Being taken with a strap on am I bad for feeling this....
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Kikori
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It doesn't kill your masculinity to have someone use your body. If you need a 'manly' way to think about it, you'll be giving whoever does this for you permission. It's not my favorite way to view it, but it is one way to save face, if that's what you're worried about.
There's only one way to find out what about it makes you blush and turned on the most, if anyone around you is willing. Believe me, you're not alone when it comes to thinking of or enjoying being taken by a strap-on.
If you do try it, just make sure you're physically ready. You probably already know about the body and having to get prepared for anything anal. If not, read this and practice on your own (or even with whoever you're with) for a while before moving to the strap-ons.
There's only one way to find out what about it makes you blush and turned on the most, if anyone around you is willing. Believe me, you're not alone when it comes to thinking of or enjoying being taken by a strap-on.
If you do try it, just make sure you're physically ready. You probably already know about the body and having to get prepared for anything anal. If not, read this and practice on your own (or even with whoever you're with) for a while before moving to the strap-ons.
wouldloveto
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Don't sweat it so much!
I enjoy that sort of play a lot... I mean that I really like it, I do not get it enough.
I enjoy that sort of play a lot... I mean that I really like it, I do not get it enough.
madetotakeit
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If it is something you enjoy the thought of, then enjoy the thoughts and when you are ready put it into practice. It is consensual, it is a desire that many men have. A big thing for many people to overcome is what society has programmed them to think of as acceptable gender behavior...or just acceptable behavior in general. Keep in mind, none of those unknown people will be present to voice their disapproval. IMO there is nothing emasculating about a man who knows what he likes and seeks it out. It takes a strong person to admit to him/herself that they are who they are and to be at peace with that.
ataxia.girl
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i have thought for a long time now that one service i would love to provide an Owner would be to be the only person he trusted enough to let\request me to penetrate him. i would adore to be an innocent child who knew no taboos who cheerfully strapped on a pink dildo and stuck her Daddy with it.
Sometimes i think about sticking it in a little subby dog boy but i also like the idea of sticking my tongue, finger, play-cock in my Daddy... It would mean something for him to trust me that much... or think me so harmless he would allow me to do that.
It has absolutely nothing to do with Dominating Him and everything to do with feeling carefree and innocent enough to explore all things and Him nurturing and accommodating that curiosity.
Sometimes i think about sticking it in a little subby dog boy but i also like the idea of sticking my tongue, finger, play-cock in my Daddy... It would mean something for him to trust me that much... or think me so harmless he would allow me to do that.
It has absolutely nothing to do with Dominating Him and everything to do with feeling carefree and innocent enough to explore all things and Him nurturing and accommodating that curiosity.
shutter1975
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I think about it all the time. I masterbate thinking about, I even play with my ass. I keep hoping I will have the opportunity to try it but it is looking doubtful at this point in time.
littlegrizz02
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I've talked my wife in to taking me with a strap on and I loved it. She didn't and never did or will do me again. Oh well, now I just strap it to a chair and fuck myself and love it. I would love to try the real thing someday.
Harmony_1985
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Not the messiah?
Xelebes
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No, and he never will be! Always thinking about sex, that boy!
greeneyed_Lady
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No.. should it be?
FurryFury
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almasy7292
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It is not a bad fantasy at all...and receiving it is incredibly fun.
unfoundiamond
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**Carazy Look**
There is only something wrong if you think there is...
*twilight zone music*
....jk....
No... To each his own... dildo even!
There is only something wrong if you think there is...
*twilight zone music*
....jk....
No... To each his own... dildo even!
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VelvetDarkness
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This is the kinky section of a porn board, poppet. Here, it's not wrong in the slightest. Log onto some Bible thumpin' Christian forum with the same question and you might just get a different response.
Our opinion is irrelevant and largely meaningless. Yours is the one that counts.
human_male
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It's only bad if you really want it and you can't get it.
Like, err... this guy I know.
Who's not me.
Like, err... this guy I know.
Who's not me.
VelvetDarkness
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Hmm... that's a dangerous analogy you know. Some people think that there's nothing wrong with rape, murder, mass murder, genocide, wearing pink with orange... are they right simply because they believe they are?
Nothing wrong with you at all!
I love it either as part of sub Dom session or in vanilla times just because it feels so good!
Too many blokes are totally dissmissive or (amazingly) afraid of being turned or thought of as gay and will never know what they are missing out on.
Start slowly, use lots of lube and relax the results will be explosive....
I love it either as part of sub Dom session or in vanilla times just because it feels so good!
Too many blokes are totally dissmissive or (amazingly) afraid of being turned or thought of as gay and will never know what they are missing out on.
Start slowly, use lots of lube and relax the results will be explosive....
An answer from a fairly vanilla non-BDSM person
Let's put it this way, I am fairly vanilla compared to most of the people on this board, and I don't think your fantasy is weird in an unhealthy way. People have odd fantasies. They just do. Simple as that. I have had fantasies about doing something like that from the female's side but my man is not into it unfortunately. ---I think if I really, really expressed a want to do it, he would, but I don;t want to have him doing something he is not into---
But you just inspired me to put a scene about that into a chapter of the novel I am working on
You are not a weirdo.
Now, if you pour blueberry juice all over your cock while you do it, then you are a weirdo.
Let's put it this way, I am fairly vanilla compared to most of the people on this board, and I don't think your fantasy is weird in an unhealthy way. People have odd fantasies. They just do. Simple as that. I have had fantasies about doing something like that from the female's side but my man is not into it unfortunately. ---I think if I really, really expressed a want to do it, he would, but I don;t want to have him doing something he is not into---
But you just inspired me to put a scene about that into a chapter of the novel I am working on
You are not a weirdo.
Now, if you pour blueberry juice all over your cock while you do it, then you are a weirdo.
