A girl I know to be a submissive has arranged a meet with me later this week. I am inexperienced playing the role of the dom.
I told her to come with no panties to my apartment and I want to be prepared to dish out punishment if she comes wearing them. I don't want to start with anything to strong - it won't be our first sexual encounter but it will be our first time in the sub/dom roles.
What is something I can do that doesn't come off too strong but still sends the message that I'm in charge if she comes wearing them? All I can come up with is spanking but that seems a bit strong to me already. I'm looking for something that doesn't involve BDSM or toys - not yet anyways.
I told her to come with no panties to my apartment and I want to be prepared to dish out punishment if she comes wearing them. I don't want to start with anything to strong - it won't be our first sexual encounter but it will be our first time in the sub/dom roles.
What is something I can do that doesn't come off too strong but still sends the message that I'm in charge if she comes wearing them? All I can come up with is spanking but that seems a bit strong to me already. I'm looking for something that doesn't involve BDSM or toys - not yet anyways.