Ladies, do you ever think about sharing your man
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lemmesee
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I'm a man....and I sure hope that the ladies don't think about sharing their male S/O's....this is a plain-and-simple double-standard situation, ladies....it's one standard for the men, and one standard for the ladies....the men can do it, but the ladies can not!
mark_j
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Why is that?
Pinktacokitty
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Lemmesee I would like to invite you into the 21st century, leave your 19 century double standard rules in the past where they belong.
In my experience in school more of the girls shared their boy friends with their bff's than the guys shared their girl friends with other guys.
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I am a man but I do believe this is ok
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I'm not surprised about the guys sharing the girl(s), but what's this about bff's sharing one guy? How does that work? I'd be mad jealous.
Pinktacokitty
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I can only speak for myself on how it worked, don't know how it worked for others. I just know it is happening, I am only 23 but younger girls are even more open sexually than I am or was at that age.
My bff and I are bi , it kind of seemed natural to share a guy or two, they just happened to be guys we dated. Not saying it went on every week but we were there 4 years, a lot of things happen during four years of school.
Sharing a guy with her was a lot easier decision for me than letting two guys share me.
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No. That's my cock, and only belongs in one of 3 places. My vagina, my ass, or my mouth. End of story.
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WOW, what about his eyes is he allowed to look??????
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Pinkneonsocks
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No, I keep him chained up in the basement blindfolded... food and water once a day.
Pinkneonsocks
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Honestly, it's just a little too early in our relationship to share. It's something to be considered if the relationship progresses.
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No, I keep him chained up in the basement blindfolded... food and water once a day.
Thats where they should be at all times unless in the bed pleasing us.....
Honestly, it's just a little too early in our relationship to share. It's something to be considered if the relationship progresses.
I am just the opposite more likely to share early on than later in the relationship.
I'm a guy..and I'm going to have to go with a big HELL NO here.
Me and my wife have had it come up in conversation but the truth is, that doing something like that would inflct enough pain on either one of us were we to share the other with someone outside that we would likely never heal from it.
Fun, games, honor and duty has it's place but love extends everywhere. I answer to a higher power, and it's the one that allows me to look in the mirror every morning when I get up, and not be ashamed of what I see.
Myself.
My wife feels identical to that, and I can tell you, there's just no chance of it ever happening. Toys in the relationship? Cool. Strange places? Great. Roleplay/Bondage? Awesome. Another person? Hell no.
My wife is quite literally everything that means anything to me, and with no disrespect to anyone reading this, her general wellbeing is more important to me than the lives of the rest of the accumulated population of the entire planet, from the most revered to the most loathed.
Me and my wife have had it come up in conversation but the truth is, that doing something like that would inflct enough pain on either one of us were we to share the other with someone outside that we would likely never heal from it.
Fun, games, honor and duty has it's place but love extends everywhere. I answer to a higher power, and it's the one that allows me to look in the mirror every morning when I get up, and not be ashamed of what I see.
Myself.
My wife feels identical to that, and I can tell you, there's just no chance of it ever happening. Toys in the relationship? Cool. Strange places? Great. Roleplay/Bondage? Awesome. Another person? Hell no.
My wife is quite literally everything that means anything to me, and with no disrespect to anyone reading this, her general wellbeing is more important to me than the lives of the rest of the accumulated population of the entire planet, from the most revered to the most loathed.
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Thought about it, can't do it. He's mine and I'm not sharing!!!
draconus_infernus
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My wife shares me and I share her. It's not for everybody, but it works for us.
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We swap. After 30 years of marriage there just weren't any positions or places left to try. It has been very fun, she discovered she is bi, we have no jelousy after several years of doing this, and it's been a great spark for our sex life.
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The reason my wife and I started sharing is because she is bi, and I didn't think it was fair for her not to be able to explore that part of her sexuality. She decided that, if she gets to play with other people, I should be able to as well.
During the course of all this, we started to realize that we were polly. Now I have a girlfriend, she has a girlfriend and a boyfriend, and there's another couple we're probably going to start swinging with.
As I said before, it's not for everyone, but it works for us.
During the course of all this, we started to realize that we were polly. Now I have a girlfriend, she has a girlfriend and a boyfriend, and there's another couple we're probably going to start swinging with.
As I said before, it's not for everyone, but it works for us.
