Why do some women like Facials?

[Talin]

I'm curious and thinking about writing a new story after a long time off. I know some women enjoy it and many hate it. The question I have is why do those who enjoy it like it, and I'd like to hear it from those who've tried it. My wife and I have tried it, but she's not a fan, just willing to do it occasionally.

I've heard a number of explanations and perhaps they cover it all already so no feedback is needed. Some like the view as the penis cums, some like the feel on their skin, some feel its degrading but like that, some like how their partner is happy after or that the man is incredibly turned on during it.

Am I missing reasons? Thanks, I appreciate any constructive feedback, including gay men if you wanted to add your experiences and feelings on it.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Mostly what you said yourself. Some girls do it just to please their guy, others really get into it. I'm in the latter category but I'm sexually submissive so things that other girls might perceive as degrading or disrespectful are turn ons for me. There is also a feeling of being marked as his and I'm always strongly reminded of my place as Master's slave when he gives me a facial. Sometimes he'll have me slowly lick it all up.

There are plenty of girls who don't view facials as degrading however, it's no more of a power thing to them than a guy cumming on their tits or whatever.

 

[bakedbeams]

I enjoy receiving facials. I like the feel of the cum as it hits my face, like soft warm ribbons. I also get off on my SO straddling me, as I am quiet submissive. He likes to look at my face after, and I always ask before I wipe it clean. He is very generous with his praise, when we do this.

 

[gimmie_your_load]

From a more "normal person" perspective... most women aren't into a true master-submissive relationship. In other words, even women, like me, who really enjoy a facial from time to time are really NOT going to take it that way every time.

The mess is a big downside. I generally won't take a facial unless I'm going to be able to shower within a half hour afterwards. Dried cum in the hair is HELL to get out! Although sometimes it IS very hot to wear on my face in public

Another downside is that it REALLY stings if you get it in your eyes. After I caught it in the eyes the first time I was gun shy of facials for over a year. Careful aim and plenty of warning is imporant!

So, if you're looking to get your wife more into it, here is what I recommend:

HEAP the praise after the act. Let her know how much you've enjoyed it and how much it turns you on. In the next couple days afterwards, bring her flowers without explanation, give her a backrub, make her breakfast. The key is to cause her to associate the act with positive feelings in her mind. the main motivation for me when I do it is the reaction I get from guys, and how thankful they are... personally I'd rather just swallow every time otherwise!

Good luck, and happy splattering!

 

[Sagittarian]

Facials are nice when I am planning to wash my hair on that day.

 

[Talin]

I'm not really expecting my wife to get into it much more than occasionally, like a 2-3 times a year or something like that. She's offered to let me do it again for our anniversary, in a month and a half, which I didn't ask for specifically.

She's slightly submissive and by default that leaves me more dominant than I'd prefer. I'd rather she communicate what she wants and doesn't want. Especially since I'm much kinkier than her and don't like making her uncomfortable which I sometimes do when I go 'so you aren't sure what you want to do, what about ....?'.

Her questions are more along what motivates me / motivates women who do it with their partners. This topic isn't so much to persuade her as to educate me and help in writing a story about a fantasy I've had since the first time we did it about a month or two ago.

I appreciate all the feedback, and I was very careful to avoid her eyes but some dripped into her hair to the sides of her face since she was lying down at the time.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Have you guys tried safewords? You pick a word unrelated to sex like 'red' or whatever and she can use that word to halt everything if it gets too much. That way, she can say 'no' and mean 'yes' or act reluctant without you getting confused about what she's actually consenting to and enjoying.

If you're having issues with handling her submissiveness, you might want to post on BDSM Talk. There are some really nice people over there and it may benefit you to get a dominant guy's perspective. Our whip-wielders are a surprisingly well adjusted bunch.

 

[pinkflames]

I like my partner to cum on my breasts but never aim for facials. Sometimes I like to jerk him off and then swallow his load and on some of these occassions, he has spilt onto my chin. I find these times to be arousing, mainly because I read it as if he were too aroused to hold off till he was in my mouth.

 

[Talin]

Thank you for all the feedback, I appreciate it. I've started the story and hopefully I can finish it up in a week or two.

 

[omgitselaine]

I for the most part perfer to swallow my man's seman rather than wasting it on a "facial" plus the seman does sting m eyes as it does a lot of women for some odd reason ??? I have had special requests once or twice before to have the seman end up on my face soo i of course accomodated the "request" but like i said i'd rather swallow which rarely ever got a ....complaint !!

 

[chinmusic]

I've heard a number of explanations and perhaps they cover it all already so no feedback is needed. Some like the view as the penis cums, some like the feel on their skin, some feel its degrading but like that, some like how their partner is happy after or that the man is incredibly turned on during it.

I asked my girlfriend about this once; she really enjoys having my cum all over her body, which is something of an oddity in my experience, and I was curious as to what made her so different. I was never able to get a satisfactory answer. Usually she'd say things like "It feels good" or "It makes me feel special/pretty" or "It's good for my skin," etc. One day though I really pressed her on it; for some reason I felt almost guilty, even though I'd never asked her to do it, that I was somehow degrading or taking advantage of her. This was her response:

"I don't care if it's degrading, as long as you're the one degrading me, and I don't care if you feel guilty, because that's your issue. What I do want is every part of you all over my body, all the time, every day. I want to find your hair in my socks. I want to suck your thumb when you prick it with a needle. I want to rub your sweat and sperm into my skin, savor the taste of your saliva, I don't ever want to forget your hands or your mouth or your eyes or anything about you, because we only get so much time together and I want all of you."

I will never, ever forget that. It's slightly paraphrased from what she originally said, but almost all of the wording is hers verbatim.