Black male & black female submissives in BDSM ?

[Samuelx]

Hi, folks.


The other night, my girlfriend and I were browsing porn online and we noticed a dearth of black submissions and interracial submission among the BDSM sites.

I'm not talking about the interracial videos where a black guy dominates a preppy blonde woman or some black chick whips a white dude.

I'm talking about videos featuring black male submissives and black female submissives.

I don't see any in Bondage, water sports or whatever.

we only found one site.

www.darkconnections.com

So I decided to write a series featuring black male submissives and submissive black women venturing into interracial domination and BDSM.


Any thoughts ?

 

[Kikori]

It probably happens a lot more in person than the internet shows. But, when you consider it, porn tries to base itself around the fantasies of the target viewers. To most people, interracial domination is probably more inticing than a black lady and black man. So that's what shows up.

It's sad, really. :\

 

[rosco rathbone]

I'm all about the black female submissives.

 

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[Samuelx]

I topped for a very attractive and erotic black woman when I lived in Cincinanti. I have to admit that there were some comfort issues for me at times. The call backs to historical wrongs are pretty obvious. The absolute most bizzare aspect was her desire to role play master / slave in the historical sense. It was not a hard limit for me, but it took a lot of conversations and debate for us to find a place that was comfortable for us both.

The only thing I ever found more bizzare was a Jewish woman in that same group who had a Nazi fetish. She enjoyed being topped by men in Nazi uniforms. The weirdst scene they ever staged for the group was shaving her head followed by a rape fantasy. I don't think anyone in the room could have been LESS comfortable. But I digress ...

It could be a Stupid White Guy thing; maybe the white folks are afraid of offending the black community? If they had known Diane, they'd change that position and help her slip into her heavy steel collar!

Wow. I thought something like this might be going on. I'm not that surprised about the black woman wanting you to play colonial master or the Jewish gal with the Nazi fetish. People got extreme desires yet look completely normal.

Look for stuff like that in my new batch of stories.

I've got 4 so far.

 

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[YourCaptor]

Black female subs are so sexy.

And yes I'm probably saying that cause I'm white, its a skin thing, and its ridiculously hot.

So having been on the lookout for the type, they are extremely rare indeed... makes them that much more desirable when they do come along.

There is a story on lit you may want to check out.

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=85841

If I recall correctly this is the only black sub story on lit that doesn't involve some sort of, "I'll teach you for being black" thing.

 

[graceanne]

Honestly I don't see the thrill in interracial porn/erotica. I also could care less if both the people in them are black. I avoid interracial porn and/or erotica cause it normally just goes completely off the whole interracial thing, and has nothing else to recommend it.

 

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[graceanne]

If you're simply talking porn / erotica then I agree wholeheartedly. But if you're talking the visual appeal of a submissive woman of color, you have no idea what you're missing ...

A) Whatever.

B) I'm a sub. I could care less about the visual appeal of a submissive, 'colored' or not.

 

[BiBunny]

She was talking about interracial porn/erotica. She said so twice in her first post.

 

[rosco rathbone]

, they extremely rare indeed....

Not really. They just aren't hanging out here.

 

[Netzach]

Vi Johnson's memoir is a good read for those interested in early leather, seventies scene, F/f M/s relationships between black women, and reality versus porn.

 

[Netzach]

I'm an "I'll fuck anyone who does it for me" kind of person myself.

I totally get why people would have interesting racial fetishes and hot buttons though. If there's something messed up in our inter-relations in the larger world, it makes sense that people eroticize the twists and turns, just like D/s among men and women has um, ya think something to do with how power and the sexes work?

Oh and South Asians. If I could be said to have a "thing" it's for Indian subcontinentals. But it's a "thing" versus a full on race fetish where I only date guys named Patel.

 

[YourCaptor]

Not really. They just aren't hanging out here.

Please fill me in then on where they do hang out.

 

[Homburg]

I know a few black femsubs (some black Fdoms too). Hell, there are a few that post on here.

 

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[Samuelx]

Here are the first batch of my stories exploring black male and black female submissives in the interracial BDSM scene.


Black Male & Female Submissives

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=396596

Black Female Submissives

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=396470


Blonde Dominates Black Couple

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=396085

Black Couple's Submission


http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=396560


Let me know what you think !!!!

 

[im_a_voyeur]

Not really. They just aren't hanging out here.

I beg to differ.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I beg to differ.

Well, except for you and a couple others.

I was keeping you secret.

 

[im_a_voyeur]

Well, except for you and a couple others.

I was keeping you secret.

My bad. I'll go back to lurking.

 

[rosco rathbone]

My bad. I'll go back to lurking.

And don't let the door hit you on your shaply behind on the way out.

 

[Kajira Callista]

And such a rude, or at the very least curt, one to boot.

It is amazing how when someone says something you dont care to hear in an honest and straight way they are viewed as rude and curt.

 

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[graceanne]

I beg to differ.

LOL

Off hand I know of two others, other than you, who are black. I'm not going to out them. Especially since one's with a white man and they don't advertise the fact because of the hait mail that interracial couples get on this site.

It is amazing how when someone says something you dont care to hear in an honest and straight way they are viewed as rude and curt.

I wasn't going to bother defending myself. I know this is one of those, 'you're a sub and should be calling everyone sir' things. But thank you, anyway. *hugs*