for entertainment sometimes, and like you, I've always wondered how genuine the 'free oral' offers were.

Englishman, there are women4men ads, but at least here, a lot of them are made by hookers and scammers. And it can be tough to find genuine people on CL, regardless of what one's looking for, probably because using the site requires very little investment (vs. a personals site where people must post semi-good profiles and post pics to get any quality responses).

If you do correspond with anyone from CL, be sure to use plenty of common sense, including the "if it sounds/looks too good to be true..." rule. Use an anonymous, disposable e-mail addy and don't click on links people send you or respond to messages that could be cut & pasted (some people ask for a specific phrase in the subject line or message in an attempt to weed out the spam and scammers up front).
 
As an addendum, in the last week I've had him over 3 more times. He left a phone number and a promise to come when called and he's been good to his word. I don't know how long we'll both find this setup hot, but so far we've stuck to the original deal.

While I'd ordinarily agree with the warning about "too good to be true", this one has been both good and true. I do think 1) there are way more fake women out there than fake men and 2) someone who's interested in a semi-subby setup like this is probably a nicer person than one looking to top or even play equal. Is that a fair thing to say? It's true from my experience, I'm afraid.
 
I do think 1) there are way more fake women out there than fake men

Do you mean that the ads are fake or the people themselves are fake somehow?



2) someone who's interested in a semi-subby setup like this is probably a nicer person than one looking to top or even play equal. Is that a fair thing to say? It's true from my experience, I'm afraid.

I'm not sure about "nicer", but I think they might be "safer". They will have greater respect for the boundaries of the agreement rather than attempting to alter them to their own gain.



Please keep us informed of current events. I'm very interested to hear how this turns out. ^_^
 
I really think I mean nicer more than just safer. I'm afraid that women looking for casual sex aren't treated very nicely in a general way. It's refreshing, this.

(I meant fake ads. I'd bet fake people run at about the same percentage either way.)
 
A friend of mine has had luck with 2 other men for that same purpose. All they want is to lick pussy. I love that you found luck there too. Maybe now I'll have the courage to try it myself.
Keep us in the loop on his progress :kiss: :p :devil:
 
Sounds like a good time! That's been a fantasy of mine for awhile! Glad to hear it actually happens!
 
I'd probably be one of the guys offering on CL, if my fiancee didn't keep me so busy pleasing her...

Still, it's a hot story and I'm glad it's working out for you.
 
That is really awesome...that certainly is a great idea, I have never heard of it before.
 
That is really awesome...that certainly is a great idea, I have never heard of it before.

I hadnt either till my friend told me. She met them on CL and then they met in a public setting. From there they went to her place or a motel and he just did it.. Neither of them pressured her for anything else.
Now I cant get the idea out of my head :p
 
Very nice...now to find a lovely lady near me that wants an arrangement like this...:devil:
 
I'm glad to hear you had such a good experience!

I could do with a man like that, but I'm so blooming fussy, which is annoying!
 
Me too, which is why it wasn't perfect first try. He got better . . . and then he went away. So even the servile ones turn into men eventually, but the experience was worth it.
 
Will you try it again if you find another suitable participant?

Any other advice on how to make this a more satisfying experience for the woman?
 
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