Chicago Litogether 2008 After Action Report

It was all good darlin.;)



It's not for everyone. The man who did that with me was very skilled and observant. Knew when to push my limits. It was a great experience for me.

*grins* Now I really wish I could have seen Jen.:devil:

I really wish you would have too...........:rose:
 
Hey S-Des, that's OK the spectrum of Dom/BDSM is quite wide. From what you say here is that you are more of a sensualist type. Which can be it's own fun right there. If you think the spanking was hard stuff, then yeah, you're on the lighter side of the scale. The darker side isn't for everyone. But what you are talking about sounds really fun. :devil:

When we first talked about hooking up, I was quite intimidated because I wasn't sure what to do or how far to take it. Since her previous boyfriend had been quite experienced with BDSM (even the darker side), I felt a little unsure of myself. We talked about it and she made me believe that she wouldn't enjoy it if I didn't enjoy doing it to her. Once we got that settled, it became quite fun to come up with naughty ways to express myself! :D

The controlling aspects were always my favorites. Making her beg (which was tough for her because she'd freeze up while excited) was probably the single coolest. When she did it, she really meant it, which did as much for me as anything I did for her.
 
... Once we got that settled, it became quite fun to come up with naughty ways to express myself! :D

The controlling aspects were always my favorites. Making her beg (which was tough for her because she'd freeze up while excited) was probably the single coolest. When she did it, she really meant it, which did as much for me as anything I did for her.

I suck at begging but I know it turns some on. But at times it can be fun, embarrassing, silly, exciting.
 
I suck at begging but I know it turns some on. But at times it can be fun, embarrassing, silly, exciting.

Plus I'd make her perform or she wouldn't get what she really wanted (and the spanking would continue as "punishment"). That gave her the option of stringing it out if it's what she wanted.
 
She didn't. The "What happens" mantra is for people to talk about what others did, not what they did. If I want to talk about how I went home Friday night and took a REALLY cold shower for about an hour, I'm gonna do it! :cool:

That's what I thought...but I don't want to make anybody uncomfortable here.
 
OK folks, have yourselves a good night. I'm not reading through 28 pages again, so if you're going to get crazy make sure someone takes cliff notes. :rose:
 
Me? Not Subtle? I was a well behaved wench. Quiet, demur.

(at least until people got me talking rope);)

Actually, if I remember correctly, you told me I missed a couple of signs as well. Maybe you're a bit more subtle than you think. ;)
 
OK folks, have yourselves a good night. I'm not reading through 28 pages again, so if you're going to get crazy make sure someone takes cliff notes. :rose:


Night Des, we'll save you the post-it versions.:cool:
 
Me? Not Subtle? I was a well behaved wench. Quiet, demur.

(at least until people got me talking rope);)

yes, I believe that more now that I've quoted...

...after all, I do know something about my girlfriend and her ways...
 
This always seems to need repeating...


Men Do Not Get Hints.
 
yes, I believe that more now that I've quoted...

...after all, I do know something about my girlfriend and her ways...


Well you two were missed, the picture didn't do you two justice although it is a very sexy pic.
 
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