Do you think this is too risky?

[gumtree]

I recently met a woman online, she is very sexual and wants to meet up.
I have suggested the handyman fantasy, and she said yes that would be great.

Now I have not done this sort of thing before but it is really turning me on and I think that it would be great but what if I get there and there is a guy standing in the cupboard with a baseball bat or she is a he.

Is there any protocol with this sort of thing or do you just play it by ear?

Feedback please

Gumtree

 

[LegsApart]

I recently met a woman online, she is very sexual and wants to meet up.
I have suggested the handyman fantasy, and she said yes that would be great.

Now I have not done this sort of thing before but it is really turning me on and I think that it would be great but what if I get there and there is a guy standing in the cupboard with a baseball bat or she is a he.

Is there any protocol with this sort of thing or do you just play it by ear?

Feedback please

Gumtree

Maybe best to meet her in a public place, first.. have a lil drink n chat..

 

[RawHumor]

Maybe best to meet her in a public place, first.. have a lil drink n chat..

Exactly. Safer for both of you.

For her part, if she changes her mind, then she doesn't have a strange man in her house.

For your part, if something feels off to you, you can excuse yourself without over-committing.

 

[quietwoman187]

I agree. While I don't believe in meeting with anyone in reality, but be careful. Both NYT and Yahoo News have posted articles regarding recent violence of craiglist interactions -

 

[gumtree]

Maybe best to meet her in a public place, first.. have a lil drink n chat..

Hmm I think you are right, perhaps I will go down that path.
Thank you
Just one question, are those your legs or did you borrow them?
Gumtree

 

[gumtree]

I agree. While I don't believe in meeting with anyone in reality, but be careful. Both NYT and Yahoo News have posted articles regarding recent violence of craiglist interactions -

Thanks, it is a Craigslist contact.
I think that I will let this one go and go and have a cold shower.
For the time being I shall exist in cyber space
Gumtree

 

[gumtree]

Exactly. Safer for both of you.

For her part, if she changes her mind, then she doesn't have a strange man in her house.

For your part, if something feels off to you, you can excuse yourself without over-committing.

Hey, I am not strange!
Thanks for the advice.
Gumtree

 

[LegsApart]

Hmm I think you are right, perhaps I will go down that path.
Thank you
Just one question, are those your legs or did you borrow them?
Gumtree

Mine...

 

[dave's thing]

Gumtree- for sure something public or less private.... just to make sure all is as it seems.

Legs- I have said this before but will never fail to an opportuniaty to say again..... lovely!!

 

[quietwoman187]

I have no idea how long you've chatted with her, so that's why I would also suggest caution. If you haven't already, and you're technologically equipped, I'd just suggest you just grab a fleshlight and cam with her. Perhaps not the experience you're searching for, but it might be the safest for now. But best of luck either way -

I recently met a woman online, she is very sexual and wants to meet up.
I have suggested the handyman fantasy, and she said yes that would be great.

Now I have not done this sort of thing before but it is really turning me on and I think that it would be great but what if I get there and there is a guy standing in the cupboard with a baseball bat or she is a he.

Is there any protocol with this sort of thing or do you just play it by ear?


Feedback please

Gumtree

 

[lemmesee]

I recently met a woman online, she is very sexual and wants to meet up.
I have suggested the handyman fantasy, and she said yes that would be great.

Now I have not done this sort of thing before but it is really turning me on and I think that it would be great but what if I get there and there is a guy standing in the cupboard with a baseball bat or she is a he.

Is there any protocol with this sort of thing or do you just play it by ear?

Feedback please

Gumtree

I suggest that you keep your online activities and real-life activities separate....

 

[faithchick]

How long have you been chatting with her for?

I'd suggest camming with her, that way you'll know if she's really who she says she is. Then if you decide to meet do it in a public place. I just met someone i've been chatting with online for a few months, and it was the best weekend of my life. Good luck to ya

 

[Pinktacokitty]

I recently met a woman online, she is very sexual and wants to meet up.
I have suggested the handyman fantasy, and she said yes that would be great.

Now I have not done this sort of thing before but it is really turning me on and I think that it would be great but what if I get there and there is a guy standing in the cupboard with a baseball bat or she is a he.

Is there any protocol with this sort of thing or do you just play it by ear?

Feedback please

Gumtree

I thought that is why Starbucks came into being for girls that wanted to meet the guys from online in a safe place. When I was in school met a couple guys like that and a bunch of girls.

 

[cliteatingman]

I thought that is why Starbucks came into being for girls that wanted to meet the guys from online in a safe place. When I was in school met a couple guys like that and a bunch of girls.

May I buy you a coffee?

 

[gumtree]

Thank you people of Lit, I am now thinking with the head that is above my shoulders and I think that I shall remain in cyber space. As far a meeting is concerned its far too risky I would be leaving myself open and thats not the Gumtrees style.

Love the new avitar Legs, very nice. One day when I am allowed an avitar I will try and make mine as subtly sexy as yours.

Thanks Guys.

Gumtree