Female Orgasms by Age: Clitoral Stimulation or Vaginal Intercourse?

Clitoral or vaginal - by age, what gets you off?

  • 20s - clitoral

    Votes: 6 15.8%
  • 20s - vaginal

    Votes: 4 10.5%
  • 30s - clitoral

    Votes: 5 13.2%
  • 30s - vaginal

    Votes: 3 7.9%
  • 40s - clitoral

    Votes: 12 31.6%
  • 40s - vaginal

    Votes: 2 5.3%
  • 50s - clitoral

    Votes: 1 2.6%
  • 50s - vaginal

    Votes: 1 2.6%
  • 60s - clitoral

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 60s - vaginal

    Votes: 4 10.5%

  • Total voters
    38

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When I was in my 20s (and even early 30s) it was very, very unusual for me to have an orgasm from vaginal intercourse. I would guess that the overall average was about 10% of the time it would happen.

Now, it's pretty damn easy for me to climax from vaginal penetration, so long as I'm really into it. Several times, if its a good day.

For most of my life, we've often heard that women really begin to "sexually peak" in their late 30s to early/mid 40s?

I wonder, is this true? Is it really an age thing, this shift towards getting off on vaginal penetration? Or is it simply a matter of being more comfortable with ones own body? Or is it all a myth.everyone is different?

And what happens in ones 50s, 60s and beyond? Does it get better or worse, or is it all the same? Do the methods of orgasm change?

Honor system for this poll: I made it anonymous.

This poll is imperfect in order to keep it short:

When I write "clitoral" as an option, I mean this clearly dominates your method of achieving an orgasm, and vaginal takes quite a bit of extra effort/luck, etc.

When I write "vaginal" I assume - fair or not - that this is a method which works quite often for you, though you surely can and do have clitoral orgasms as well.

Women over 70 are strongly encouraged to chime in with your two cents. you are left out simply because I don't have the room to have that many options - those of us who are younger than you want to hear your feedback. If you are 18-19, vote as a 20 something.

or simply discuss.
 
I can't speak for all women but my libido skyrocketed when I hit in and around the forties. It coincided with beginning menopause. My most intense orgasms are clitoral, it'd be nice to have a partner, (although not necessary) but still my preferred Os are still clitoral. PIV doesn't have a great success rate but I still love penetration.

A bonus - at least for me - was my bs meter took a big dive, I've enjoyed that a lot.
 
My "o's" have always been penile. It's really the only way to go. In an emergency I can use it to pee outside or carry extra donuts.
 
You both are really being pains-in-the-ass! Note the disclaimer...you both have to pick vaginal!



I'm just following the rules-- Being honest.

Vaginal penetration will give me a minor orgasm, not the kind that leaves a body
dizzy but relieves the itch. So does clitoral stimulation. However the combo effect
will leave me panting.
 
I don't really know, because I never had sex with a woman under 35 until I was over 40.
 
Your poll seems to be as flawed as your sex life. You should add a selection for if you fly cross country to get it do you orgasm better.

You really are pathetic! And again stay away from my dog.
 
Why not both?

My lovely wife gets of clitoral via the mouth and vaginally with a hard cock or one, cunning, digit...
 
My lovely wife gets of clitoral via the mouth and vaginally with a hard cock or one, cunning, digit...

You go from one thread saying you've stolen a pair of panties from a woman and you are going to masturbate into them, to another thread saying what gets your wife off.

WOW
 
You go from one thread saying you've stolen a pair of panties from a woman and you are going to masturbate into them, to another thread saying what gets your wife off.

WOW

Hey, lit has it's evenings.
 
Observation

You go from one thread saying you've stolen a pair of panties from a woman and you are going to masturbate into them, to another thread saying what gets your wife off.

WOW

I do not understand how this is a contradiction, revelation or somehow a surprise.

This is simple multi-tasking. I can cope with it.

The world gets much more complex in other subject areas.
 
You forgot anal...



Just trying to help,

She didn't forget it, she is just doesn't want to talk about it. Busybody tore her ass up one night after a few drinks and a Rush Limbaugh book reading party, ans she still gets all worked up inside thinking about it. I wasn't there but I heard it was pretty intense. I guess nothing gets her going more than some wine in a box and GOP talk.
 
20s, both. I prefer both stimulated at the same time, but with more difficulty can come with only one or the other.
 
My libido skyrocketed around when I was 37 (41 now). It was pretty good before that, but holy moly! The downside is that about the same time PMS became a real problem. I assume the two are related somehow. Vaginal orgasms are definitely better for me (talk about seeing fireworks), but are not so easy to achieve (with penetration, in the missionary position with my legs spread as wide as possible, partner holding them down to the bed, and the angle has to be just right). Clitoral orgasms are relatively easy to achieve, within a few minutes if I'm really in a hurry, but not nearly as intense. I do think the vaginal orgasms are becoming a little easier, maybe just due to more experience.
 
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