Anal sex for women... ??

[prostatecurious]

I need some women to talk about this subject. If they engage in it, if they enjoy it or do it for their partner. I think it's interesting enough to approach with my someone who had a "bad experience" before and does not seem eager to try again.

So, do you do it?(Y/N)

Do you enjoy it? Candid reply please! (Y/N)

Did you come to enjoy it or was it a hit to start

Any other comments are very welcome. Thanks to the women who share this with me. I won't PM or bother you otherwise.

If you prefer to PM me so it's private, please feel free to. I won't reply unless you specificall invite me to do so for further dialogue.

Thanks in adavance!

 

[dirtycarol]

Well, this IS a sexual related board, and since I can remain anonymous so, I'll go ahead and give my thoughts and experiance.

I really don't care for it, but I've done it twice. The first time my partner and I discussed it before trying it, I said I didn't caer for it and he didn't either, so that was that. The second time was during my only MMF threesome, I was on my hands and knees sucking one guy while his friend fucked me doggy style, without warning he pulled out of my pussy and eased his cock into my ass and picked-up speed from there. I was a bit surprised, but held my own, (as far as the guys were concerned). I don't think they saw my nails digging into the couch and I didn't bite the guy's cock that was in my mouth, but I really didn't like it much, and I hated it when he came in my ass...That was twenty some odd years ago, and I haven't done anal since, and I don't miss it a bit.

 

[smallgirl]

yes, i do it sometime, not often though.

yes i enjoy it, somewhat anyway.....and honestly i have cum from it alone. which amazed me at the time.

 

[prostatecurious]

Thanks Dirtyxarol and Smallgirl. Your experiences are quite different and I find it interesting how some women are not interested at all and others actually get off on it.

I've read / heard that pace and patience is everything and that to engage in anal sex with a woman she must be ready, willing and able. I suppose that a surprise attack would not feel good as your not ready to recieve. Shameful prick for pulling that on you while your indulging a spit roast!! Why bite the other guys cock, he's not the prick...

I appreciate you two sharing.

 

[dirtycarol]

Thanks Dirtyxarol and Smallgirl. Your experiences are quite different and I find it interesting how some women are not interested at all and others actually get off on it.

I've read / heard that pace and patience is everything and that to engage in anal sex with a woman she must be ready, willing and able. I suppose that a surprise attack would not feel good as your not ready to recieve. Shameful prick for pulling that on you while your indulging a spit roast!! Why bite the other guys cock, he's not the prick...

I appreciate you two sharing.

The first guy I tried it with I/we were patient and went slow, I just didn't like it much and never volunteered myself to it again. My first thought when guy #1 pulled out of my pussy was that they were going to switch positions, I was taken by surprise when I felt his cock pressing against my ass. It was good and slippery, but I braced myself, dug my nails into the couch, and HOPED I wouldn't end-up biting guy#2s cock, he had a hand firmly on the back of my head, besides, I really didn't want to stop, I just hoped I could enjoy both, or at least tolerate it. I did toleate it, but wish he would have at least came on my ass instead of in it. I assure you, I never would have bitten guy#2s cock on purpose, It would have been alot better if guy#1 would have ask, or at least said something. Il don't think I will ever really enjoy anal, and certainly won't ever be the one to suggest it with ANY partner.

 

[prostatecurious]

Dirtycarol. thanks again.

I am thinking that your candid response is likely representative of what many women's attitudes are towards anal, they are probably eager to please and do it for reasons other than self pleasure. If I thought she'd enjoy it I would be suggesting it. It's probably mostly in my head, the thought of my cock head passing that taboo barrier.

Thank you for sharing.

 

[dirtycarol]

Dirtycarol. thanks again.

I am thinking that your candid response is likely representative of what many women's attitudes are towards anal, they are probably eager to please and do it for reasons other than self pleasure. If I thought she'd enjoy it I would be suggesting it. It's probably mostly in my head, the thought of my cock head passing that taboo barrier.

Thank you for sharing.

O.k, a question for you. Why is anal that important to some guys? After the threesome I ask guy#1 why he wanted to fuck me in my ass when he could have my pussy and mouth all he wanted that night. He just shrugged and told me something like, "Because I wanted EVERYTHING..."

I just let it go at that. Some women do get-off on anal, (so I've heard). I guess you could start off with a little anal play and if she accepts it, just ask her openly if she would like to try it. Go slow and be gentle if she says yes, she may enjoy it. Good luck on your quest.

 

[sugaredwalls]

I enjoy anal once in awhile with my S.O. It's not something I would ever do casually at all, as it's about one of the most intimate things you can do with another person but that's JMO.

I like the feeling of being filled full of cock that way, it triggers something that is very, very pleasurable and will make my orgasm much more intense. Dirtycarol is right, go slow and be gentle. Lots of anal play, rimming, fingering to start off with and lots and lots of lube and patience. Of course, if she objects, then you'll have to accept she's just not interested.

 

[diva847]

I have done it a hand full of times over the past year, not for my enjoyment as much as for his. I do have to say the last 2 times have been great for me. 1 because of me doing my own pleasuring while he was back there busy. 2nd time was the first time trying double penetration, his penis in the anus and my vibrator in my vagina. This was the BEST orgasm I have every had.

 

[prostatecurious]

Thanks once again Dirtycarol. I agree that with a delicious pussy a man should not want ass, but there's that taboo about it. I suppose to be totally honest it's the thought of putting your cock in a place that is going to grip is good and tight. I used to bang a girl who had a pussy like a chinese finger lock, she was totally wrong for me, but I could not pull myself away from that divine pussy.

I will take your advice and give it a go. She does not mind a little ass play, finger in the butt, especially while I am flicking her clit with my tongue. In fact this sometimes aids a gushing orgasm. I will see if she's game for maybe just the tip to enter, no pressure and if she declines then I'll not broach the subject again unless she does so.... I am wondering if some porno with anal makes women think "hmmm I'd like to try that with a sensitive and patient guy... " or something to that effect...

diva847 - I appreciate your reply too.. I think many women are motivated as you are. Make their man happy. Nothing wrong with that, I am not one to self indulge and I tend not to get terribly aroused unless she's getting off. My best orgasms occur after she squirts and I plunge in to have her vagina tug my cock.... last nite for example. That's more to my liking, so if she's not going to get off on anal (in her mind or physically) then I think it's something I can let slide. I don't want to make her think I am anally obsessed when she's already told me she had a bad experience. If I can make her excited about me doing that and think it might give her as you say "the BEST orgsam" then I'd be all over it. I like the thought of DP too... recently we've been near fisting and her vagina muscles contract like she's having a seizure. Needless to say it's very intense for her and that level of arousal sends me through the roof. Again, with near fisting (duck shape hand in past my thumb but not over the widest part of my hand) she's on that fine line between pleasure and pain and I go very slow. I think I can show the same regard for anal, just need to take the suggestions here and put them into the play book!

Thanks for all your replies and sharing your intimate activities! Thanks to those who've PM'd me too. I apprecaite your replies.

 

[blue_mojo_pin]

I must admit to a fascination with this topic...I've had three serious relationships in my time, and two of those women seemed to have a real enjoyment of anal play, while the other wasn't at all bothered about it.

My first partner was pretty up front about it, telling me she liked it 'in every place' and guiding my fingers exactly where she wanted them. The second was more circumspect, but in the throws of passion, usually while we were at it doggy-style, she'd start to finger herself and then make me rub my thumb all around her asshole. It made her go crazy, but she often seemed a little ashamed about it aftewards. Even more so the one time she got down on all fours on the bed, grabbed a handful of my hair and rammed my face between her cheeks Ah, the memories...

My last girlfriend wasn't interested though, which is fair enough. I did and still do miss it, however...

 

[sallybaby]

I need some women to talk about this subject. If they engage in it, if they enjoy it or do it for their partner. I think it's interesting enough to approach with my someone who had a "bad experience" before and does not seem eager to try again.

So, do you do it?(Y/N)yes

Do you enjoy it? Candid reply please! (Y/N)very much

Did you come to enjoy it or was it a hit to start It's painful/discomfort at first but it subsides then aaaaaahhhhhhh...enjoy...a hit from the beginning

Any other comments are very welcome. Thanks to the women who share this with me. I won't PM or bother you otherwise.

If you prefer to PM me so it's private, please feel free to. I won't reply unless you specificall invite me to do so for further dialogue.

Thanks in adavance!

...........

 

[raphy]

I believe that bastion of Presidential probity, JFK, was once overheard as saying "I don't count that I've ever had a woman unless I've had her in all three holes".. And we know about him and his one-gun-salutes. Wonder what that says about Norma Jean Baker, eh?

For me.. It's taboo, it's naughty, it feels different than being in a pussy. The claim that "if a man's with a woman who has a fantastic pussy he should never need to slide into the ass", I think, has no real standing. They both feel different. Does that mean that if your partner has a fantastic pussy you never need oral, either?

I'm a kinky little motherfucker, and any partner I sleep with has to be equally as kinky - Not just tolerating anal, but actively enjoying it too. Some women I know cum purely from anal penetration, which I always found interesting, since a woman doesn't have a prostate.

I think there's some evidence there, to demonstrate how much the female orgasm truly is about the 'emotions' and the 'feelings' experienced during sex and not purely about part A rubbing against part B.

Women that I've spoken to that really get off on anal tend to be more submissive. I've heard lines like "I feel so dirty and slutty when I'm face down on my knees holding my ass open for him, and I love that feeling" or "It makes me feel like he truly possesses me, can use my body any way he pleases to take his pleasure."

It -is- an inherently submissive act, even if physically the woman is on top. In the same way as oral sex.. No, the penis is -not- technically supposed to enter that orifice, so any time we do it (intentionally), it's for carnal pleasures other than procreation, thus the receiving partner is "allowing" the penetrating partner to use an orifice for which is was not designed, so yes, there's definitely an element of submission there.

Submission is very much a mental thing.. And as we all know, the biggest erogenous zone in your body is your mind.

p.s. Any guy who wants anal sex, but won't take it from his gf with a strap on is a hypocrite

 

[TrishaSouth]

Life : get on

 

[Syd_Duece]

Do it.
Like it .
And of course get off on it.

That , should be the 11th commandment .

Life : get on , to get off .

 

[smallgirl]

oh yeah. the most erotic night of my life...anal and my vib at the same time....i almost blacked out it was sooooo intense.

 

[kjw410]

anal

O.k, a question for you. Why is anal that important to some guys?

For me, mostly curiosity. I have a feeling once would be enough, but I'd like try it once.

 

[remove090809]

Me and my g/f did it twice.
First time she loved it and screamed my ear off in pleasure
second time hated it and we went back to normal
third time... been waiting for that one

 

[poete_maudit]

O.k, a question for you. Why is anal that important to some guys? After the threesome I ask guy#1 why he wanted to fuck me in my ass when he could have my pussy and mouth all he wanted that night. He just shrugged and told me something like, "Because I wanted EVERYTHING..."

I just let it go at that. Some women do get-off on anal, (so I've heard). I guess you could start off with a little anal play and if she accepts it, just ask her openly if she would like to try it. Go slow and be gentle if she says yes, she may enjoy it. Good luck on your quest.

Although I adore ass_cheeks_, the anus ain't interesting to me. Done a woman anally only once: the smell was repulsive, and it hurt her and me (I'm very thick, need room).

 

[deskuser]

Ouch never fancied it. I've always liked my ment putting their fingers up though.

 

[budfox]

Ouch never fancied it. I've always liked my ment putting their fingers up though.

my girlf loves it after lots of licking and fingering!

great av desktop

 

[deskuser]

So's yours! Not shy are you?

 

[JessicaJ8721]

I like it.

 

[peachydreams]

Learning to like it. I didn't at first, I had to get used to all the sensations but BF and I have been working on that because the next MFM we have, I am dying to try a DP. Just to see if I like it!

 

[dorothyparker]

Learning to like it. I didn't at first, I had to get used to all the sensations but BF and I have been working on that because the next MFM we have, I am dying to try a DP. Just to see if I like it!

Give it a go and time will tell. All the women I have had a DP with love it. I hope you will share when you do