How can my girlfriend tie me up securely?

[benoittodd]

Hi everyone,

I'm new here, so please bear with me.

I enjoy being trampled, and my girlfriend does it all the time. But I wanted to go a step further and go beyond my limits without being able to stop her.

This is what I wanted to try out... Lying down on the floor, I'd like my girlfriend to tie me up hard so that there's no way I can move and/or break free. The reason is that I want her to go beyond my limits and just continue trampling me even if it's too much pain for me.

The trouble is that I want my chest, stomach, and throat exposed because that's where she'll be standing on (I want to feel her feet, not rope or tape).
I also don't want my hands tied behind my back as it would be very uncomfortable.

Any suggestions?

Any help is really appreciated.

Thanks.

 

[Netzach]

I really don't recommend throat trampling, but assuming you have some notion what you're doing - tie wrist to bicep.

You won't be getting out of that at all.

 

[MisterSir]

The trouble is that I want my chest, stomach, and throat exposed because that's where she'll be standing on (I want to feel her feet, not rope or tape).

Ahahaha not unless you want to die. The trachea is a surprisingly fragile piece of kit considering how valuable it is, and putting ANY weight on it is too much. Your girl leans a little too heavily and suddenly you're choking to death, bad bad bad idea.

 

[benoittodd]

Thanks for the post.

Just to clarify, she won't be standing on my throat. She usually tickles me there.

What do you mean tying my wrist to the bicep?

What about the legs? How can I tie those up? Sometimes I can move them around, so she can lose her balance and fall off. And I don't want that.

Any other ways/suggestions?

Thanks

 

[benoittodd]

Thanks for the post.

Just to clarify, she won't be standing on my throat. She usually tickles me there.

What do you mean tying my wrist to the bicep?

What about the legs? How can I tie those up? Sometimes I can move them around, so she can lose her balance and fall off. And I don't want that.

Any other ways/suggestions?

Thanks

 

[MisterSir]

What do you mean tying my wrist to the bicep?

Hold your right arm out at arm's length with your palm facing the ceiling. Now touch your right shoulder with your right hand. That's the position I think Netzach meant.

 

[Netzach]

Hold your right arm out at arm's length with your palm facing the ceiling. Now touch your right shoulder with your right hand. That's the position I think Netzach meant.

Yes. Do the legs too and you're really really not getting out.

 

[Etoile]

I think he's looking to be immobilized too, so she doesn't fall off. Of course, trampling should ALWAYS be done with an overhead grasp that can bear the trampler's weight, and if you have that you're much less likely to fall off. Given that the OP has also asked about trampling to the point of vomiting though, I'm not sure this is being done safely, so there may not be a grab bar overhead at all.

 

[SubNebGuy]

This part of your original post bothers me: "...and just continue trampling me even if it's too much pain for me"

Too much pain is usually an indication of injury. Getting mamed or killed isn't part of any BDSM lifestyle. That's why there are safewords, and a level of mutual respect for the participants.

...just sayin'

 

[Chicklet]

trampling should ALWAYS be done with an overhead grasp that can bear the trampler's weight, and if you have that you're much less likely to fall off.

benoittodd, maybe this addition would be enough to do what you desire: keep your partner from being shaken off and give her the leverage to make you feel helpless. Maybe this prop, which would even double as a safety device, is the better route to go for the helpless feeling.

 

[Etoile]

It really amazes me that people undertake risky fetish activities like trampling without doing research first. Then again, people still die from autoerotic asphyxiation; perhaps it's a Darwinism thing. But I just can't imagine doing something obviously dangerous without reading a little first. You wouldn't do solo whitewater rafting without understanding the river features first, would you? Sex makes people careless, I think.

 

[WriterDom]

It really amazes me that people undertake risky fetish activities like trampling without doing research first. Then again, people still die from autoerotic asphyxiation; perhaps it's a Darwinism thing. But I just can't imagine doing something obviously dangerous without reading a little first. You wouldn't do solo whitewater rafting without understanding the river features first, would you? Sex makes people careless, I think.

And talk is cheap. You really don't know who you are talking to and if what they are saying is 100% bullshit.

 

[Etoile]

And talk is cheap. You really don't know who you are talking to and if what they are saying is 100% bullshit.

That did occur to me, as did the possibility that this particular OP has done the research and just hasn't made that clear in posts.