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The whole thing? Damn, that's quite a thing.
For me sex is something that I try to keep with partners I like, at least. Having sex with someone I didn't like was not enjoyable and hence why I'm no longer married (zing). I'm not incredibly experienced but I don't want to be one of those guys who can't remember the names or faces of the women he has slept with.
I prefer to start our gentle, it's easier to start that way and go harder than to go hard and back off, for me at least. Granted to first time with someone usually comes down to a nice long hard fuck but that is usually followed by... well, more of the same but after like the sixth or tenth time with the same person it moves beyond just the urge and becomes something more. Call me a romantic or whatever but I like a nice slow fuck as much as a hard one.
Rough sex is fun, but I prefer some lead in. Recently, I had a very in depth and pointless conversation who thought that all there was to sex was the rough stuff. For me rough sex is rough, of course, but there is a gentleness too. You have to counter one with the other that way you don't wind up breaking hurting your partner. Nice gentle caress followed by dragging your fingertips hard down their skin, the gentle makes the rough seem more than it is. Like I said it was a pointless conversation.
But this is technique that I'm talking about there is a lot more to sex than just insert tab into slot, regardless of what said tab or said slot actually is. Sex can just be a physical release that comes from a base urge but to me it is more. The act of sex is amazing really. Sex without some sort of feeling is rather hollow, and from my experience the hollow feeling after very much trumps the sex itself. Eye contact during sex is amazing.
So, in short, sex... sex is good. Sex is really good. Even bad sex isn't that bad... well that isn't true, sometimes bad sex makes you rethink the whole thing. Again, the reason why I'm no longer married and the hollow feeling thing. (said only slightly joking)
Also, now that I'm older (ie no longer a teenager) my sex drive has changed a lot. It used to be click, click, boom, reload, repeat about four times. Now it builds and builds and builds and the explodes... well, if it's good, otherwise it just builds and builds and there is no explosion and I walk funny for a day. Just thought I would share that.
Is this the type of answer what you were expecting?
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The whole thing? Damn, that's quite a thing.
For me sex is something that I try to keep with partners I like, at least. Having sex with someone I didn't like was not enjoyable and hence why I'm no longer married (zing). I'm not incredibly experienced but I don't want to be one of those guys who can't remember the names or faces of the women he has slept with.
I prefer to start our gentle, it's easier to start that way and go harder than to go hard and back off, for me at least. Granted to first time with someone usually comes down to a nice long hard fuck but that is usually followed by... well, more of the same but after like the sixth or tenth time with the same person it moves beyond just the urge and becomes something more. Call me a romantic or whatever but I like a nice slow fuck as much as a hard one.
Rough sex is fun, but I prefer some lead in. Recently, I had a very in depth and pointless conversation who thought that all there was to sex was the rough stuff. For me rough sex is rough, of course, but there is a gentleness too. You have to counter one with the other that way you don't wind up breaking hurting your partner. Nice gentle caress followed by dragging your fingertips hard down their skin, the gentle makes the rough seem more than it is. Like I said it was a pointless conversation.
But this is technique that I'm talking about there is a lot more to sex than just insert tab into slot, regardless of what said tab or said slot actually is. Sex can just be a physical release that comes from a base urge but to me it is more. The act of sex is amazing really. Sex without some sort of feeling is rather hollow, and from my experience the hollow feeling after very much trumps the sex itself. Eye contact during sex is amazing.
So, in short, sex... sex is good. Sex is really good. Even bad sex isn't that bad... well that isn't true, sometimes bad sex makes you rethink the whole thing. Again, the reason why I'm no longer married and the hollow feeling thing. (said only slightly joking)
Also, now that I'm older (ie no longer a teenager) my sex drive has changed a lot. It used to be click, click, boom, reload, repeat about four times. Now it builds and builds and builds and the explodes... well, if it's good, otherwise it just builds and builds and there is no explosion and I walk funny for a day. Just thought I would share that.
Is this the type of answer what you were expecting?
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NoJo
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Take, take, take
togitc
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Well, it was that or 'yes and plenty of it'
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See, now that's what I'm talkin' about (does Indian-side-to-side head like large black TV presenter-woman)
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To quote one of my...er...fans, "I would enjoy more."
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I'm just built that way.
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Mind if I give, give, give?
TheeGoatPig
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I don't get nearly enough, and the last that I got was the worst I ever had 
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I don't get nearly enough, and the last that I got was the worst I ever had
Now that piques my curiousity
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I had a girlfriend back in 1995 when I was 19. We had sex seven or eight times, and oral another eight or so times over nine months. Each time was amazing. I couldn't pick a best or worst.
After she broke up with me two weeks before my birthday, I couldn't get a date let alone a sex partner for twelve years (well, I got one date with a 16 year old when I was almost 22, but that doesn't count, I was lied to about her age and didn't find out the truth until halfway through dinner and considered the evening over at that point before dropping her at home).
Then, about a year ago when I was 32, I flew out to Vegas with a bunch of poker buddies. Upon our return, we were playing poker at the bar as usual, and after a disappointing game, I was sitting at the bar chatting with the women of the group. They were all drunk (I wasn't, never have been), and one of them started flirting heavily with me. We even started kissing right there at the bar. She was too drunk to drive, so I gave her a lift home. She invited me in, we fooled around for a few hours, she passed out a few times, and then we had the worst sex I have ever experienced. I was having blood pressure issues from the flight the previous morning and could only get half hard, she was anything but tight, when I tried to get on top my back gave out, trying doggy wasn't any good because I couldn't get a proper angle (I'm too tall and she was too short and I don't have enough experience to know how to adjust for that), and my erection was gone anyway from the back pain I was still suffering. The best part of the night was watching her fellate me.
And that, is my sex life. All of it.
TheeGoatPig
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I think that is why she hasn't spoken to me in over a year. She wanted to keep it a secret (even though several people saw us kissing and knew that I drove her home), and I'm not good at that. Oh, I can keep a secret about someone else. But if it involves me, good luck keeping my mouth shut
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I think that is why she hasn't spoken to me in over a year. She wanted to keep it a secret (even though several people saw us kissing and knew that I drove her home), and I'm not good at that. Oh, I can keep a secret about someone else. But if it involves me, good luck keeping my mouth shut
You just wanted everyone to know what a studmuffin you are.
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Feels good.
lesbiaphrodite
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At best, it can be the highest pinnacle of human pleasure and freedom. At worst, it can be a waste of time, thought and energy.
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I like it, but have to be careful or my left hand gets jealous.
Stella_Omega
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Thee, you win the prize!
My take? I'll take it. BUt I will say, this morning, that I can almost always write better sex than the sex I actually have ..
Ask me on another morning, I might say different.
My take? I'll take it. BUt I will say, this morning, that I can almost always write better sex than the sex I actually have ..
Ask me on another morning, I might say different.
NoJo
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That's what's so good about being a crap porn writer. I'm always pleasantly surprised by real sex
NoJo
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I think that's life, not sex
