If you started out again, what would you tell yourself?

[emme8]

I would tell my early self not to be afraid to ask for more of what I needed.
I always played on the safe side and little did I know my amazingly perfect husband is so perfect he want to share me.

 

[SandraMaus]

Never giving my ok y agin to use ' Harder ' as safe word

 

[Dearelliot]

"Easy...nice and easy."