hurting people is fun.

Which reminds me, I really need to stop by Horseland and get a new crop.

Mine got damaged when I was moving house :(
 
i agree with both of you.. as a little foot note i like to spank my partner with a belt or open hand. we never tried a crop. till now. lol
 
i agree with both of you.. as a little foot note i like to spank my partner with a belt or open hand. we never tried a crop. till now. lol

Can have a bit of fun with those. :)

You've got the flappy slappy bit... or the rod part. Very different sensations.
 
i was physically and mentally abused..

my ex once slapped me . i told her to keep slapping me until she was happy. she continued until my face was numb and her hand couldnt take it anymore. i suggested she use the other hand. and she did. so much fun..
 
Hurting people is easy. Making them a sexual slave to the dominance and pain you dish out, that's a little more complex.

Which is why it's so much fun. :D
 
this is why men shouldn't wear tight pants.
why risk it?

me is howling with laughter when i heard this one!!!!!!
but is it so much about hurting the person as humiliating them, inflicting light, or sharp, blunt and sudden pain, seeing the tears, hearing the cries and begging......and THEN getting them to admit that they REALLY did want it???

That is the best part for me.....making them feel guilty for wanting punishment, feeling naughty and wanton and slutty and submissive because of it......and then because of all those emotions.......come back begging for more?

The conquest of getting a shy, reserved person to admit to all these feelings and then actively begging for more is the greatest victory i could imagine.
 
Hurting people is easy. Making them a sexual slave to the dominance and pain you dish out, that's a little more complex.

Which is why it's so much fun. :D

This is a deeper truth.

But sometimes, that look of anguish and fear alone is worth so much.
 
but is it so much about hurting the person as humiliating them, inflicting light, or sharp, blunt and sudden pain, seeing the tears, hearing the cries and begging......and THEN getting them to admit that they REALLY did want it???

nope, i just like causing pain.
i feel no desire to exert dominance, bend their will, all that jazz.
 
nope, i just like causing pain.
i feel no desire to exert dominance, bend their will, all that jazz.

I like both. I like the fear, the pain, the animal response.

On the other hand, I like to then turn about and make them intellectualize it, to see what's being done, what they're consenting to.

Yup, both sides of the coin are pretty cool.
 
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