What is you Flavor?

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[lilylicious]

“dungeon master” phase
religious phase
interrogator mode
techno-noir phase

LOL I love how you've named your phases, especially your latest.

I haven't been doing this long enough to have phases with names as witty as yours, but I've been told more than once my style is sensual or that I'm a sensual domme.

While that sounds sexy and everything, I just think it means I'm not being punitive enough.

 

[Puman]

mmm... I guess that makes me "All over the place". Still experimenting, figuring out what works and doesn't. And I won't knock most things till I've tried them at least once...

 

[CutieMouse]

Kinky prude; overly intellectual.

 

[Zoots_owner]

I've enjoyed having my slave dress like an odalisque in an Ottoman harem, had her learn how to belly dance, and so on, but being 24/7 can put a bit of a damper on things like that, especially if there are kids in the house. As the years have gone by I guess I've lost flavors but gained a personal style.

Is "me flavored" a valid answer?

 

[Homburg]

Can't say that I have a style. If anything, I'll fall back on the Beast archetype and stick with that. I tend to work more towards energy and emotion than with any specific toys. I set the mood, and feed off of it.

 

[HotheadKali]

Alternately: aggressive and sadistic or submissive and cuddly.

Or aggressive and cuddly, in which I chew on the person while cuddling them.

 

[HarlotMinx]

Kinky prude; overly intellectual.

I didn't know there was such a thing as overly intellectual.

Moon and my relationship is never a fixed entity. Our relationship revolves around our moods more than any genre. I mean on night she spent the entire night refusing to hurt me, just gave me a 2 hour long oil massage, getting to know every square inch of my body. The next day I found myself mummified in saran wrap with a bunch of ice cubes and stuffed full of ginger. Some days I'm extremely obedient and quiet while on others I'm a absolute brat. I guess we're more in the public play genre, we're both exhibitionists and love to see how far we can push our kink in public. It's actually more a control dynamic, how far she can push me in public.

-poppet

 

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[the_mgp]

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[Netzach]

I've gone from high fetish to more of a lace-trimmed sensual.

 

[Kajira Callista]

hot spiced apple cider

 

[myinnerslut]

bouncy, playful, with a deep seated desire to please, and born to the lash

 

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[dollfla]

i'm definitely still exploring the various 'flavors'. i've found there is a virtural smorgasbord to taste from and, since i don't want to settle for one flavor and possibly miss out on a 'better' one, i'm tasting them all. A bit cautiously, but with a great spirit of adventure. If i were to put a label on the one 'flavor' i'm still looking for, it would be 'intellectual submission' - the quest to find that One that so completely Tops me intellectually that it takes my breath away.

 

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[kittenartist]

Or aggressive and cuddly, in which I chew on the person while cuddling them.

I do that all the time


As for my "flavor"...

Animalistic, possessive, love.

It is very predatory/prey. Very much about ownership -- including being told I seem as if I own the room sometimes and everything is under my surveillance. And love for I am very sappy and romantic.

 

[Homburg]

It is very predatory/prey. Very much about ownership -- including being told I seem as if I own the room sometimes and everything is under my surveillance. And love for I am very sappy and romantic.

I can relate to this in many ways.

 

[ecstaticsub]

A passionate, respectful love affair which demands immediate obedience, total devotion,loyality and honesty. With the added spice of humiliation play, possessiveness, and degradation-type sexual activity countered with after care of long loving tantric sex.

 

[dollfla]

How do you see that going? When you close your eyes and play that scene out in your head, what will it look like?

Hmmm, how would such a scene play out? i haven't really developed a 'scene'; it's more a collage of thoughts, vague images, imagined settings not yet fleshed out. Perhaps 'intellectual submission' is not the correct term. i can't seem to find words for what i'm thinking. Let me see if i can explain better. i'm a very auditory submissive; what i'm imagining is a scene that is set by the Dom's words, a somewhat constant flow of speech, setting the scene, talking me through it. i am definitely NOT aroused by so-called 'dirty talk'' that, i believe is what led me to the term 'intellectual submission'. A Dom/Master that has a strong command of language, and can arouse me through His words is what i'm searching for. A Dom/Master with a mind that can paint images, and them make them reality. Have i muddied the waters even more?

 

[kinkyknickers]

Carpaccio!

Raw, meaty and tasty. A fine cut that spoils very easily. Favoured by only those with discerning tastes and an educated palate.

 

[eastern sun]

hot wife. bad girl. domestic servant.

 

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[dollfla]

Not at all; please feel free to expound as it comes to you.

As i think about it more, i'm starting to get a better idea as to 'my flavor'. It's a submission of the mind as well as the body. But submission of the mind is more difficult to obtain. i'm strong-willed, by both nature and circumstances, and it would take a very strong-minded Dom to gain that sort of submission from me.