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[newsubtraining]

My Huband and i have been married for 20 happy years and we have "played" around with D/s a few time just for fun. He is Dom and i'm sub...but now i want to take it to the next level. Can anyone out there help me with this or is the Board just full of self important blow hards!

 

[catalina_francisco]

My Huband and i have been married for 20 happy years and we have "played around with D/s a few time just for fun. He is Dom and i'm sub...but now i want to take it to the next level. Can anyone out there help me with this or is the Board just full of self important blow hards!

Guess it depends what sort of help you are seeking.

Catalina

 

[MisterSir]

My Huband and i have been married for 20 happy years and we have "played" around with D/s a few time just for fun. He is Dom and i'm sub...but now i want to take it to the next level. Can anyone out there help me with this or is the Board just full of self important blow hards!

Self important blowhards and complete assholes. I represent the latter and, for the former, look for a man named "useyou" in the BDSM Personals sub-forum. By the by, asking whether a place is full of self important blowhards really isn't a great way to endear oneself.

 

[newsubtraining]

sorry but i have been trying all day to get info about this and asking questions on other treads and just get no replays. I though if i used something to get someone to "hear" me that i would get a response. I was right!

 

[the captians wench]

Self important blowhards and complete assholes. I represent the latter and, for the former, look for a man named "useyou" in the BDSM Personals sub-forum. By the by, asking whether a place is full of self important blowhards really isn't a great way to endear oneself.

I was thinking the same thing.

As to the question, it's one we get here a lot, and usually the key answer is: talk to your SO about your interests.

Cutiemouse can usually recomend some good books to help with that.

best of luck

 

[nh23]

My Huband and i have been married for 20 happy years and we have "played" around with D/s a few time just for fun. He is Dom and i'm sub...but now i want to take it to the next level. Can anyone out there help me with this or is the Board just full of self important blow hards!

Self important blow hards I guess. That being said google is your friend. So is the search on here. I could give some advice but I feel bitchy now. Look it up. Or better yet talk to each other and decide what you two want. Not what everyone else does. Be rebels!

 

[MisterSir]

I though if i used something to get someone to "hear" me that i would get a response. I was right!

So not the right attitude. Brats are awesome to play with, not so great here. But, seriously, we could help with some more information than just he's a Dom, you're a sub.

 

[the captians wench]

sorry but i have been trying all day to get info about this and asking questions on other treads and just get no replays. I though if i used something to get someone to "hear" me that i would get a response. I was right!

You most likely would have gotten more responces and more informations with out the attitude.

These boards move slow. a lot of the people here have, like jobs and stuff. Quite a few will only look at certian threads.

And I haven't seen any of your questions.

You catch more flies with honey....it just takes some time.

 

[ZRT]

Sorry, couldn't read this thread.

Too busy contemplating just how awesome I am.

Oops, self-important erection coming on. Be back in a few.

For advice: crawling around with panties in your mouth while whimpering feebly always does the job nicely for me.

 

[newsubtraining]

<<smile>>

 

[Abraxas Winterlight]

Sorry, couldn't read this thread.

Too busy contemplating just how awesome I am.

Oops, self-important erection coming on. Be back in a few.

For advice: crawling around with panties in your mouth while whimpering feebly always does the job nicely for me.

he's gonna fall off the couch again & bonk his head

 

[DiscusDave]

he's gonna fall off the couch again & bonk his head

Which one?

 

[CutieMouse]

sorry but i have been trying all day to get info about this and asking questions on other treads and just get no replays. I though if i used something to get someone to "hear" me that i would get a response. I was right!

Dude.

You made TWO posts in a five month old BDSM Personals ad - one at 11:58 this morning, and one at 1:43 this afternoon.

On a Wednesday.
When people are often at work.
A place where they can't [or shouldn't] be surfing a porn board.

Damn, I want to live in your world, where that sort of behavior constitutes effort, research, and patience.

Then you started this thread at 7:36pm [complete with New! And Improved! Insults!] stating you want to "take it to the next level" but no one here has any freaking clue what "the next level" is in your situation.

Lets see...

One end of the spectrum - let the man skull f*ck you any time he pleases, [being sure to properly thank him after], and ensure that his life is as domestically serene as possible.

Other end of the spectrum - find a reproduction of a Spanish Pear and get to work.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Dude.

You made TWO posts in a five month old BDSM Personals ad - one at 11:58 this morning, and one at 1:43 this afternoon.

On a Wednesday.
When people are often at work.
A place where they can't [or shouldn't] be surfing a porn board.

Damn, I want to live in your world, where that sort of behavior constitutes effort, research, and patience.

Then you started this thread at 7:36pm [complete with New! And Improved! Insults!] stating you want to "take it to the next level" but no one here has any freaking clue what "the next level" is in your situation.

Lets see...

One end of the spectrum - let the man skull f*ck you any time he pleases, [being sure to properly thank him after], and ensure that his life is as domestically serene as possible.

Other end of the spectrum - find a reproduction of a Spanish Pear and get to work.

Stop spanking noobs and get back to work.

 

[ms_sub_liminal]

.....

 

[ms_sub_liminal]

well i'll just say this, it's impossible for anyone to give you advice on "taking it to the next level" when you haven't established the level you are currently on.

example:

you: right now he orders me around and holds my hands down

us: try wearing a collar next time and maybe head down to the hardware store and pick up some $5 rope. some good information on tying simple hand restraints can be found in the blank manual, google, and youtube. also see anything posted by Homburg. he's the resident expert.

see how much easier that is to get a proper and possibly helpful answer? so my advice:

1) talk to your hubby about what the "next level" means to him and be clear about what it means to you too.
2) give us a little more info on where you're coming from so we can help
3) stop insulting people right off the bat
4) surf this and other sites with your hubby. talk about what turns you on that you find. maybe swap stories you liked on here. explore.

 

[Etoile]

I like creative thread titles, too - indicating what you need is helpful.

Look at the top of this forum for the library. Lots of good reading.

 

[graceanne]

And I haven't seen any of your questions.

Me either.

Dude.

You made TWO posts in a five month old BDSM Personals ad - one at 11:58 this morning, and one at 1:43 this afternoon.

On a Wednesday.
When people are often at work.
A place where they can't [or shouldn't] be surfing a porn board.

Damn, I want to live in your world, where that sort of behavior constitutes effort, research, and patience.

Then you started this thread at 7:36pm [complete with New! And Improved! Insults!] stating you want to "take it to the next level" but no one here has any freaking clue what "the next level" is in your situation.

Lets see...

One end of the spectrum - let the man skull f*ck you any time he pleases, [being sure to properly thank him after], and ensure that his life is as domestically serene as possible.

Other end of the spectrum - find a reproduction of a Spanish Pear and get to work.

LOL

I like creative thread titles, too - indicating what you need is helpful.

Look at the top of this forum for the library. Lots of good reading.

The only reason I opened this thread is (a) I'm bored and tired, and (b) I saw plenty of people who are interesting posting to this thread. A title that says 'need' normally wouldn't rate a second glance.

 

[satindesire]

sorry but i have been trying all day to get info about this and asking questions on other treads and just get no replays. I though if i used something to get someone to "hear" me that i would get a response. I was right!

If you're going to say something like that, be sure it's actually true. We do have a search function on this website and people tend to use it.

May I also just suggest you download Firefox and use that instead of Internet Explorer? Firefox has a spellchecker program built into it...:-/

 

[Etoile]

If you're going to say something like that, be sure it's actually true. We do have a search function on this website and people tend to use it.

May I also just suggest you download Firefox and use that instead of Internet Explorer? Firefox has a spellchecker program built into it...:-/

Actually, there's nothing in the post you quoted that a spellchecker would have picked up!

BTW I am finishing up the first sock and the heel is being a pain in the ass...I will get it fixed and have a pic for you though.

 

[MisterSir]

On a related subject, anyone else had a PM "asking" (I assume it was supposed to be a request for information, I can't be sure) about Fetlife or was it just me?

 

[satindesire]

Actually, there's nothing in the post you quoted that a spellchecker would have picked up!

BTW I am finishing up the first sock and the heel is being a pain in the ass...I will get it fixed and have a pic for you though.

It was supposed to be a joke. I suck at typed humor.

I can't wait to see them! I'm so freakin excited!

On a related subject, anyone else had a PM "asking" (I assume it was supposed to be a request for information, I can't be sure) about Fetlife or was it just me?

I didn't get anything, hon.

 

[graceanne]

I didn't get anything, hon.

Me, neither.

 

[ZRT]

On a related subject, anyone else had a PM "asking" (I assume it was supposed to be a request for information, I can't be sure) about Fetlife or was it just me?

Just you.

You must be some kind of freak.

A self-important freak who blows hard.

 

[Homburg]

I want a business card that says:

SELF-IMPORTANT BLOWHARD​

"Kiss my ass til it shines and I might talk to you."​

I think it would be appropriate.