Am I bi when I am just sexually attracted to women?

[Dancer_Frog]

Okay. I have only dated guys, never even wanted or thought about dating women. I am married, but have always enjoyed looking at women. Their bodies are just so sexy, their privates much sexier then mens. I love kissing females when I drink. sometimes I drink a lot just to have an excuse to kiss them, cuz lots of straight women kiss other women when they drink, but would never do it when they are sober. My husband knows that my biggest fantasy is with me and her one-on-one and a FFM.
I have never considered myself Bi, and no offense, but I don't want to. I have heard the term Bi-curious, which I guess I would use to describe me. I just want a sexual relationship with a female. I would love my huby to be involved, or at least watch(which he said is the only way i could be with a female). Im not looking for a female lover, or anything like that, just a female fuck buddy. Do you think that makes me bisexual?

 

[RoxyChick69]

Okay. I have only dated guys, never even wanted or thought about dating women. I am married, but have always enjoyed looking at women. Their bodies are just so sexy, their privates much sexier then mens. I love kissing females when I drink. sometimes I drink a lot just to have an excuse to kiss them, cuz lots of straight women kiss other women when they drink, but would never do it when they are sober. My husband knows that my biggest fantasy is with me and her one-on-one and a FFM.
I have never considered myself Bi, and no offense, but I don't want to. I have heard the term Bi-curious, which I guess I would use to describe me. I just want a sexual relationship with a female. I would love my huby to be involved, or at least watch(which he said is the only way i could be with a female). Im not looking for a female lover, or anything like that, just a female fuck buddy. Do you think that makes me bisexual?

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[emap]

Eh it makes you whatever you want to be. The labels are only handy for outsiders to use to describe someone.

I'm bisexual, I've slept with another woman, I'd do it again exept well I found the most wonderful man and we aren't up to sharing so far. I would have been with more women if the situation arose, it just didn't. Most people think of me as bisexual, I'll say it just to clear any confusion but what I am is actually just a living gal.

 

[RoxyChick69]

Eh it makes you whatever you want to be. The labels are only handy for outsiders to use to describe someone.

I'm bisexual, I've slept with another woman, I'd do it again exept well I found the most wonderful man and we aren't up to sharing so far. I would have been with more women if the situation arose, it just didn't. Most people think of me as bisexual, I'll say it just to clear any confusion but what I am is actually just a living gal.

What a great post!

 

[hottalyssa]

Okay. I have only dated guys, never even wanted or thought about dating women. I am married, but have always enjoyed looking at women. Their bodies are just so sexy, their privates much sexier then mens. I love kissing females when I drink. sometimes I drink a lot just to have an excuse to kiss them, cuz lots of straight women kiss other women when they drink, but would never do it when they are sober. My husband knows that my biggest fantasy is with me and her one-on-one and a FFM.
I have never considered myself Bi, and no offense, but I don't want to. I have heard the term Bi-curious, which I guess I would use to describe me. I just want a sexual relationship with a female. I would love my huby to be involved, or at least watch(which he said is the only way i could be with a female). Im not looking for a female lover, or anything like that, just a female fuck buddy. Do you think that makes me bisexual?

hello frog. you are perfectly normal my dear. believe me. i went through this for years. if you want to chat more about this in private, just pm me.kisses,alyssa

 

[gloriann]

It makes you whatever you want to be. If you want the label, take it, if not, don't.

Being straight, gay, bi, poly, whatever isn't only about who you want to sleep with. Those of us who have accepted a label (however limiting that may be) accepted it with the emotional part of it too. I am a lesbian not only because I enjoy sex with women, but I also could not imagine living the rest of my life without having a woman by my side.

I think I figured out the gay/bi rift: a lot of bi's (not all, don't anyone jump down my throat) have taken the label simply because they enjoy sex with the same gender as themselves, rather than considering the emotional component as well. They call themselves bi when they have to be drunk to kiss another girl, that kind of thing.

 

[co1029]

Personally, I don't identify except for educational purposes when I'm doing things like Ally Training at school. Other people need to label me, I don't. I honestly don't see gender when I'm looking for a mate. Most of the world labels me a lesbian because I'm in a deep loving relationship with a woman. Most of the world would be wrong

Don't feel like you need a label. If you want one, or if you think it will help you, by all means, go for it. To me, you are just a woman who happens to be attracted to women, as well as men.

 

[imnotgettinany]

From a straight male (now bi-curious)point of view, I would never have a problem with my wife wanting to try a sexual encounter with another woman, and wanting me to be part of it........if dreams would only come true.......now i would go with either mff or mmf

 

[imnotgettinany]

bi-straight-gay-gay-lesbian etc................what the hell its a lable, doesnt mean anything except for the people involved and what they do is their decision

 

[RoxyChick69]

bump

bumping....its worth continuing the talk.

 

[Dancer_Frog]

thanks guys! This does clear a few things up for me. But what does poly mean? Glo riann mentioned it and I have never heard of this before.

 

[RoxyChick69]

thanks guys! This does clear a few things up for me. But what does poly mean? Glo riann mentioned it and I have never heard of this before.

Perhaps a "lover of many?" or one who loves all types/sexes?

 

[gloriann]

Polyamorous... lover of more than one... exactly right.

 

[LuringLina]

I'm curious about this too. I find myself more aroused when listening/watching/reading about women or lesbian sex, but then again - I wonder if it's because I've never had sex of any kind with a male before, and therefore, I'm more familiar with how fellow women react.

?

 

[Guest]

labels

I consider myself quadrasexual. I'lll do anything with anyone for a quarter...*L*

 

[sterculius]

I'm a married guy and I feel exactly as you. This article describes it well http://www.cleansheets.com/coverstories/galarza_01.04.06.shtml

 

[rjp44]

Okay. I have only dated guys, never even wanted or thought about dating women. I am married, but have always enjoyed looking at women. Their bodies are just so sexy, their privates much sexier then mens. I love kissing females when I drink. sometimes I drink a lot just to have an excuse to kiss them, cuz lots of straight women kiss other women when they drink, but would never do it when they are sober. My husband knows that my biggest fantasy is with me and her one-on-one and a FFM.
I have never considered myself Bi, and no offense, but I don't want to. I have heard the term Bi-curious, which I guess I would use to describe me. I just want a sexual relationship with a female. I would love my huby to be involved, or at least watch(which he said is the only way i could be with a female). Im not looking for a female lover, or anything like that, just a female fuck buddy. Do you think that makes me bisexual?

Why worry about labels. All of us have sexual preferences that can vary greatly. Just do what you enjoy and enjoy what you do.

 

[Trinique_Fire]

If you want labels, you're bisexual, if you don't, then who cares what it's called.

 

[RawHumor]

I'm curious about this too. I find myself more aroused when listening/watching/reading about women or lesbian sex, but then again - I wonder if it's because I've never had sex of any kind with a male before, and therefore, I'm more familiar with how fellow women react.

?

You'll rarely hear someone who is a virgin described as "straight-curious" just because they've never fucked a member of the opposite sex.

If you feel attracted to both genders, then you may be bisexual. Or as was said about, if you'd rather not label yourself, then don't worry about it. I don't think the question will be on the next census.