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[VeronicaSexie]

I have never been a slave or dominated by choice, but I think my interest in BDSM is more than just casual. Anyone care to share what I might be in for if I go this route?

Can't wait to hear from you.

 

[Betticus]

I have never been a slave or dominated by choice, but I think my interest in BDSM is more than just casual. Anyone care to share what I might be in for if I go this route? Also any volunteers to maybe start out online?

Can't wait to hear from you.

Read, ask questions here, think things through and stay safe.

There are way more people in this for the wrong reasons than are in it because it's just part of who they are.

It would be worth it to find a local bdsm group who would be willing to have you come out for meets so that you can see the differences between fantasy and reality for yourself.

Good communication on the part of everyone involved is paramount as well as to be willing to just stop, take a breath and laugh at yourself.

 

[Hisscarlett]

I agree with the above comments completely - there are many people who use the "cover" of BDSM to abuse so caution is needed.

I suggest that you google your city/town with the word "munch" - that should get you a list of events where you can meet other people and learn.

Also I suggest you read SM 101 by Jay Wiseman - it is very basic and will guide you somewhat - www.jaywiseman.com should tell you more.

There are sites online to meet Doms - fetlife.com and collarme.com are just two - but caution is required.

Any Dom who tells you he is so experienced that you don't need to discuss limits or set a safeword at the outset is someone to avoid - as is anyone who tells you that it is ok to meet for a playdate without a safe call.

Take care and enjoy your journey of discovery.

s

 

[twysted73]

Beware the negative predators.

Seek out the good ones.

 

[Feral_Intelligence]

I think you definately should take some time to consider what your fantasies are and what you actually want in real life. I for one tend to be a rather cruel Dom in fantasies, but I know that I could probably never bring myself to strike someone that way in real life. Well, someone I like anyway.

More than anything, just be safe about who you meet in real life. Don't let people fool you with claims of experiance. You might want to consider someone that is learning just like you are that away you are both on the same foot. You may even consider not looking for someone that is already a Dom, but instead share your desires and fantasies with someone that you already know. They may be weirded out at first depending on how you aproach it. At the same time, you never really know who will be into it.

 

[naughty Papa]

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[CutieMouse]

hi there yes i can be a online master if you are interested and i agree with all the advice the others have given you. I do have a sub slut in real and she loves what i do and make her do for my pleasure......of course she gets her pleasure by that. we will be online shortly if you wana chat
xxx

[hijack]

This is the second or third thread you've posted in, mentioning you'll be online if someone wants to "chat."

FYI -

The purpose of the BDSM Talk/Chat forums is not hooking up to cyber with someone. If that's your purpose, you might try the BDSM Personals section of the site.

[/hijack]

 

[naughty Papa]

hi we r online

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[Daddyslilpet]

hey me and my SUB SLUT are online now

And obviously can't read for shit.

 

[fulvius]

Bdsm

BDSM is one of the most amazing and deeply gratifying sexual experiences available for the lucky few who experience the fetish. What you can expect in a relationship with the right dom or doms and fellow subs will be a spiritual experience indeed but even much moreso a physical one, as the sensation of bondage courses through your body.

If I were you, I would try tying yourself or finding someone you love to help you and just try laying tied or making love tied in some fashion. Also, you might enjoy finding a master on here if you come across a man in the S&M scene who would like to show you what he has. But remember that just as in regular dating there is no shame on cutting off a relationship if it isn't bringing you pleasure. Lots of pleasure.

 

[Sqoodd]

I agree with fulvius. Look around and ask questions. Get to know the person first. Also, you might want to explore closer to home before you agree to meet someone you met online.

BDSM is one of the most amazing and deeply gratifying sexual experiences available for the lucky few who experience the fetish. What you can expect in a relationship with the right dom or doms and fellow subs will be a spiritual experience indeed but even much moreso a physical one, as the sensation of bondage courses through your body.

If I were you, I would try tying yourself or finding someone you love to help you and just try laying tied or making love tied in some fashion. Also, you might enjoy finding a master on here if you come across a man in the S&M scene who would like to show you what he has. But remember that just as in regular dating there is no shame on cutting off a relationship if it isn't bringing you pleasure. Lots of pleasure.

 

[FurryFury]

Welcome.



Good luck.

Be careful.

This isn't the personals section.

 

[Bandit58]

hey me and my SUB SLUT are online now

HEY this is not facebook !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[FurryFury]

HEY this is not facebook !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LMAO!

 

[naughty Papa]

MASTER here

Hey New sub slave kal on me and i will take you through the journey it can be called "alice in the slut land"
xxx

I have never been a slave or dominated by choice, but I think my interest in BDSM is more than just casual. Anyone care to share what I might be in for if I go this route?

Can't wait to hear from you.

 

[CutieMouse]

Hey New sub slave kal on me and i will take you through the journey it can be called "alice in the slut land"
xxx

THIS IS NOT THE PERSONALS SECTION, NOR IS IT A PLACE TO CYBER-HOOK UP.

 

[naughty Papa]

I am sorry

I am extrmely sorry how do i remove it

THIS IS NOT THE PERSONALS SECTION, NOR IS IT A PLACE TO CYBER-HOOK UP.

 

[FurryFury]

I am extrmely sorry how do i remove it

You should see an edit button when you look at the lower right side of any post you've made.

 

[Submissioness]

Relax

Wow... relax, people. No, this isn't a personals place, but my goodness, lay off. It's not like the guy is going to cyber right here on the message board. Give the man some slack.

 

[CutieMouse]

Wow... relax, people. No, this isn't a personals place, but my goodness, lay off. It's not like the guy is going to cyber right here on the message board. Give the man some slack.

Hang out here for a few years, and get back to me with the have tolerance for people who clutter up the BDSM Talk/Cafe forums with thinly veiled requests to cyber thing.

I politely directed the man to the BDSM personals section here. Had he paid attention, the ginormous red font would not have been employed. Consider it a rare moment of Domme behavior on my part.

 

[FurryFury]

Hang out here for a few years, and get back to me with the have tolerance for people who clutter up the BDSM Talk/Cafe forums with thinly veiled requests to cyber thing.

I politely directed the man to the BDSM personals section here. Had he paid attention, the ginormous red font would not have been employed. Consider it a rare moment of Domme behavior on my part.

That's hawt!

 

[msteel4u]

I guess the biggest concern I have for any sub venturing into this lifestyle is to be leary of the fakes (trolls) and pretenders. The lifestyle can be tremendously exciting and fullfilling if you find the right partner. But don't be discouraged as you navigate through. You'll kiss a lot of frogs!

To prepare yourself, read, ask questions, learn. What are you looking for, real life, 24/7, on-line. Learn your limits and what you seek in a Dom.

Good luck to you!

I have never been a slave or dominated by choice, but I think my interest in BDSM is more than just casual. Anyone care to share what I might be in for if I go this route?

Can't wait to hear from you.

 

[naughty Papa]

i understand

hello cutie mouse
i understand i was new and did not know now i have learnt so come back and removed it. Thanks anyway.
cheers

Hang out here for a few years, and get back to me with the have tolerance for people who clutter up the BDSM Talk/Cafe forums with thinly veiled requests to cyber thing.

I politely directed the man to the BDSM personals section here. Had he paid attention, the ginormous red font would not have been employed. Consider it a rare moment of Domme behavior on my part.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

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[rosco rathbone]

How you doin?