Chicago Litogether 2008 After Action Report

[fieryjen]

Spam in our Chicago thread!

I feel so... dirty. *shudders*

 

[Katyusha]

Spam in our Chicago thread!

I feel so... dirty. *shudders*

I was going to say violated...

Where are the guys so we can get some comfort for such a horrendous violation?

 

[fieryjen]

I was going to say violated...

Where are the guys so we can get some comfort for such a horrendous violation?

Violated is a better word... dirty has too good of a connotation, now that I think about it. Good point.

*shudders more*

 

[S-Des]

I was going to say violated...

Where are the guys so we can get some comfort for such a horrendous violation?

Did I hear a request for guys?

 

[fieryjen]

Did I hear a request for guys?

Take advantage and hug us already

 

[S-Des]

Jen, your scene will just . . . I think the best word is . . . "frighten" me.

Funny, I thought her demonstration was a bit tame for my tastes (although quite enjoyable, nonetheless).

 

[S-Des]

Take advantage and hug us already

A hug would be good, but I prefer the taking advantage part.

 

[fieryjen]

Funny, I thought her demonstration was a bit tame for my tastes (although quite enjoyable, nonetheless).

For mine too

(yeah, yeah, now I say that... )

 

[mansome]

I was going to say violated...

Where are the guys so we can get some comfort for such a horrendous violation?

hmmm.. gonna have to check the previous pages to find the source of this violation.....

but I'm here now gorgeous.......

 

[voluptuary_manque]

Hugs we can do though taking out the bat-with-the-nail-in-the-end sounds more appropriate. Die, bots, die!

S-Des, ol' buddy, that's why the AV is a teddy-bear. Anything that even looks like it might hurt gets my back up. I'm just . . . nervous about the whole Leather scene. Tied down and sent into ecstacy is a wonderful thing to do, but I'd prefer to use a different approach. In fact, I don't think I could even try a non-gentle approach. Different strokes, etc.

 

[Katyusha]

Did I hear a request for guys?

Yes! Thank god you're here... *buries face on your chest*

 

[Katyusha]

hmmm.. gonna have to check the previous pages to find the source of this violation.....

but I'm here now gorgeous.......

The source of the violation is at the top of this page...good god hold me. *tears*

 

[S-Des]

For mine too

(yeah, yeah, now I say that... )

Trust me, I might have been a gentleman at the time, but when I was holding your arms up so they could tie you, I was having far less pure thoughts....

 

[fieryjen]

Trust me, I might have been a gentleman at the time, but when I was holding your arms up so they could tie you, I was having far less pure thoughts....

I wouldn't doubt it

And my own thoughts at that point weren't all that pure either.

 

[S-Des]

Yes! Thank god you're here... *buries face on your chest*

That's OK Kat, I'll protect you. But if you want, you can move a little lower.

 

[mansome]

The source of the violation is at the top of this page...good god hold me. *tears*

ahh I see...

Fucker........... *flicks* it away........


*holds* the beautiful one................

 

[S-Des]

I wouldn't doubt it

And my own thought at that point weren't all that pure either.

Although I enjoy being quite aggressive, I found that it's an extension of my feelings for someone. When I'm around someone new (or if their husband is 3 feet away), I'm far more cautious. You saw the pics, I'm more than happy to indulge my partner in her "impure" thoughts.

 

[S-Des]

Hugs we can do though taking out the bat-with-the-nail-in-the-end sounds more appropriate. Die, bots, die!

S-Des, ol' buddy, that's why the AV is a teddy-bear. Anything that even looks like it might hurt gets my back up. I'm just . . . nervous about the whole Leather scene. Tied down and sent into ecstacy is a wonderful thing to do, but I'd prefer to use a different approach. In fact, I don't think I could even try a non-gentle approach. Different strokes, etc.

I couldn't explain where I fall in the Dom/BDSM world. I tend to enjoy pushing my partner to new experiences, exhibitionism, restraints, teasing, forced begging, and orgasm denial (for a time). The harder stuff is OK (especially the spanking), but Jen goes a tad beyond my comfort level as well (the clothespins thing is completely meh for me).

 

[Katyusha]

That's OK Kat, I'll protect you. But if you want, you can move a little lower.

*moves lower...slowly*

 

[Katyusha]

ahh I see...

Fucker........... *flicks* it away........


*holds* the beautiful one................

Mmmm...keep holding me...

 

[S-Des]

Mmmm...keep holding me...

Wait, if you're moving lower, where's he going to hold.....oh, er...never mind.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

I couldn't explain where I fall in the Dom/BDSM world. I tend to enjoy pushing my partner to new experiences, exhibitionism, restraints, teasing . . .

With that I am in full accord. Orgasm denial in my case would be just cruel, given how hard it is for her to achieve, and the first wince after a slap would reduce me to tears. There's another loved on in the "community" who likes clips and clothespins and it just makes my skin crawl. But as long as the ladies are happy . . .

 

[Katyusha]

Wait, if you're moving lower, where's he going to hold.....oh, er...never mind.

Guess.

 

[S-Des]

and the first wince after a slap would reduce me to tears.

Trust me, if you saw the expressions Jen made, you wouldn't think of them as winces.

People are all wired differently. I learned long ago not to assume that each woman would react to the same things (or even let me try all the same things). My last relationship is going to take a long time to get over. She reacted wonderfully to everything I tried and would come as many times as I wanted her to. It allows you to do a lot of different things.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

Then, if the same sort of demo is done next year, I will peek in the door . . . or stand next to it if in need of retreat . . . or something. No sense in attempting to judge something you've never experienced or witnessed, after all. Color me . . . cautious.