JMohegan
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Having been out of the country quite a few times in the past 8 years, I understand the frustration of geographic stereotypes that don't uniformly apply. Especially after the '04 election, when "well, Americans just didn't know..." no longer became even a remotely valid defense, any conversation beyond the most superficial would uncover a deep and really angry anti-American sentiment.It's interesting to read JM's observations about southerners and then objections and reactions from southerners, after having a similar conversation in the thread in Talk about Christians, Jews, atheists and agnostics. I have a hard time not taking the discussion personally when it's about my peeps, but it gives me some perspective to read the different points of view here. I can't speak for southerners, but it seems to me that beyond not wanting to be reduced to a stereotype, everyone wants to be seen in context. And so it's just plain difficult to read isolated observations about a group to which you belong, but that doesn't make the observations invalid.
"There are more than 300 million Americans, only slightly more than half voted for the guy, and I wasn't one of them" was met with understanding. But the anger and anti-American sentiment didn't go away, and the uncomfortable questions and observations didn't stop. This was very painful and intensely frustrating for me, but I absolutely understood why the rest of the world was pissed. And I actually appreciated the opportunity to clear up misconceptions, providing a perspective on parts of the country that the non-US folks couldn't get from TV.
Walking around Rome with an Obama baseball cap on last summer, I approached a young Italian guy with a big grin on his face. He stepped in front me, gripped me by the shoulders, glanced up at my cap, and proclaimed: "America will be America again!" I swear to you, ITW, I almost cried.
Thinking about all of this, I realize that what made the earlier experiences painful and frustrating for me was *not* the fact that non-US folks were reacting to Iraq, Guantanamo, and so on. The reason it was upsetting was because *I* was pissed off about the stuff Bush had done.