Anne_Prospere
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Feb 14, 2006
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- 385
"you never talk to me"
I hear various versions of this statement often. It is not untrue, and I feel badly about it but I can not seem to get over this inability to have a lot of free flow conversation with my Dom.
I do not like to tell him what I am thinking, I tend to keep our conversations to his job, sex, and whatever happens to be on his mind at the time.
It wasnt always this way, but the better we got to know one another, the more we struggled to just talk. He has become aware of my idiosyncrasies in our time together and often our conversations are peppered with criticisms of the way I speak to him, what I talk about, my sincerity.. among many.. many other things.
It is hard to imagine over coming this, it seems as though we are destined to communicate less and less with our interaction consisting of his wishes, and my agreement.
what do you want for dinner?
whatever you want Sir.
What do you want to do this weekend?
whatever you want Sir.
Do you like the color green?
I dont know, what do you think of green, Sir?
Is this just something I should accept and seek out back and forth conversation with outside people instead?
I feel as though he wants to hear my thoughts.. but only if I am thinking what he is thinking.. what do you think?
I hear various versions of this statement often. It is not untrue, and I feel badly about it but I can not seem to get over this inability to have a lot of free flow conversation with my Dom.
I do not like to tell him what I am thinking, I tend to keep our conversations to his job, sex, and whatever happens to be on his mind at the time.
It wasnt always this way, but the better we got to know one another, the more we struggled to just talk. He has become aware of my idiosyncrasies in our time together and often our conversations are peppered with criticisms of the way I speak to him, what I talk about, my sincerity.. among many.. many other things.
It is hard to imagine over coming this, it seems as though we are destined to communicate less and less with our interaction consisting of his wishes, and my agreement.
what do you want for dinner?
whatever you want Sir.
What do you want to do this weekend?
whatever you want Sir.
Do you like the color green?
I dont know, what do you think of green, Sir?
Is this just something I should accept and seek out back and forth conversation with outside people instead?
I feel as though he wants to hear my thoughts.. but only if I am thinking what he is thinking.. what do you think?
