Tzara
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That's very kind. Thank you.tzara, dear, "recommending a change of vision" is incredibly patronizing and assuming. You might not have noticed that-- I thought I'd let you know.
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That's very kind. Thank you.tzara, dear, "recommending a change of vision" is incredibly patronizing and assuming. You might not have noticed that-- I thought I'd let you know.
Let me modify then-- Capable, Intelligent centrists.
Y'know, if you're going to chime in with snarky, deliberately obtuse posts like your first one about having equal rights with gay men, then you shouldn't be surprised when people post snark in return.Did it make you feel good to say that? I imagine that's how gay bashers feel when they bash gays. See? Both groups are exactly the same - petty, abusive, small-minded, just angry at the world. Maybe lashing out from fear that other side might be correct...
Oh, and our fifteenth anniversary is next March if you want to send us flowers. No, on second thought, fuck off.
He can't help himself. It's the only fun he has.
Apples and oranges comparison, actually. As the Catholic church is not a democracy and their religious views are said to be from god. That's a bit different from a political party's positions which are decided on by its members (consider the republican party changes from Lincoln, where it was the party of abolitionist, as it were, to the present when it's been taken over by, well, evangelicals and a lot racists--ironic! Ditto on the side of the Democrats which used to be dominated by Southern racists and, with FDR, became the party that supports unions and such(That's kind of like a "good" Catholic girl taking birth control, even though the church doesn't allow it.)
I don't think it was deliberately obtuse... he strikes me as a genuine dunderhead.Y'know, if you're going to chime in with snarky, deliberately obtuse posts like your first one about having equal rights with gay men, then you shouldn't be surprised when people post snark in return.
Apples and oranges comparison, actually. As the Catholic church is not a democracy and their religious views are said to be from god. That's a bit different from a political party's positions which are decided on by its members (consider the republican party changes from Lincoln, where it was the party of abolitionist, as it were, to the present when it's been taken over by, well, evangelicals and a lot racists--ironic! Ditto on the side of the Democrats which used to be dominated by Southern racists and, with FDR, became the party that supports unions and such)
Also, one hopes that said members don't think they're divinely inspired (though, given George Bush and such, I have my doubts). That they understand their policies to be the polices of men meant for current situations that are happening now, and libel to change if the situation changes. Like whether or not to go to war, as compared to a religion which might say, "No war under any circumstances."
So it is a bit different. A good Catholic girl taking birth control is going against not just the church but god. A republican who disagrees with the party's policy on gay marriage can (1) maybe change the party's policy if there are enough who agree with them and not those who made the anti-gay-marriage policy, (2) presumably is viewing the situation as not having anything to do with religion but with people--which might be reason for the disagreement.
Very different from the girl who can't separate her use of birth control from her religion.
True enough, and it is hard to remember sometimes that they're not a religion. But it is still the other way around--the churches are the ones telling people to vote republican or go to hell, not the partyIn my years of voting, religion has been such a huge part of the Republican platform that I truly have difficulty separating them.
True enough, and it is hard to remember sometimes that they're not a religion. But it is still the other way around--the churches are the ones telling people to vote republican or go to hell, not the party![]()
Yeah, the neo-Nazi wing has taken over the party, thanx to Dubya and Rush. Stupid bastards. My hunting buddy insists that you can't have fiscal conservatism without "social conservatism" but in spite of his high intelligence and first rate education, sometimes him plain dumb. Limited government should mean that there are a lot of things that are none of the guvmint's damned business and who you snog, fuck or marry is on that list!
And so is what's in my gunsafe.
You have to remember, to many Republicans George W. Bush is a centrist. So are McCain and Palin.
I believe that William F. Buckley and George Schultz were both fiscal conservatives without being particularly socially conservative. Christopher Buckley probably counts in this group, too, even if there was an ostracism of him for thinking that Obama was the better candidate and not McCain.
I think consideration has to be given to the law of unintended consequences. Many state ( particularly California ) pension and retirement funds are already horribly underfunded ( in part because they are absurdly overgenerous ).
For example, here's the likelihood of 65-year-olds living to certain ages, according to figures from the Society of Actuaries:
Male. A 65-year-old man has a 41% chance of living to age 85 and a 20% chance of living to age 90.
Female. A 65-year-old woman has a 53% chance of living to age 85 and a 32% chance of living to age 90.
Couple. If the man and woman are married, the chance that at least one of them will live to any given age is increased. There's a 72% chance that one of them will live to age 85 and a 45% chance that one will live to age 90. There's even an 18% chance that one of them will live to age 95.
I wonder if actuarial tables even exist for same-sex joint survivorship.
You're asking the wrong question. The real question is if there's a difference between gays who live together as a couple without a marriage certificate and gays who have a marriage certificate. Since I'm not aware of any magic that happens in the ceremony, I suspect the answer to that one will be no. I think the increased life expectancy comes because a couple is more likely to have balanced and regular meals, emotional support, and assistance during injuries and illnesses. There's something to be said for having someone to live for.
I think consideration has to be given to the law of unintended consequences. Many state ( particularly California ) pension and retirement funds are already horribly underfunded ( in part because they are absurdly overgenerous ).
For example, here's the likelihood of 65-year-olds living to certain ages, according to figures from the Society of Actuaries:
Male. A 65-year-old man has a 41% chance of living to age 85 and a 20% chance of living to age 90.
Female. A 65-year-old woman has a 53% chance of living to age 85 and a 32% chance of living to age 90.
Couple. If the man and woman are married, the chance that at least one of them will live to any given age is increased. There's a 72% chance that one of them will live to age 85 and a 45% chance that one will live to age 90. There's even an 18% chance that one of them will live to age 95.
I wonder if actuarial tables even exist for same-sex joint survivorship.
You're asking the wrong question. The real question is if there's a difference between gays who live together as a couple without a marriage certificate and gays who have a marriage certificate. Since I'm not aware of any magic that happens in the ceremony, I suspect the answer to that one will be no. I think the increased life expectancy comes because a couple is more likely to have balanced and regular meals, emotional support, and assistance during injuries and illnesses. There's something to be said for having someone to live for.
If your argument is that gays and lesbians should not be allowed to marry because it would make them live longer, I'd say you're completely off base. They'll live together, own homes together, have children together, etc. whether society lets them marry or not. Easier for everyone to just let them marry.
That's an interesting question.The question I raise is whether there is an unrecognized potential expense to government and society from legalization of same-sex marriage.
Please don't mistake the question for an argument. It is simply that: a question.
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The question I raise is whether there is an unrecognized potential expense to government and society from legalization of same-sex marriage.
Please don't mistake the question for an argument. It is simply that: a question.
Religion, and sexuality, are private matters.
The republicans need eight years in the wilderness to cleanse the cancer at the centre of the party.
40 years is traditional and I think that we should stick with traditionIf eight is enough...